Originally posted by scuderiaboy:
thanks for yr advise everyone!
hmm lemme clarify some things. 1stly[b] i cannot sit with her as there are her other grp of friends sitting wif her. She always is either in between them or she seats at the corner and the other side are occupied by her friends
another thing not so easy going up and toking to her in class cause its a seminar style lesson. prof is conducting lesson so of coz no one goes up to someone in the other side of the class to talk. and as soon as lesson ends everyone in the class leaves. so abit problematic trying to know her thru class[/b]
Brother,
Don't mean to be condesending, but u a little too negative. To suceed you need to visualise sucess. For example, all your reasons for not approaching her in class really screams of excuses for not approach her. I bet a million bucks you have 10 other reasons why u can't approach her in the canteen another 10 for not doing it at the bus stop and another 10 for why u cant do it in the toilet.
So stop all the procrastination, make a commitment to yourself to do the following the very next time you see her, and I mean the very next time even if its like 5 minutes from now (irregardless of time and place, with/without friends). If you fail to do this commit to perish the thought of getting in her pants, as you haven't even the balls to approach her.
i) establish eye-contact,
ii) then flash her a bright smile,
iii) if she returns your smile say Hi!... (what ever happens after that either happens or don't its ok)
Simple and inocous right, thats all you do.
If you can't even do this, don't bother.
if you have achieved that, again commit to do a little more the next time u see her again, but always :
i) establish eye contact
ii) smile
iii) use imagination
Comes a point when it will be natural for either you to talk to her or for her to talk to you.
Good luck bro.