Originally posted by Mervyn>_<:
[b]1) family bonding - keep arugeing
Nope,I love my family though they may be annoying at times but still tolerable
2) bgr
I avoid this,this can wait
3) teacher - student not happy with each other then skip sch
Dont think so
4) friends dare you to do something you don't want to?
I have my own mind,I have no need to do what they think
5) generation gap between your parents/grandparents and you?
They are pretty open
money problem?
1) not enough income/pocket money?
Nah,I use little,just enough for lunch and some treats occassionaly if possible
2) can't cope with your monthly expenses?
Dont really like to blow my money on expensive stuff
3) you spend more then you can earn?
Guilty of not earning my own keep
4) your other half - spouse/steady don't know how hard earn $ is?
Nope
5) you have to keep treating your other half to save face? if not he/she will say you cheap-skate?
Nope
social problem?
1) no enough friends - introvert & shy?
Kind ofI find myself a little introvert and find it rather hard to warm to some people
2) you and your friends don't click well together?
It is okay with most but for a few,well,you cannot help but hate a few
3) friends always bullying you?
Haha,no
4) you feel that they are making use of you?
No matter how we look at it,everybody is making use of another
It is rare to feel sefless people who put others before themselves
5) you are too extrovert? too out-going attracting a lot of un-neccessary attention? 
I am not extrovert but I still attract a lot of attraction lol
Kind of tall so oh well
Haha,apparently,most of the problems lie in society
Ah well,tainted perspective,I guess 
[/b]
summary of you current problems,
1) too tall, attract un-neccessary attention
2) introvert nature, a bit shy perhaps?
3) guilty of over-spending at times/take pocket $ monthly?
are there any problems which I missed out?
my suggested solution to your existing problem will be
1) too tall - use this to your advantage, since you already can be easily notice by a lot of people, than brush up on your outer appearance, wear trendy clothes if you want others to approach you, and if you wear specs, get those glasses with a bit of colour mixed (like translucent colour) than your hair get a hair stylist design and cut hair accordingly to your face.
while using your height advantage, play basketball, train harder, be the lead scorer in the team, run more, score more, more lay-ups, ladies will like sportsman, they admire guys who look concentrated when they focus on games, or anything. Gals are like that, for those younger generation, if your age group already in working society, then i give u another solution ba
if your pirority isn't to get a steady, nvm, just still play basketball, get healthy and be fit, go be a part-time model, earn some extra bucks to solve your problem no 3)
2) learn to open up more, ladies are generally attracted to ladies who are tall (more sense of security) so if you are tall, train to build up your body mass, not horizontally, but in built, more muscles.
3) try to work to help lessen parents' work load. than it will be better.
than parents will start to look at your from another perspective - saying our son has grown up, more independent.
Note: It's only when you really experience how hard it is to earn money, than you will realize that you need to spend only on the required stuffs, and not buy things and throw it at a corner. (just an example only)
