I love my boyfriend but...
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No. Wait for the COMMAND. iOriginally posted by Bontakun:Perform MEAT vision?
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Orh...
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You sounds like someone I know...Originally posted by green_mile:it gets harder and harder to feel good around him. I know he loves me too but still i feel insecure. Sometimes i think im not good enough for him and since he's such a good guy he could do a lot better than me. He could find a smarter, prettier and more adventurous girlfriend. I dont know why but i feel he compares me with every gorgeous girl he meets. Paranoia?
I hate feeling like this. I wish i could stop it but i cant.
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What the hell is Meat vision anyway?Originally posted by Bontakun:Perform MEAT vision? -
Ya lor what's MEAT Vision.... been meaning to ask ever since I saw that word.
To the TS: Stop the low self esteem thing la... build your confidence up. Personally, I think you got confidence liao (got confidence to put your problem here) just need to give it a boost. For me the easiest way is talking to my image in the mirror every morning when I wake up. Well I look like a bus ran over me... but hey, at the very least I get to cheer myself up. Tell yourself you are going to have a great day with your partner today! Do that often enough, and your brain will automatically switch into that mode.
Next thing, get some professional help in self grooming, ie a small make over. You'd be surprised at what little make overs can do. Don't make drastic changes, otherwise boyfriend or not... sure get heart attack.
The 1 thing guys dun often notice, is subtle changes in their partners.
Next up, keep your mind occupied with positive subjects, that way you'll have less time to think about the negatives.
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would u pls tell us more on the way you look?
hmm.. u need to have a bit more confidence with yourself. Can start by dolling yourself up. Juz go for a new hair cut, buy new clothes and dresses that will make u look different. It's not difficult. Ask some good girl frens on wat's the trend now, go shopping together and refer to magazines lor.
If you yourself dun feel good abt the way you look, i think u cant blame him for comparing u with others. And if u are confident, you wouldn't mind at all. -
i have only a selected repeat advice
don't look at the past because thats already done
don't look at the future because you will just get too many what ifs
look at the present for today have its own problems to solve
don't think too much and have too many what ifs
for the more you think about them the more it will come true
treasure what you have now for you will not know when you will lose it
r/s is all about clapping hands
and it alwis takes 2 hands to clap
do remember to give as much as you take
because when you don't it becomes an eye for an eye etc
well just don't think too much and too into anything
what is yours is yours
as serra says what ever will be will be
do all this and your life with ur bf will become more fulfilling
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Why don't you tell him how you feel everytime you are being compared?Originally posted by green_mile:it gets harder and harder to feel good around him. I know he loves me too but still i feel insecure. Sometimes i think im not good enough for him and since he's such a good guy he could do a lot better than me. He could find a smarter, prettier and more adventurous girlfriend. I dont know why but i feel he compares me with every gorgeous girl he meets. Paranoia?
I hate feeling like this. I wish i could stop it but i cant.
Why don't you start mentioning every hot guy you meet and compare him with them?
That should let him get the drift.
Try to shake off this inferiority complex feeling. Be satisfied at least that you have a bf. There are always people who are worse off than you in terms of looks or other situations. If you don't try to shake off this low self-esteem, this relationship is not going to work out in the long-run. Your boyfriend will eventually get tired of your low self-esteem because he cannot breathe and he might want out unless he is very patient with you.
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YA!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MY SENTIMENTS EXCACTLY!!
Guys should like go learn how to make girls feel secure.
When i got bf rite, i always compare myself with is ex like try to be better in everything and feel i am not good enough and stuff.
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Peeps, Meat vision comes from the Nickelodeon cartoon "Fairy Oddparents" where the protagonist (a 10 year old kid named Timmy Turner) wished his parents were super heroes so they could finish their work faster so that they could spend more time with him.Originally posted by iori8888:What the hell is Meat vision anyway?
His dad got this super power (Meat vision) where he could turn things into MEAT!
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Originally posted by Bontakun:Peeps, Meat vision comes from the Nickelodeon cartoon "Fairy Oddparents" where the protagonist (a 10 year old kid named Timmy Turner) wished his parents were super heroes so they could finish their work faster so that they could spend more time with him.
His dad got this super power (Meat vision) where he could turn things into MEAT! -
How about I take a piece of meat and slap your face with it?