Have Crush!!! How to approach???
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Heylo ppl... i have recently gotten attracted to this girl in my class in UNi. However theres no chnace of getting to tok to her in class since she sits with her own group of friends and i sit with my own group of friends. We haven talked to each other before
I would like to know how to i get the chnace to tok to her? approaching her in class is like impossible as i do not knot her or anyone else in her group. so if i go up to talk to her everyone in the grp will be looking at me and that is quite daunting.
One way i thought of doing is thru my Uni's elearning facility. Its basically a website where you can see yr classmates who are online at the same time as well. You can then click their name n send a chat request to tok to them from there
I'm not sure if i should try to talk to her thru this way. Firstly caus i do not know how to start off since we haven talked to each other in class before. Can an of you guys gimme some guidelines as to what to msg her etc. Caus i'm thinking if thinks screw up, i still have to c her in class for the next 2 weeks although shes only in 1 class on mine per week
or is there any other way to know her??
Pls guide me alogn guys. would appreciate all your input! -
Just go up to her, intro yourself.
If you don't have the guts, forget it. -
so cool elearning
why my stupid sch dun have!!! -
i have to agree with missqi...face to face is the best way.
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Dun look back on life and see this missed opportunity.
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No advise about doing it thru the elearning way?
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Originally posted by scuderiaboy:No advise about doing it thru the elearning way?
No guts? Forget about it. -
elearning way is cool
better than nutting la
dun bother abt missqi -
Come on guy, I don't care whether the President of North Korea is sitting beside her, just don't do a weak approach.Originally posted by scuderiaboy:Heylo ppl... i have recently gotten attracted to this girl in my class in UNi. However theres no chnace of getting to tok to her in class since she sits with her own group of friends and i sit with my own group of friends. We haven talked to each other before
I would like to know how to i get the chnace to tok to her? approaching her in class is like impossible as i do not knot her or anyone else in her group. so if i go up to talk to her everyone in the grp will be looking at me and that is quite daunting.
One way i thought of doing is thru my Uni's elearning facility. Its basically a website where you can see yr classmates who are online at the same time as well. You can then click their name n send a chat request to tok to them from there
I'm not sure if i should try to talk to her thru this way. Firstly caus i do not know how to start off since we haven talked to each other in class before. Can an of you guys gimme some guidelines as to what to msg her etc. Caus i'm thinking if thinks screw up, i still have to c her in class for the next 2 weeks although shes only in 1 class on mine per week
or is there any other way to know her??
Pls guide me alogn guys. would appreciate all your input!
Just go talk to her. If not, you might as well don't try to know her. Just go approach her. Borrow tutorial whatever. Im sure she knows your presence.
If you don't do it, other guys will anyway.
It might be me haha.
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Elearning or face-face... How about some eye contacts and attention 1st?Originally posted by scuderiaboy:No advise about doing it thru the elearning way? -
Brother, Missqi is absolutely right.
No point doing elearning thing. Just summon up the balls and step right up to her in front of her friends and all.
All you need to do is say introduce yourself and say something outrageous like "will you marry me" make her laugh. That'll do the trick.
Let go of the inhibition, girls like guys with balls. -
Haha SIM Right ? Bus-Stop Approach ? Most of the time thats when they are separated from friends .
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Simple.Go sit next to her and borrow thing or something like that then can talk liao lor...Say something like hi you understand what is being taught? Last time what jc/poly...and u jus keep then conversation goin on and on...and on
Good Luck bro! -
LOL. E-learning way ah, can. Just start a conversation like, HI, may I get to know you? Or, hey, are you the girl from my lecture? etc.
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be it through elearning or face to face,
just come out right and intro yourself.
do not give her the impression that you are stalking her.
that's all. -
go up to her, put up ur leg on a chair, stare into her eyes and say: 'oei...u better come out on a date wif lim bei...or else......'
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LOL. No need lah. Through e-learning or face to face, just go, Chio Bu, Ai sio gan mai!?Originally posted by mahawarrior:go up to her, put up ur leg on a chair, stare into her eyes and say: 'oei...u better come out on a date wif lim bei...or else......' -
thanks for yr advise everyone!
hmm lemme clarify some things. 1stly i cannot sit with her as there are her other grp of friends sitting wif her. She always is either in between them or she seats at the corner and the other side are occupied by her friends
another thing not so easy going up and toking to her in class cause its a seminar style lesson. prof is conducting lesson so of coz no one goes up to someone in the other side of the class to talk. and as soon as lesson ends everyone in the class leaves. so abit problematic trying to know her thru class -
Just talk to her after class, perhaps ask her about work-related issues for a start.
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Originally posted by scuderiaboy:
Brother,
thanks for yr advise everyone!
hmm lemme clarify some things. 1stly[b] i cannot sit with her as there are her other grp of friends sitting wif her. She always is either in between them or she seats at the corner and the other side are occupied by her friends
another thing not so easy going up and toking to her in class cause its a seminar style lesson. prof is conducting lesson so of coz no one goes up to someone in the other side of the class to talk. and as soon as lesson ends everyone in the class leaves. so abit problematic trying to know her thru class[/b]
Don't mean to be condesending, but u a little too negative. To suceed you need to visualise sucess. For example, all your reasons for not approaching her in class really screams of excuses for not approach her. I bet a million bucks you have 10 other reasons why u can't approach her in the canteen another 10 for not doing it at the bus stop and another 10 for why u cant do it in the toilet.
So stop all the procrastination, make a commitment to yourself to do the following the very next time you see her, and I mean the very next time even if its like 5 minutes from now (irregardless of time and place, with/without friends). If you fail to do this commit to perish the thought of getting in her pants, as you haven't even the balls to approach her.
i) establish eye-contact,
ii) then flash her a bright smile,
iii) if she returns your smile say Hi!... (what ever happens after that either happens or don't its ok)
Simple and inocous right, thats all you do.
If you can't even do this, don't bother.
if you have achieved that, again commit to do a little more the next time u see her again, but always :
i) establish eye contact
ii) smile
iii) use imagination
Comes a point when it will be natural for either you to talk to her or for her to talk to you.
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I see no prob with the e-learning... If u go straight up to her.
For some reason or another, her group of friends find something wrong with you.. ho sei... no more chance. -
fwah, so many Ching Chang Gao Shou.
Weeeweeet!~!!
Arh neh.... -
I concur.Originally posted by smudgey:be it through elearning or face to face,
just come out right and intro yourself.
do not give her the impression that you are stalking her.
that's all.
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Surely you can walk a bit faster right...?Originally posted by scuderiaboy:thanks for yr advise everyone!
hmm lemme clarify some things. 1stly i cannot sit with her as there are her other grp of friends sitting wif her. She always is either in between them or she seats at the corner and the other side are occupied by her friends
another thing not so easy going up and toking to her in class cause its a seminar style lesson. prof is conducting lesson so of coz no one goes up to someone in the other side of the class to talk. and as soon as lesson ends everyone in the class leaves. so abit problematic trying to know her thru class
(don't ya have other classes to catch or something?
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True... true... no balls... no gal.Originally posted by missqi:Just go up to her, intro yourself.
If you don't have the guts, forget it.
V1 naaaahhh!