Communicate with opposite sex
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Hello, I need pointers on how to communicate with my opposite gender's friends aka female friends.
Most of the time when we chat, we come to a stop...cause I dunno what to chat about, and she also dunno...then a bit awkard...hope to get some pointers here! -
talk about fashion, movies, talk about her. hope that helps.
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Communication is an art, not something which can be learned overnight.
As the saying goes, "the best place to learn swimming is in the pool, not out of the pool."
Go and chat up as many gals as u can, make all the mistakes u have to make and trust me, u will have improved tremendously by that time. -
Read up on general knowledge, current fashion trends, gossips (sure work for this one) and find out things she's interested in.
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Perhpas u will be more suited to chat with people of the same sex.
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i thought i have same case with u.Originally posted by Y_Shun:Hello, I need pointers on how to communicate with my opposite gender's friends aka female friends.
Most of the time when we chat, we come to a stop...cause I dunno what to chat about, and she also dunno...then a bit awkard...hope to get some pointers here!
some gals i dare to chat until A-Z..
some gals i can't coz my brain suddenly hang.. dunno which topic to talk.. darn!
Any advice?!
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Haha try reading the book whatsit "She's from Venus and He's from Mars" or something like that.
Girls love to be pampered and showered with attention.
Ask about her dress, her work, her holidays.
If she is frustrated over something, be a listening ear for her.
Girls also attracted to knowledeable guys (this is what I heard) in that there are more intelligent conversations.
Girls hate corky, show off guys. No class.
Ultimately, get to know her first by listening to her.
Once you know more about her likes and dislikes, you can talk to her on the things she likes to hear.
If you do not know about the things that she likes, go and find out. Come back next time and show to her you care about what they say. This will really melt their hearts.
Happy dating dude! -
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its romantic plus it works -
When youy talk to her talk about HER.v important.
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I just want to communicate, not develop BGR....
I dun want her to get suspicious of me or get the wrong idea of me...later screwed up, no need to be friends anymore.
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what do u talk to your guy friends about?Originally posted by Y_Shun:Hello, I need pointers on how to communicate with my opposite gender's friends aka female friends.
Most of the time when we chat, we come to a stop...cause I dunno what to chat about, and she also dunno...then a bit awkard...hope to get some pointers here! -
Don't listen to their nonsense.
Now listen carefully, when it comes to silent again, just fart. -
talk about chee soon juan, mee siam w/o hum, manchester united, nokia n73 and whether she like to eat roti john
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ask them about their life story lor.
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Ive been watching alot of David Letterman YouTube videos. I watch very carefully how he talked to the female interviewees. Why dont you catch afew of his videos, I think you will learn afew pointers.
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Originally posted by #$%^&*:Ive been watching alot of David Letterman YouTube videos. I watch very carefully how he talked to the female interviewees. Why dont you catch afew of his videos, I think you will learn afew pointers.
him? k la...hes gd but i dun think u wan to interview ur frens rite... -
Aiyoh last time i have the same problem with u but slowly enough u will learn how to communicate with dem deh la
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hmm, i think you just be yourself lor. If u are the chatty sort, then chat anything under the sun. Clothes, fashion, tv shows will be good conversation starters.
But if the opposite sex is someone u like, then u better watch what u say. I find that sometimes, gals would not go for guys who talk w/o thinking. -
No problem.Originally posted by Patrik:Perhpas u will be more suited to chat with people of the same sex. 
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seriously, u need to make her feel that she is comfortable talking to u...
and it takes real practice to do it ba
well, u can start by talking to her and asking her likes and dislikes and the things she loves to do. if u wann create a topic, u needa see what she's interested in, and u guyz can further talk about it. for eg, the korean drama goong seems to be a very popular topic nowadays, so if u know that she's watching, u can ask her about her opinions, and afte sometime, she will get to know u and u are able to communicate with her anytime
tried that, did that, and it worked -
George: Hey honey, how ya doin'? *MUACK*
Beryl: Hmmm, mm, let's have some candy, shall we? spanky-spanky...
George: Let's talk about sex.
Beryl: WHAT!?
George: Ok, NPNT. -
Talk?
You mean we're supposed to actually talk to them?
I have a self-timing program internally built within me that is set to go off every five minutes while she is yapping away. I turn this program on whenever I have a conversation with the opposite sex.
Here are some of the commands I have keyed in :
"Yes."
"Ah."
"Mhm."
"I feel sorry for you." <- A female's most favourite line.
User feedback has been largely positive. -
Can i download you? What version and what stage of development are you at/in?
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Going past the beta stages. The automated scripts still need that little bit of tweaking.
Here are some of the evaluation comments from the feedback forms :
"Your eyes. I love how they stare into mine." - Random dumb chick #1
Guess you couldn't tell I was stoned huh sweetheart.
"You're a great listener." - Random dumb chick #2
What was it you were moaning about again?
"Thank you for sympathising with me.. I'm glad I finally someone who cares." - Random dumb chick #3
Yes. I sympathise how your melodramatic life seems to revolves around trivialities such as the gossip from your equally bitchy friends, the pain from your stilettos, the lack of time for your shopping, the 0.001kg you recently gained, the slight headache which you describe till it sounds like a terminal case etc
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With FakingIt, you too can communicate with members of the opposite sex. And get to bed them. Because admit it, that's all you really want. -
For emergency use only (when really got no topic to tok):
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