Feeling down, in a lonely world now
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Everyone will have their down point some way in their life. I am having now one. I feel miserable, helpless and sad. Tot of calling my good frens to express my heartpain but it seem weak of me. I dunno..haiz...
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Feel like sharing?
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no harm calling your friends.
true friends will be more than willing to listen to you.
those who call you weak arent good friends then...
or you can share your problems here. -
No down where got up?
Haha.
Now also good time to see who are ur TRUE friends. -
If u dun hav good friends to confide ur sorrow, let it out here, u feel much better.
Cheers. -
i being selfish here i think..i come here only when i got trouble ( although i got contribute to e forum abit ) hai...
Some actions i did seem affecting me alot..i don't know why and im just 23.
What happened, well i going for a major operation on my ankle soon. The worst thing is 2nd time and stupidest thing is...im going to have it at e end of my ord. STUPID right!!! yeah i know i am...
All blames to the AH doctor XXX, he screwed my life. serious no joke.
Now referring to a SGH doctor, he is nice..giving me the right opinions etc but alas its like soo late.
You know e plan of after ord is to work, give $ to family. Yet i will need to stay at home till like feb. I felt im a shit, stupid ass...wastel?
I regretted playing e sport that affected my life...
I owed my family so much..e emotional distress..when i tot of that, i feel so hurt, pity of myself..feel like crying..
I guess i couldn't tell this to a person i know, even he/she is my best fren. Its like telling my weakness..i know i will cry if i talk it..instead of typing..
fyi, i know my situation is not really e like end of e world..but for myself..its like everying comes to a stop esp when pple ord is like opening of a whole new world.
i miss my ex..tot of telling her abt what happened, i want her to console me. The only person i really tell her abt my weakness was her and now she gone.
im a weakling right.. -
dun worry too much.
whatever has happened, it happened.
u cant change it, so dun brood over it.
go for the op and recuperate well.
u have the rest of ur life to earn money.
if u really dun feel good abt it, then maybe can do some home-based data entry job.
people say when one is feeling low, the first one that comes to his mind is the one he loves. i believe she would want u to live well also de.
so, aja aja!! -
its happening to me at real time..i find it so hard to accept.
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You are definitely not a weakling.
It was an accident, I'm sure you didn't ask to injure yourself. It's good that you care about your family. Just give your ankle time to heal and you can start working in Feb. Try not to think of yourself as a burden, it can happen to anybody. Life is full of obstacles, it's how you overcome them that matters. All the best! -
wads your horoscope?
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yeah i think i still like her..nevethless its a dream onlyOriginally posted by browniebaobao:dun worry too much.
whatever has happened, it happened.
u cant change it, so dun brood over it.
go for the op and recuperate well.
u have the rest of ur life to earn money.
if u really dun feel good abt it, then maybe can do some home-based data entry job.
people say when one is feeling low, the first one that comes to his mind is the one he loves. i believe she would want u to live well also de.
so, aja aja!! -
Cancer..yeah i suppose next year is like ok for me, i read e 2007 version alas not correct le..Originally posted by R3SsH|n:wads your horoscope? -
a gd fren is those who dun mind ur weakness... jz say as u feel... relax...Originally posted by universe:Everyone will have their down point some way in their life. I am having now one. I feel miserable, helpless and sad. Tot of calling my good frens to express my heartpain but it seem weak of me. I dunno..haiz... -
yeap agreed..tell any of your close friends bahOriginally posted by BrUtUs:a gd fren is those who dun mind ur weakness... jz say as u feel... relax...
cry it out if you wish to..crying is a not a weakness
only real humans got emotions -
Your not a weakling
Blessings to you darling. Each and everyone of us have its down time. What are true friend's for? They are for covering your asses when you need them, and you covering their asses when they need it, Thats what i truely call a real buddy.
To be honest? You regretted playing a sport, That caused the predicament your in right now. Dude, In life. Everything is unpredictable, if it happens. It happens, it is'nt really anyone's fault that things are happening this way. To every little good things in life, Its always good to have a broader mind. Your gonna have a operation right now, You'll probably think that im ignorant. But think about it , At least your still alive
As long as that applies, i dont see how you could stop providing
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play soccer ar? Must be lah..in army, nothing to do is play soccer..
anyway, not really end of life..you sounded so despair...
leg pain, stay home and rest well....i dont think your family is in need of your share of contribution yet right?
emotional support doesnt just come from partner....family warmth also impt..
no gf, not end of world..if you read forum, so many forumers still single too...and they are still happily writing craps around to liven up the forum..
ops (no offence)
well, instead of sinking into despair, might as well brace up..there is alot of things you can do while at home resting...read up, surf net, start sending resume, or even lookout for part time studies for future...
cheer up dude! -
My friend once gave me this awesome theory.
He said that life was like an rpg.
The people we meet, the people we see they are called NPCs.
The small obstacles we have, We call them monsters.
And when we overcame this "Obstacles".
We'll level up, When we level it means both mentally and physically;So as to prepare us for the "Boss battles"
The big obstacles; The one you have right now. We call them Bosses.
To overcome them, We'll need lots of levels.
What does this means, I believe that an operation recovery or sucess rate doesn't depends on the surgeon alone
The patient should posses a positive mindset, and be ready about it. Like brownie said, Stop brooding over what had happened. What's most important is what lies ahead.
There's an old phrase, Yesterday was history. Tommorow is a mystery. And today is a gift, which is why its called Present.
Your injury happened, You might feel that you'll now be a burden to the family thinking of the things you wont be able to do. And the things you'll need help with. But think about it, [I emphasise on this point] What has happened, already DID HAPPENED. Recover from the incident, and prepare yourself for the surgery. I'll pray for your sucess. -
No problem brother don't be too worried, same thing happen to me. Now can run and can jump (not so fast and high anymorelah ).
But look at the bright side, now you have one more interesting story to impress the girls with. Also, don't forget to take full advantage of your temporarily cripled state, get all those pretty girls to help you. -
Right now you are focusing on all the negativity u have in your life..Originally posted by universe:i being selfish here i think..i come here only when i got trouble ( although i got contribute to e forum abit ) hai...
Some actions i did seem affecting me alot..i don't know why and im just 23.
What happened, well i going for a major operation on my ankle soon. The worst thing is 2nd time and stupidest thing is...im going to have it at e end of my ord. STUPID right!!! yeah i know i am...
All blames to the AH doctor XXX, he screwed my life. serious no joke.
Now referring to a SGH doctor, he is nice..giving me the right opinions etc but alas its like soo late.
You know e plan of after ord is to work, give $ to family. Yet i will need to stay at home till like feb. I felt im a shit, stupid ass...wastel?
I regretted playing e sport that affected my life...
I owed my family so much..e emotional distress..when i tot of that, i feel so hurt, pity of myself..feel like crying..
I guess i couldn't tell this to a person i know, even he/she is my best fren. Its like telling my weakness..i know i will cry if i talk it..instead of typing..
fyi, i know my situation is not really e like end of e world..but for myself..its like everying comes to a stop esp when pple ord is like opening of a whole new world.
i miss my ex..tot of telling her abt what happened, i want her to console me. The only person i really tell her abt my weakness was her and now she gone.
im a weakling right..
no doubt all that have happened to you is very sad and unfortunate.
but instead of looking at all these unfortunate things and feel miserable, why not look at the positive sides and feel better? for example:
1) you are only 23, and wounds heal better/faster when you are young.
2) Although this is your 2nd operation, at least now you have a better doc, who can help to rectify your prob.
3) yes you can't work and repay your parents yet as u need time to heal, but at least you can heal. at least you can still walk.
4) although you may not wanna show your 'weak' face to your friends, but i'm sure they are all there whenever you need them.
These are just a few blessings that you should not forget.
look on the brighter side ok? -
what sport you played?Originally posted by universe:i being selfish here i think..i come here only when i got trouble ( although i got contribute to e forum abit ) hai...
Some actions i did seem affecting me alot..i don't know why and im just 23.
What happened, well i going for a major operation on my ankle soon. The worst thing is 2nd time and stupidest thing is...im going to have it at e end of my ord. STUPID right!!! yeah i know i am...
All blames to the AH doctor XXX, he screwed my life. serious no joke.
Now referring to a SGH doctor, he is nice..giving me the right opinions etc but alas its like soo late.
You know e plan of after ord is to work, give $ to family. Yet i will need to stay at home till like feb. I felt im a shit, stupid ass...wastel?
I regretted playing e sport that affected my life...
I owed my family so much..e emotional distress..when i tot of that, i feel so hurt, pity of myself..feel like crying..
I guess i couldn't tell this to a person i know, even he/she is my best fren. Its like telling my weakness..i know i will cry if i talk it..instead of typing..
fyi, i know my situation is not really e like end of e world..but for myself..its like everying comes to a stop esp when pple ord is like opening of a whole new world.
i miss my ex..tot of telling her abt what happened, i want her to console me. The only person i really tell her abt my weakness was her and now she gone.
im a weakling right.. -
I am going to go blind. Will it be 6 weeks from now? 6 years? I do not know. But one of the hardest thing is telling someone or someone dear to you about this.
Take the brave step, confide in someone about your problems, and hopefully this wil enable you to ride it out. -
How ya know? Next year ain't even here yet?Originally posted by universe:Cancer..yeah i suppose next year is like ok for me, i read e 2007 version alas not correct le.. -
in life, there are always full of ups and downs...
everybody will go through a phrase in life where they will feel the lowest and most miserable...
but what doesn't kill you, will only make you stronger...
go through what you must and have to...
it will be tough but i believe you can do it...
if so many of us have gone through so much in life and still living it, i believe you can too...
take it easy and learn to accept your life the way it is...
when you come to terms with your own life and whatever situation you might be in...
then maybe you might find it easier to live your life...
not all is lost...
instead of mopping over your misery, try looking for means and ways to make it better...
good luck and all the best... -
if they think of you as weak then they are not yr good frens what rite???
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If he listen to inspirations song. Surely he will feel inspirated to continue his live. If he sad he can also listen to song like happy song just to cheer him up. I hope the only thing is he get well