hopes were made sky high....but its all white lies...
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broke up with her as she had another without me knowing. broke down. she told me to wait as she told me that she and him wont last...i waited. she broke off with him...we were like normal. we talked about the future. another guy comes...she neglected me again. i was made use time and again but i dont wana say. to make her happy i obliged, help her in everything, even if it involves helping her and her new guy. she seems not to appreciate. now im left like this again. why must it hurt like this...she made alot of empty promises ..will the stuff we just talked about recently about the future lies too? i love her so much even if it hurts but i had been driven to my limits after she lied again and saw things that she still denied. should i stop pursuing her? or ? continue? need your help guys. but i love her too much...
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u shd just move on.
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Originally posted by dou suru no..:broke up with her as she had another without me knowing. broke down. she told me to wait as she told me that she and him wont last...i waited. she broke off with him...we were like normal. we talked about the future. another guy comes...she neglected me again. i was made use time and again but i dont wana say. to make her happy i obliged, help her in everything, even if it involves helping her and her new guy. she seems not to appreciate. now im left like this again. why must it hurt like this...she made alot of empty promises ..will the stuff we just talked about recently about the future lies too? i love her so much even if it hurts but i had been driven to my limits after she lied again and saw things that she still denied. should i stop pursuing her? or ? continue? need your help guys. but i love her too much...
You were willing to heed those lies.
Eventually you are the cause of your own suffering because you dictate your own course.
Break the chain or live in delusion.
Your call.
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a love fool... wake up cos theres many gals around...Originally posted by dou suru no..:broke up with her as she had another without me knowing. broke down. she told me to wait as she told me that she and him wont last...i waited. she broke off with him...we were like normal. we talked about the future. another guy comes...she neglected me again. i was made use time and again but i dont wana say. to make her happy i obliged, help her in everything, even if it involves helping her and her new guy. she seems not to appreciate. now im left like this again. why must it hurt like this...she made alot of empty promises ..will the stuff we just talked about recently about the future lies too? i love her so much even if it hurts but i had been driven to my limits after she lied again and saw things that she still denied. should i stop pursuing her? or ? continue? need your help guys. but i love her too much... -
go for missqi.
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Ah plz ...... Missqi is actually Uncle Qi behind the keyboard using his daughter to flirt with you guys lah !Originally posted by dragg:go for missqi. -
well u had urself
blame in on urself to get togetehr with some local gals -
do thatOriginally posted by FireIce:u shd just move on. -
huh?Originally posted by 0lala:well u had urself
blame in on urself to get togetehr with some local gals -
local girls are problematic becuz they're so over westernized
he had himself to blame bcuz he wana to hook one up -
oh i see...thanks for the clarification
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she is just making use of u...
honestly,i really dont think she loves you.
she is taking advantage of the fact that you still love her to use you (and im guessing your cash and whatnot too).
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I wanna expand on the above post:Originally posted by Yunhaier: You were willing to heed those lies.
Eventually you are the cause of your own suffering because you dictate your own course.
Break the chain or live in delusion.
Your call.
Cheers
Ever heard of "Knowing the fire burns, the moth still flies towards it"?
You know it will lead to more pain and hurt, yet you held on to the slightest hope that she keeps her word and your love for her. You let your emotions rule over your head because you still have feelings for her.
Many here tell you to let it go. I will not say the same because its your decision. I just want to ask you though, "Is it worth the pain to hold on to a promise you most likely know it will be empty?"
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Now now, you are generalising here. Not all are "over westernized". Its more of the individual's feelings and thinkings which affect the decisions when he/she/it find someone he/she/it gets attracted to.Originally posted by 0lala:local girls are problematic becuz they're so over westernized
he had himself to blame bcuz he wana to hook one up -
how many times do you need to get cheated?
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Correct.Originally posted by Bontakun:Now now, you are generalising here. Not all are "over westernized". Its more of the individual's feelings and thinkings which affect the decisions when he/she/it find someone he/she/it gets attracted to.
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these are the traits of over-westernisation-gals who dun give a shyt about relationshipsOriginally posted by Bontakun:Now now, you are generalising here. Not all are "over westernized". Its more of the individual's feelings and thinkings which affect the decisions when he/she/it find someone he/she/it gets attracted to.
back in the 70's,we dun see gals like this so widespread like this -
In times of changes, we need to do smth to adjust and accustom to the changes. Like how SG in the 80s was all about industrialisation. Now? Its more of innovation and creativity and ingenuity.Originally posted by 0lala:these are the traits of over-westernisation-gals who dun give a shyt about relationships back in the 70's,we dun see gals like this so widespread like this
We have to constantly upgrade or modify ourselves so we can dun feel left out in the society.
With relations to girls of today compared to girls of the 70s. Time changed. We cant change back time and we certainly cant do much about changing the people in this time. At least we can try to change ourselves.
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Not exactly. Back in the 70s, men behave more like men and can keep the women. Men have pride, honour and class. Women those days respect men. R/s those days were not as complicated as now. R/s now is needlessly complicated.Originally posted by 0lala:these are the traits of over-westernisation-gals who dun give a shyt about relationships
back in the 70's,we dun see gals like this so widespread like this
doko -
Anymore provocative comments on local girls will be edited.Originally posted by 0lala:these are the traits of over-westernisation-gals who dun give a shyt about relationships
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gals these days are a down rotten bunch and a common obvious sight.Originally posted by Bontakun:In times of changes, we need to do smth to adjust and accustom to the changes. Like how SG in the 80s was all about industrialisation. Now? Its more of innovation and creativity and ingenuity.
We have to constantly upgrade or modify ourselves so we can dun feel left out in the society.
With relations to girls of today compared to girls of the 70s. Time changed. We cant change back time and we certainly cant do much about changing the people in this time. At least we can try to change ourselves.
we need'nt deny that
i believe r/s shld be kept simple but needless to say,most gals are making it way too complicated nowadays
how are the guys gonna keep up with this issue
and what do u propose of changing ourselves?
"can't beat em,join em?"
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You did not met ALL the girls right? How can you be sure of what you said?Originally posted by 0lala:gals these days are a down rotten bunch and a common obvious sight. we need'nt deny that i believe r/s shld be kept simple but needless to say,most gals are making it way too complicated nowadays how are the guys gonna keep up with this issue
and what do u propose of changing ourselves? "can't beat em,join em?"
nah,i dun take that crap
Many people have a very realistic concept of relationship between guy and girl: They see, they like, they date. That is normal. What makes the difference is how time and the surroundings can influence people in their decision making.
We cannot blame people for being realistic because the world is this realistic, but if we do not give people a second chance, we are not giving ourselves the second chance too. Through this, we are denying ourselves the potential happiness and joy we can have if we are as realistic and cold as the world wants us to.
Give them another chance. Give yourself another chance.
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congratz to ur baptizm
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ur right,the influence around affect people's decesion.Originally posted by Bontakun:You did not met ALL the girls right? How can you be sure of what you said?
Many people have a very realistic concept of relationship between guy and girl: They see, they like, they date. That is normal. What makes the difference is how time and the surroundings can influence people in their decision making.
We cannot blame people for being realistic because the world is this realistic, but if we do not give people a second chance, we are not giving ourselves the second chance too. Through this, we are denying ourselves the potential happiness and joy we can have if we are as realistic and cold as the world wants us to.
Give them another chance. Give yourself another chance.
Beers.
but i wun see that as a valid excuse for gal's/guys to justify their cause by giving this as their reason.
U get hit by the 'bug',u join em, and i'll see them as one..basket of bad eggs -
Thanks. Dat 1 leave it in EH bah.Originally posted by 0lala:congratz to ur baptizm