thanks bro.Originally posted by bazi:Good Advise....Bravo
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Ok. The buying food part. I really got no comments.Originally posted by c2on2:hey people thanks a lot for all your kind advice. I really appreciate it. Many thanks once again.
Well tat guy went specially to my gf house to buy her lunch cause she said she was lazy to eat... I know tat they do have long msn and telephone or sms conversations at times and i had told her my concerns already. And she told me that he is just a good friend of hers.
Before he went, she still ask me if jealous anot or shit like tat. and when i say tell him to not come cos it was realli raining badly she said den who buy food for her? and i am unreasonable etc. Eventually the situation was still ok.
I mean i find this thinking quite immature and childish.
Aniwae my gf is having exams now while i am working. And she told me tat she will be going out with him for about 4 - 5 occassions this holiday season. Esp on the day of his birthday celebration with that guy.
I know that my gf loves me from the times we had been together ... but why is this sort of thing happening? Am i too sensitive, jealous or dis trustful?
Bro, you have a great analytical mind and I respect that.Originally posted by angrynor:Think about it. The guy reserved that date just for your gal. And your gal HAPPILY agreed to spend it with him. Any guy would use that chance rite? I am afraid you will lose her on that day. She might not tell you on that day, but you have to be prepared. I dun like to dampen people's spirit. but bro. In your case, you stand like what? 10% of her heart and that guy? 60-70% i think.
I advise you to talk to your gf again. and convince her to tell that guy that she is attached to you. If she refuse and or kick up a big fuss, I am sorry brother. Chances are that you lost her already.
But fret not my friend. Girls like her aint worth your tears. Really. I think most people here would agree.
However, this is what we are assuming. Maybe she really loves you and tat guy is just a friend to her. Maybe she aint saying that she is attached because she cant afford to let her faimly or friends know etc due to personal reasons. You need to know. If that is it and she loves you dearly, then i congratulate you.
Good luck brother.
We are here if you need us.
And to put you at ease. Nope. You aint being too sensitive, jealous or distrustful. If my gf does this to me, I guess i would be even more stress then you. =)
Dump her . It is all mind games. Waste of your time to reason with her. She is just f*cking with your head.Originally posted by c2on2:hey people thanks a lot for all your kind advice. I really appreciate it. Many thanks once again.
Well tat guy went specially to my gf house to buy her lunch cause she said she was lazy to eat... I know tat they do have long msn and telephone or sms conversations at times and i had told her my concerns already. And she told me that he is just a good friend of hers.
Before he went, she still ask me if jealous anot or shit like tat. and when i say tell him to not come cos it was realli raining badly she said den who buy food for her? and i am unreasonable etc. Eventually the situation was still ok.
I mean i find this thinking quite immature and childish.
Aniwae my gf is having exams now while i am working. And she told me tat she will be going out with him for about 4 - 5 occassions this holiday season. Esp on the day of his birthday celebration with that guy.
I know that my gf loves me from the times we had been together ... but why is this sort of thing happening? Am i too sensitive, jealous or dis trustful?
she 2-timing alreadyOriginally posted by c2on2:Hi people, need some advice. My gf and i have been together for 4 months already. I waited for her for quite long about more than 1 year b4 she agreed to us being as one. There were good and bad times for both of us like for all couples.
A guy who doesn't know that she is already attached to me has been getting closer and closer to her. He is doing sweet things that a bf will oni do for a gf. and it is obvious to me and her that this guy is trying to chase her. I told my gf about my concerns and she shd jus tell him causally that she is attached but my gf did not want to do so and even told him she is single.
I am rather unhappy about this. It is the holiday season and i am already working for 6 days a week. with oni sundays off. Hence i cant realli take out much time for her. This guy is on the verge of asking for her to be his gf liao soon as he hinted he will this holidays. She sort of like inform me as tat she is going out with tat guy.
My gf has also been comparing me to him. He is a rich guy, who lives in a private bungalow. and has cars. but then alhough he is in a way my competitor, he still seems a nice person from the way she describes him to me. This comparison does not really go well with me sometimes.
seriously i think he can be a better provider for her than me. since this guy is rich and kind natured and a ladies man unlike me who is poor and have to work hard for wad i want and i being a woodblock guy at many times.
My gf and him are getting closer and she will be meeting him on some occasions during this holiday season while i am working during the weekdays.
i dun know if this gf is the one i am going to marry already because of the hurt and uncertainty. By the way i am 23 and my gf is 21 and we are both students.
What should i do? Should i move on ? and try to initiate a break up or should i persist to preserve this r/s which i worked so hard for. Is letting go of ur lover for some1 who can do a better job of loving her a more appropriate thing to do for my case?
yoiur gf is jus like my ex, cannot think!Originally posted by c2on2:Hi people, need some advice. My gf and i have been together for 4 months already. I waited for her for quite long about more than 1 year b4 she agreed to us being as one. There were good and bad times for both of us like for all couples.
A guy who doesn't know that she is already attached to me has been getting closer and closer to her. He is doing sweet things that a bf will oni do for a gf. and it is obvious to me and her that this guy is trying to chase her. I told my gf about my concerns and she shd jus tell him causally that she is attached but my gf did not want to do so and even told him she is single.
I am rather unhappy about this. It is the holiday season and i am already working for 6 days a week. with oni sundays off. Hence i cant realli take out much time for her. This guy is on the verge of asking for her to be his gf liao soon as he hinted he will this holidays. She sort of like inform me as tat she is going out with tat guy.
My gf has also been comparing me to him. He is a rich guy, who lives in a private bungalow. and has cars. but then alhough he is in a way my competitor, he still seems a nice person from the way she describes him to me. This comparison does not really go well with me sometimes.
seriously i think he can be a better provider for her than me. since this guy is rich and kind natured and a ladies man unlike me who is poor and have to work hard for wad i want and i being a woodblock guy at many times.
My gf and him are getting closer and she will be meeting him on some occasions during this holiday season while i am working during the weekdays.
i dun know if this gf is the one i am going to marry already because of the hurt and uncertainty. By the way i am 23 and my gf is 21 and we are both students.
What should i do? Should i move on ? and try to initiate a break up or should i persist to preserve this r/s which i worked so hard for. Is letting go of ur lover for some1 who can do a better job of loving her a more appropriate thing to do for my case?
+1Originally posted by RSKeisuke:for the time being... just back off from her and ignore her totally.
you are lucky this happen only after 4 mths she committed to the relationship.
channel all your effort into your career. you'll definitely meet someone more mature in the future. enjoy your singlehood..
cheers..
exactly.Originally posted by dokono:Then why did she tell him she is single? Can she answer that?
+1Originally posted by MiX Metal:Bro, its time to let go .....