"I can't forget him, sorry..." WTF
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when it comes to love there is no logical explanation.
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yes in layman terms, yah.....your point being..?Originally posted by blu_sky:you mean, juz fxxk ard with willing parties, not toying with others' feelings? -
well, she may realli be indecisive and taking you as a float, but i'll like to share a perspective with you. ie. if a gal knows that a guy sleeps around, she may think that he may not be too serious/wont get hurt easily, so no need to be too serious. i'll still like to stress that i dun think she is right.Originally posted by Hellraiza:yes in layman terms, yah.....your point being..? -
Hmm. You have a point. A strong point in fact...but she doesn't know about my "past" lar..Originally posted by blu_sky:well, she may realli be indecisive and taking you as a float, but i'll like to share a perspective with you. ie. if a gal knows that a guy sleeps around, she may think that he may not be too serious/wont get hurt easily, so no need to be too serious. i'll still like to stress that i dun think she is right. -
My advice is, dun sleep around lah, words get aroundOriginally posted by Hellraiza:Hmm. You have a point. A strong point in fact...but she doesn't know about my "past" lar..
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Bro, the heart is willing but the flesh is weak...but i never slept around when i was attached..Originally posted by blu_sky:My advice is, dun sleep around lah, words get around -
do i sound so manly?Originally posted by Hellraiza:Bro, the heart is willing but the flesh is weak...but i never slept around when i was attached.. -
actually no, but you don't sound girly either..Originally posted by blu_sky:do i sound so manly? -
Thank youOriginally posted by Hellraiza:actually no, but you don't sound girly either..
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welcome sister, thanks for the advice..Originally posted by blu_sky:Thank you -
hehe... now you got it.Originally posted by Hellraiza:welcome sister, thanks for the advice..
Welcome!
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btw, alot of guys who sleep around say this. but after a while in a long term relationship, they get itchy itchy and start sleeping around again.Originally posted by Hellraiza:Bro, the heart is willing but the flesh is weak...but i never slept around when i was attached..
I do not know if it is the excitement, habit or whatever. Juz know it is a slippery slope. Anything that is sinful is always tempting. -
is it the same for girls?Originally posted by blu_sky:btw, alot of guys who sleep around say this. but after a while in a long term relationship, they get itchy itchy and start sleeping around again.
I do not know if it is the excitement, habit or whatever. Juz know it is a slippery slope. Anything that is sinful is always tempting.
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yah, would really like to see how a girl would answer...Originally posted by Space1999:is it the same for girls?
actually its not about the sex..it depends on the person..if a girl can stick to one sex partner, why not a guy? -
this type of girl just let her go la. Mian Qiang shi mei you jie guo de
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Why bother?Originally posted by Hellraiza:Okay...broke up with my girl a few days back...we've not been together for that long a time..but still..
It came out of the blue. I was working when she msged me. "I've thought it through, to be fair to you. I want to know who matters to me most now. You treat me well, i have nothing to complain...but you love me more than i love you."
Upon further probing, i discovered she still thinks of her ex, a 29 year old unemployed bastarrd who left her when he found out she was pregnant with his kid. She aborted in the end. I knew about this before we got together. I didn't mind.
What baffles me is, how could a girl still have longing for a guy who treated her like that? Is it really true that "nan bu huai nu bu ai"? I don't hate her. I'm just bloody disappointed. If she really wanted to be fair to me, she wouldn't have agreed to be with me. Sigh.
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--------Originally posted by Hellraiza:Okay...broke up with my girl a few days back...we've not been together for that long a time..but still..
It came out of the blue. I was working when she msged me. "I've thought it through, to be fair to you. I want to know who matters to me most now. You treat me well, i have nothing to complain...but you love me more than i love you."
Upon further probing, i discovered she still thinks of her ex, a 29 year old unemployed bastarrd who left her when he found out she was pregnant with his kid. She aborted in the end. I knew about this before we got together. I didn't mind.
What baffles me is, how could a girl still have longing for a guy who treated her like that? Is it really true that "nan bu huai nu bu ai"? I don't hate her. I'm just bloody disappointed. If she really wanted to be fair to me, she wouldn't have agreed to be with me. Sigh.
I think the girl has very good respect to you as she realised that she does not deserve yr love "You treat me well, i have nothing to complain...but you love me more than i love you." Think a bit more and do not make conclusion so early as you have just been together for a month. She may not love the old guy as much anymore, but memories still come back sometimes and women need a bit time for recovery completely. When it comes back, it doesn't mean she still loves him. Within one month, she shared to you her life story , then confessed to you, she should have some respect at least to her honesty to you. If not, she keeps secret and you turn out to be a fool. If you still love her, just be friend to her and and time heals her wound, she will realise it was silly and she made a mistake in her life....Women are very emotional...give her a bit time for rest. -
Sorry for the late reply, was out for lunch. Hope you had a good lunch like i did.Originally posted by Space1999:is it the same for girls?
it could be the same for girls. but think my generation is still pretty conservative, gals who sleep around juz did it quietly and secrety, rather than telling everyone and putting it out. so i rarely hear of gals still sleeping around after they are married, unless they are caught redhanded.
And no, im not a feminist nor a sexist, i dun think women are always high and mighty and men are always the jerks. -
"nan bu huai nu bu ai"?
Yes its true, girls do love bad boys more. -
So for you , all men are jerks?Originally posted by blu_sky:Sorry for the late reply, was out for lunch. Hope you had a good lunch like i did.
it could be the same for girls. but think my generation is still pretty conservative, gals who sleep around juz did it quietly and secrety, rather than telling everyone and putting it out. so i rarely hear of gals still sleeping around after they are married, unless they are caught redhanded.
And no, im not a feminist nor a sexist, i dun think women are always high and mighty and men are always the jerks.
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Originally posted by Space1999:So for you , all men are jerks?
Originally posted by blu_sky:
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Sorry for the late reply, was out for lunch. Hope you had a good lunch like i did.
it could be the same for girls. but think my generation is still pretty conservative, gals who sleep around juz did it quietly and secrety, rather than telling everyone and putting it out. so i rarely hear of gals still sleeping around after they are married, unless they are caught redhanded.
And no, im not a feminist nor a sexist, i dun think women are always high and mighty and men are always the jerks.[/b] -
I think you have been 'huai' enuff in AA, did you get lucky?Originally posted by Space1999:"nan bu huai nu bu ai"?
Yes its true, girls do love bad boys more. -
oh! very sorry ! thousands apologies!Originally posted by blu_sky:
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No worriesOriginally posted by Space1999:oh! very sorry ! thousands apologies! 
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Here no , but elsewhere yesOriginally posted by blu_sky:I think you have been 'huai' enuff in AA, did you get lucky? wrong market i guess