Opinions please...
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It is the exams period.
And your gf says she's going outside to study. She just tells you she's going by herself, but did not explicitly ask you to accompany her nor ask you not to accompany her.
What would you do?
1) just let her be.
2) ask her where is she going and accompany her.
3) get upset and worried. -
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Exam need to study........
You go and disturb for fuck. -
So many options, yet fear she may not like it. Ask where she going to study. Then give a call when she abt to finish studying so you can fetch her home. Sae she study at noon, call in da evening.
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ask her what she wants u to do.
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hmmm??Originally posted by missqi:1.
Exam need to study........
You go and disturb for fuck.
studying together == disturb ?
perhaps true to a certain extent -
Everybody has different methods of studying. I personally prefer group studies. Can learn more things than juz dead words from dead text. UNLESS you are super capable of getting enlightenment fro mthe words in the text...Originally posted by jeramy:hmmm??
studying together == disturb ?
perhaps true to a certain extent
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yup, dunno what to do for fear she may not like it.Originally posted by Bontakun:So many options, yet fear she may not like it. Ask where she going to study. Then give a call when she abt to finish studying so you can fetch her home. Sae she study at noon, call in da evening.
just feels weird leaving my gf alone outside while here i am sitting at home. haha. perhaps just my mentality ba. -
if only everything is so simple..Originally posted by beavan:ask her what she wants u to do. -
You have faith in her? Do you trust her? She should be able to take care of herself. If you are still worried about her safety, just call her after sometime while she still studying or sms. Then go visit her when she abt to finish or buy food and drinks for her.Originally posted by jeramy:yup, dunno what to do for fear she may not like it.
just feels weird leaving my gf alone outside while here i am sitting at home. haha. perhaps just my mentality ba. -
1.Originally posted by jeramy:It is the exams period.
And your gf says she's going outside to study. She just tells you she's going by herself, but did not explicitly ask you to accompany her nor ask you not to accompany her.
What would you do?
1) just let her be.
2) ask her where is she going and accompany her.
3) get upset and worried.
Just let her be. It is her life to do what she wants. She is not your slave you know. You are being too needy here.
On the other hand, did the two of you used to study together. I feel that the whole truth has not been told. There must be a rift between the two of you that made you feel troubled, that's why you posted for advice here.
doko -
yea u are very very observant bro, there's not a rift, but the gist is that she doesnt used to study alone outside at all.Originally posted by dokono:1.
Just let her be. It is her life to do what she wants. She is not your slave you know. You are being too needy here.
On the other hand, did the two of you used to study together. I feel that the whole truth has not been told. There must be a rift between the two of you that made you feel troubled, that's why you posted for advice here.
doko
almost all the time when she studies outside is either with her friends or with me. so her sudden decision to be alone outside...hmmm....affects me a bit... -
Never ask a woman what she wants. Simply because she will never know what she wants. Instead, just take the lead.Originally posted by beavan:ask her what she wants u to do.
doko -
Is this the first time only? So your hunch tells you something is wrong huh? Let her be ba.Originally posted by jeramy:yea u are very very observant bro, there's not a rift, but the gist is that she doesnt used to study alone outside at all.
almost all the time when she studies outside is either with her friends or with me. so her sudden decision to be alone outside...hmmm....affects me a bit...
You know, this sudden decision of hers, personally, I don't quite like it. Shouldn't you like studying with your boyfriend? It can mean a lot of things. But for now, just don't push her.
Relax.
doko -
so hard to guess what they wantOriginally posted by dokono:Is this the first time only? So your hunch tells you something is wrong huh? Let her be ba.
You know, this sudden decision of hers, personally, I don't quite like it. Shouldn't you like studying with your boyfriend? It can mean a lot of things. But for now, just don't push her.
Relax.
doko
on one hand if dun voluntarily go accompany her, fear that she feels i dun care about her.
on the other hand if go and accompany her, fear that it will disturb her.
feel like just slapping all the girls -
You said it yourself exam time.... Let exam finish first la!!!
In the mean time, YOU
think of a good gift for her. -
Let her study by herself. Everyone needs their own personal space.
If you cant let it down, maybe surprise her by bringing her some refreshments during her study time. but LEAVE immediately after she have eaten...den maybe fetch her home too...
then ur a 100% good bf...haha -
F_uckin h_ell, again through butter like a hot knife.Originally posted by missqi:1.
Exam need to study........
You go and disturb for fuck.
Brother I think you have a problem, she's probably fuckin your best friend sure one. Maybe, she going for work in geylang. You should definitely follow her one day. but make sure she doesnt recognise you, dont forget to dress up like an auntie, cos u acting like one!!!!! javascript:emoticon('
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last time everytime i study with gf we end up in the sack.Originally posted by jeramy:hmmm??
studying together == disturb ?
perhaps true to a certain extent -
last time everytime i study with gf we end up in the sack.Originally posted by jeramy:hmmm??
studying together == disturb ?
perhaps true to a certain extent -
Give her the benefit of doubt. She may want a change of environment cos studying at home, u tend to want to rest in bed or watch tv, play computer.Originally posted by jeramy:yea u are very very observant bro, there's not a rift, but the gist is that she doesnt used to study alone outside at all.
almost all the time when she studies outside is either with her friends or with me. so her sudden decision to be alone outside...hmmm....affects me a bit...
Call her after a few hours to ask her how's she is progressing, whether she needs your help, don't study too late etc- show your concern, she will appreciate u more. -
if she says she's gonna study alone, give her the benefit of doubt. i also study alone one.Originally posted by jeramy:It is the exams period.
And your gf says she's going outside to study. She just tells you she's going by herself, but did not explicitly ask you to accompany her nor ask you not to accompany her.
What would you do?
1) just let her be.
2) ask her where is she going and accompany her.
3) get upset and worried. -
has she been avoiding you recently or anything?
If yes, then you got every reason to be worried.
If no, then what you can do is to let her go. Just let her study in peace. Trust her. You can pop by and pass her some notes (assuming like you 2 are like studying same school or something like that) or food or just pop by to give her surprise! She might be receptive towards that. MIGHT ar...
backfire dun come kill us.
dun worry, I worry too when my gf dun wanna meet her. Sometimes they are just tired and want to be alone to stone. Really. Stoning is a great hobby for many of us and them.
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Ask her whether she needs you to accompany her. If she says no, go for option 1. :
Let her be.
She's your gf, you should trust her. -
some people need to study alone you know? perhaps you should trust your girlfriend more.
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syudy important mah....let her be.......you must have faith and trust if not even together 24X7 also no use.....