Is this a rational decision?
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What?!
You bought the tickets, without knowing if she would come?!
I salute you.
But since it's already done, no point worrying. -
Originally posted by binarynwitz:
She said she will. But how would I know until she actually touch down? Girls are always doing some weird sh!t that nobody understands anyway.
What?!
You bought the tickets, without knowing if she would come?!
[b]I salute you.
But since it's already done, no point worrying.[/b] -
There are certainly always other ways to work out romance than purely spending on large sum of money...?Originally posted by mayday80:The ticket is bought, and the trip is all planned... will she come or not? I have no f@rking idea... I hate this uncertainity
Do I always have to learn things the hard way? I do not know. But this is probably my final attempt to believe in romance. I'm not smitten, yet I'm willing to give a lot to someone I like. -
well, if u already bought the tickets than cross your fingers...Originally posted by mayday80:She said she will. But how would I know until she actually touch down? Girls are always doing some weird sh!t that nobody understands anyway.
but if u really like her i think its worth a try -
not smitten then willing to pay so much for someone u have never met before?Originally posted by mayday80:The ticket is bought, and the trip is all planned... will she come or not? I have no f@rking idea... I hate this uncertainity
Do I always have to learn things the hard way? I do not know. But this is probably my final attempt to believe in romance. I'm not smitten, yet I'm willing to give a lot to someone I like.
even my dear last time i tink he not willing to do this, when we still havent met dat time of cos -
Met before la... you didn't read. Just haven't met again for a while. As said before, I don't believe a guy must get everything from a girl liao before he can cautiously spend money on the girl. But then again, there's a good chance I'm wrong.Originally posted by rainee:not smitten then willing to pay so much for someone u have never met before?
even my dear last time i tink he not willing to do this, when we still havent met dat time of cos
At this stage, while waiting for the vacation. I have to admit that this decision has caused me unneccessary uncertainity in my emotions. I'll have to reevaluate this whole thing after the trip.
Like I said, I'm overseas and gonna be here for a while. Romance can't mean much without meeting in person. You can't take her out to a nice dinner, drive her to a new place, hold her hands and enjoy each others' company, wrap a nice scarf over her neck on a cold night, look into her eyes, saying 'I love you'. Now, compare this to logging on skype and chatting.......Originally posted by Devil1976:There are certainly always other ways to work out romance than purely spending on large sum of money...?
I'm looking for a short bright flame of romance rather then a tiny everlasting slow flame of love. -
haha... thats interesting, what i should be looking for too... but than again, it might develop into something that is everlasting, give it a chanceOriginally posted by mayday80:Like I said, I'm overseas and gonna be here for a while. Romance can't mean much without meeting in person. You can't take her out to a nice dinner, drive her to a new place, hold her hands and enjoy each others' company, wrap a nice scarf over her neck on a cold night, look into her eyes, saying 'I love you'. Now, compare this to logging on skype and chatting.......
I'm looking for a short bright flame of romance rather then a tiny everlasting slow flame of love. -
keep ur fingers crossed and wait for the much anticipated vacation..
let us know of ur good news.. -
keep ur fingers crossed and wait for the much anticipated vacation..
let us know of ur good news.. -
ha! I will update the news be it good or bad.
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good luck to uOriginally posted by mayday80:ha! I will update the news be it good or bad. -
What makes you so sure that romance has to be physical presence alone? Nice dinner, driving?Originally posted by mayday80:Like I said, I'm overseas and gonna be here for a while. Romance can't mean much without meeting in person. You can't take her out to a nice dinner, drive her to a new place, hold her hands and enjoy each others' company, wrap a nice scarf over her neck on a cold night, look into her eyes, saying 'I love you'. Now, compare this to logging on skype and chatting.......
I'm looking for a short bright flame of romance rather then a tiny everlasting slow flame of love.
I think you're not even so sure where you could be heading at this point. So are you creating romance or are you just blindly out looking for one?
Anyway... Good luck?
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short bright flame of romance rather than a tiny everlasting slow flame of love?Originally posted by mayday80:Like I said, I'm overseas and gonna be here for a while. Romance can't mean much without meeting in person. You can't take her out to a nice dinner, drive her to a new place, hold her hands and enjoy each others' company, wrap a nice scarf over her neck on a cold night, look into her eyes, saying 'I love you'. Now, compare this to logging on skype and chatting.......
I'm looking for a short bright flame of romance rather then a tiny everlasting slow flame of love.
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For me, physical presence is impt, i dunno for others. I may be blinding trying to create a romance, this I admit.Originally posted by Devil1976:What makes you so sure that romance has to be physical presence alone? Nice dinner, driving?
I think you're not even so sure where you could be heading at this point. So are you creating romance or are you just blindly out looking for one?
Anyway... Good luck?
I don't believe in love for a lifetime... at least not now, and not with her yet. For now, one week of a wonderful time beats waiting forever.Originally posted by rainee:short bright flame of romance rather than a tiny everlasting slow flame of love? :Laughing:
so u rather have one day with her rather than a life time with her? :Laughing: -
my vacation starts today! will update when i get back!
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3 days into vacation...
it is 10% of what I expected... (maybe even -10%!)
apparantly santa gave me a wrong present for xmas!
I guess we all learn from our mistakes... I learn the hard way... but if anyone ever read this thread... be warned if you are thinking of doing something like this! -
Originally posted by mayday80:3 days into vacation...
it is 10% of what I expected... (maybe even -10%!)
apparantly santa gave me a wrong present for xmas!
I guess we all learn from our mistakes... I learn the hard way... but if anyone ever read this thread... be warned if you are thinking of doing something like this!
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wat does that mean? so did she go?Originally posted by mayday80:3 days into vacation...
it is 10% of what I expected... (maybe even -10%!)
apparantly santa gave me a wrong present for xmas!
I guess we all learn from our mistakes... I learn the hard way... but if anyone ever read this thread... be warned if you are thinking of doing something like this! -
Apparently, you can say bye-bye to the girl, for a lifetime.
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She came.
First day, she called her friend up and cried after that because her friend decided not to come to LA (where we are) and she's in San Fran. That got me thinking maybe she came just because of her friend was here.
Second and third day, we were in Disneyland and she was unhappy and complaining of cold 80% of the time. I offered her my coat but she declined. She rather freeze than to wear my coat.
Fourth and fifth day, we were in Las Vegas and she complained about cold 99% of the time. She is unimpressed with every single sight on the strip. We went to catch a Cirque Du Soleil show and same thing, unimpressed.
Sixth day and currently our final day, we came back to Los Angeles and went to Venice Beach, Santa Monica, drove past Beverly Hills on the Sunset Blvd, went to see the Hollywood sign and then walked around downtown Hollywood. Same thing. (Only exception was she liked Santa Monica downtown)
Almost every single meal we have, she will be busy sms-ing on her phone or she will just walk out from the table to take/make phonecall. Everyday she will want to go back hotel room early to sleep/charge handphone/watch tv. And she's going out with another guy in S'pore.
This trip succeeded in making a very easy-going me, to be so disappointed in another human being. Told you guys I have to learn it the hard way... Bad decision for me... What to do... I just have to take it in my face and move on in my life lor... -
No bro,Originally posted by mayday80:She came.
First day, she called her friend up and cried after that because her friend decided not to come to LA (where we are) and she's in San Fran. That got me thinking maybe she came just because of her friend was here.
Second and third day, we were in Disneyland and she was unhappy and complaining of cold 80% of the time. I offered her my coat but she declined. She rather freeze than to wear my coat.
Fourth and fifth day, we were in Las Vegas and she complained about cold 99% of the time. She is unimpressed with every single sight on the strip. We went to catch a Cirque Du Soleil show and same thing, unimpressed.
Sixth day and currently our final day, we came back to Los Angeles and went to Venice Beach, Santa Monica, drove past Beverly Hills on the Sunset Blvd, went to see the Hollywood sign and then walked around downtown Hollywood. Same thing. (Only exception was she liked Santa Monica downtown)
Almost every single meal we have, she will be busy sms-ing on her phone or she will just walk out from the table to take/make phonecall. Everyday she will want to go back hotel room early to sleep/charge handphone/watch tv. And she's going out with another guy in S'pore.
This trip succeeded in making a very easy-going me, to be so disappointed in another human being. Told you guys I have to learn it the hard way... Bad decision for me... What to do... I just have to take it in my face and move on in my life lor...
Don't take it personally. Take it as fun. Main thing is she came(Isn't that what you wanted haha?).
So you paid for her everything?
Ladies, please when a guy goes all out to entertain a girl, show some respect! Im sure some of you will say not all ladies are the same. Im sorry, we cannot tell the difference. Girls behave the same way, just in different variations.
And bro, you can drop this girl from now on.
Take care
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Ok la... on the final day, she was such an angel.
It has been one hell of a vacation... and thinking back... it is quite funny (or fun?) after all. I still miss her now that she left =P
Maybe this is we call a love/hate relationship? I told her I can't do one more week of this with her but I kinda miss that this is going to end... haa. No regrets... I shared part of my experience in the States with her like I always wanted to... and I expected nothing in return from her... no matter what happens in the future. It didn't end up anywhere near as romantic as I hoped for but it was quite memorable la -
i would be an angel on the last day too if i had been a b1tch thoughout the trip.Originally posted by mayday80:Ok la... on the final day, she was such an angel.
It has been one hell of a vacation... and thinking back... it is quite funny (or fun?) after all. I still miss her now that she left =P
Maybe this is we call a love/hate relationship? I told her I can't do one more week of this with her but I kinda miss that this is going to end... haa. No regrets... I shared part of my experience in the States with her like I always wanted to... and I expected nothing in return from her... no matter what happens in the future. It didn't end up anywhere near as romantic as I hoped for but it was quite memorable la
2 reasons:
1)guilt
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ya i guess... but every human being loves hope.
i'm a simple person... I'll leave it at that.
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everyone loves hope, me too. but not empty hopes.Originally posted by mayday80:ya i guess... but every human being loves hope.
i'm a simple person... I'll leave it at that.