Originally posted by bladez87:
ok he has once again declared war...why is it so hard for him to just take things easily.
i am calculative because i done so much more work before him, and he kpkb that he no chance do.
now i let him do, and he kpkb that i calculative with him.
tmd
Like I've said before experience is one of the most important things you gain from working a project. From how you get your work distributed and done, to how you handle, interact or manages people...
Remember he's like 50% of your human resources. How much of that 50% you can utilise would depends on how you plan and work on it.
I can understand that you're probably under quite alot of stress and pressure, but trust me that 'stress' and 'pressure' is also a good form of experience. Also, if you think you've chosen a wrong person then learn from your mistake? I've seen and heard lots of people kpkb about project partners, but the bottomline is if you can't afford to change partner(s) for better options... Then what's the point of kpkb? Rather spend more time trying to thrash things out with your current partner(s) and in handling your work than kpkb right? Just try not to make the same mistake again... Then again, as you gain more experience with larger projects involving more people.. You'll realise in no time that nobody's really quite 'perfect', and it's really rare that you can get someone you can probably utilise FULLY and EASILY. If such a person exist, he / she would have probably been grabbed already... Rather then kpkb over and over again, try to find a more permenant solution to things? i.e. Management.
If I am you, I would probably be keeping a work log or something? Just 2 columns maybe? 'Work to be done' and 'comments'? But be objective in your comments section... Don't put it like your 'complaint book'... When 'problem' is massive and repetitive, people going through it would soon have the idea... But of course, you might have other 'smoother' ways of handling things? Maybe then you could just go ahead?
During my main final year project back in poly, I had 2 partners. Things were REALLY BAD when it 1st started off but as we tried to utilise the opportunity not only on 'work' alone and also as opportunity to get to know each other better as friends and individuals... Things just got better. In the end, we didn't get really fantastic marks... But we've completed our project with LOTS of helping each other and gained 2 friends at the end of it... So you go do the Maths?
