SomeOne Help Me - Just break up with my bf

• Yunhaier

  31 Oct 06, 15:22

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  of course!! buy and give to friends also!!!
  
  hahaha
  
  "got problem, read this book can liao la"

  Wah! Gan dong...
  
  Cheers
• blu_sky

  31 Oct 06, 15:22

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Two sales! Ok good... can plan liao.
  
  Cheers

  No wonder you are so active in AA! Doing your long term business plan here huh?
  
  Man with foresight indeed!
• smudgey

  31 Oct 06, 15:25

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Wah! Gan dong...
  
  Cheers

  *hands Yun some tissue*
  
  no prob!!!
  
• Yunhaier

  31 Oct 06, 15:26

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  No wonder you are so active in AA! Doing your long term business plan here huh?
  
  Man with foresight indeed!

  These days... everything is about branding...
  
  Cheers
• YoGurt75

  31 Oct 06, 15:29

  Think in a better way... luckily u r not married to him... Move on... time will heal...
• uglypig

  31 Oct 06, 15:32

  Originally posted by Karkadann:

  We all go through difficult parts of our lives. In this case, it is a bad breakup that leads to a sense of feeling hopeless and bitter.Looking at the situation, it is obvious the guy was already planning this for a while. Maybe even seeing another person behind your back before he is successful in winning her heart before breaking up with you. Chances are the other party might not even know you exist. In any case,it is not worth your time crying over someone like this. We grieve not because we have grown to love that person alot but we love ourselves and cannot deal with the pain and hurt when he decides to leave our life. So I will encourage you to love yourself and life more as that will be the way to walk out of the darkness.
  
  The magic is in positive thinking.Believe that everything happen for a reason and this relationship ended to allow you to know and meet someone even better. So stay positive. Go out ,know more people and who knows? You might just find someone who is more suitable for you and love you even more than life itself.

  He did told me he already think of breaking up with me for a few weeks already. He say he dun know how to say as he say i am a good girl and dun want to hurt me but it still hurt me loh. hai. Ask me to go and find my happiness. Sad...
• smudgey

  31 Oct 06, 15:33

  Originally posted by uglypig:

  He did told me he already think of breaking up with me for a few weeks already. He say he dun know how to say as he say i am a good girl and dun want to hurt me but it still hurt me loh. hai. Ask me to go and find my happiness. Sad...

  u should listen to him
• Yunhaier

  31 Oct 06, 15:34

  Originally posted by uglypig:

  He did told me he already think of breaking up with me for a few weeks already. He say he dun know how to say as he say i am a good girl and dun want to hurt me but it still hurt me loh. hai. Ask me to go and find my happiness. Sad...

  Then you will show him the happiness you will get, which he happily gave up.
  
  Cheers
• Karkadann

  31 Oct 06, 15:43

  Originally posted by uglypig:

  He did told me he already think of breaking up with me for a few weeks already. He say he dun know how to say as he say i am a good girl and dun want to hurt me but it still hurt me loh. hai. Ask me to go and find my happiness. Sad...

  It is never easy to break up with someone. Especially when the two of you have been so much in love before but sometimes feelings fade... no point grabbing onto the past.Look onwards to the future instead. We always try not to hurt the other person in a break up situation but it's hard. If we soften up, the other party might think there is still a chance to get back together again so at times we have to be harsh so the other party can move on in life. One cannot find happiness.One must first allow himself or herself to be happy. It has to come from inside you. So make the decision today to want to be happy. People around you can do everything for you but if you choose to stay knee deep in self pity and sorrow,than nothing helps. As I said before, love yourself.
• rainee

  31 Oct 06, 15:50

  Originally posted by uglypig:

  He did told me he already think of breaking up with me for a few weeks already. He say he dun know how to say as he say i am a good girl and dun want to hurt me but it still hurt me loh. hai. Ask me to go and find my happiness. Sad...

  you will find your happiness one day, even if he is no longer in your life...
  
  For now, just take your time to grieve Take this as a growing up lesson...growing up is full of pains anyway!
• waliao

  31 Oct 06, 15:57

  Originally posted by rainee:

  you will find your happiness one day, even if he is no longer in your life...
  
  For now, just take your time to grieve Take this as a growing up lesson...growing up is full of pains anyway!

  ya lor... rainee even found her new love on e forums...oops... say too much liao... better siam b4 she murders me
• rainee

  31 Oct 06, 15:58

  Originally posted by waliao:

  ya lor... rainee even found her new love on e forums...oops... say too much liao... better siam b4 she murders me

  are u a clone of someone i know?
• smudgey

  31 Oct 06, 16:07

  Originally posted by waliao:

  ya lor... rainee even found her new love on e forums...oops... say too much liao... better siam b4 she murders me

  hahaha
  
  naughty naughty....
  
  although everyone know liao but still shhhh.....
• blu_sky

  31 Oct 06, 16:08

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  hahaha
  
  naughty naughty....
  
  although everyone know liao but still shhhh.....

  ya! i think so too
• waliao

  31 Oct 06, 16:09

  Originally posted by rainee:

  are u a clone of someone i know?

  nope. I just happened to be around when the entire fight for ur hand thingy occured.
• rainee

  31 Oct 06, 16:10

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  hahaha
  
  naughty naughty....
  
  although everyone know liao but still shhhh.....

  me considered very low profile liao lately...
  
  but those who have met me, obviously cannot hide from them...
• rainee

  31 Oct 06, 16:11

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  ya! i think so too

  u oso know? have i met u before? cos like never see ur nick before leh...
  
  haiz memory failing...
• rainee

  31 Oct 06, 16:11

  Originally posted by waliao:

  nope. I just happened to be around when the entire fight for ur hand thingy occured.

  i still tink u r a clone of someone i know
• dork3d

  31 Oct 06, 16:14

  Maybe now you've seen the worst side of him, and it's better for you to know that he's of such a character before both of you develop further...
  
  The world won't stop because of him, it continues... He doesn't deserve you or worthy for you...
  
  He's not the only tree in the whole forest and desirably for you to give up on the rest of the trees in the forest...
  
  It might hurt deep inside now, but time will help to heal...
  
  Be strong... Not all guys will be like him...
• blu_sky

  31 Oct 06, 16:14

  Originally posted by rainee:

  u oso know? have i met u before? cos like never see ur nick before leh...
  
  haiz memory failing...

  Nope, we've never met b4. I'm new here
  
  
• Diesel_Dimension

  31 Oct 06, 16:15

  Look at my post and u'll feel better...
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
• rainee

  31 Oct 06, 16:19

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  Nope, we've never met b4. I'm new here
  
  

  orh ic ic...
  
  me have been here pretty long...lolz, more than 2 years liao
  
  
• blu_sky

  31 Oct 06, 16:21

  Originally posted by rainee:

  orh ic ic...
  
  me have been here pretty long...lolz, more than 2 years liao
  
  

  You seem like quite a nice girl!
  Nice meetin you!
• waliao

  31 Oct 06, 16:22

  Originally posted by rainee:

  i still tink u r a clone of someone i know

  Choice 1) Neko Rin 2) Mayi 3)Starpuppy 4) non of the above.
• rainee

  31 Oct 06, 16:29

  Originally posted by waliao:

  Choice 1) Neko Rin 2) Mayi 3)Starpuppy 4) non of the above.

  none of the above