singapore girls who are not materialistic......
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if it's not money then it's looks... they want the guy to be tall tall and wow them... I'm not complaining... that's how it works in S'pore.Originally posted by CannyOng:Ok! Let's analyse why there is still unmaterialistic and quite appealing but not attached sg gal available.
First,u already say they r not materialistic. So no money is not a problem.
If money is not a critieria then of cos they will look for something else which appears to them from that person.
Maybe she wants her future parnter to be understanding ,not a wood blocked,romantic and caring. Abt to please her,make her happy and attentive plus plenty of patient.
I think a lot of us have a misconception that if the gal is not materialistic,it will be a easy catch with little effort and can win her over.... Sigh!
Everything is a double edge sword... Good things never come easy.
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I think by mentioning non-materialistic,looking for look is also consider under materialistic. No look and no money but the gal wants a guy who will give her all her heart. Sounds easy?? NO.. Don't think a gal who don't looks for look and money means easy get gal.Originally posted by mayday80:if it's not money then it's looks... they want the guy to be tall tall and wow them... I'm not complaining... that's how it works in S'pore.
In fact,it is more tougher cos she will looks for a guy who gives full commitment. If u can't give her commitment,forget abt it! and u need many tested times of yr sincerity plus patient to win her over.. -
I noticed guys ,who are not self assured or have a total lack of self esteem , seem to blame rejection from girls for materialism or whatever excuse they can find.
If you have an interest in a girl who have interests for all things material, that's your problem. No need to blame all the singaporean girls for your misfortune. It just shows what a pathetic loser some are.
There are happy couples out there in Singapore who got together for reasons beyond materialism. -
Correct.Originally posted by fymk:I noticed guys ,who are not self assured or have a total lack of self esteem , seem to blame rejection from girls for materialism or whatever excuse they can find.
If you have an interest in a girl who have interests for all things material, that's your problem. No need to blame all the singaporean girls for your misfortune. It just shows what a pathetic loser some are.
There are happy couples out there in Singapore who got together for reasons beyond materialism.
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yeah.. there are lots of guys who don't own a house, car or any of the 5 C or 5 B who are happily married. But I think people always find it easiest to lay the blame on someone else.
Recently my brother-in-law's daughter, had been naughty and climbing up and down a chair. She refused to sit still no matter what people said or did. So she fell on her head when she lost her balance. The first thing she said when she stopped crying was that her daddy didn't take care of her. Well kids ar 3 is starting to blame parents for their own misbehaviour. So I guess adults do that even more.. -
How do you gauge full commitment?Originally posted by CannyOng:I think by mentioning non-materialistic,looking for look is also consider under materialistic. No look and no money but the gal wants a guy who will give her all her heart. Sounds easy?? NO.. Don't think a gal who don't looks for look and money means easy get gal.
In fact,it is more tougher cos she will looks for a guy who gives full commitment. If u can't give her commitment,forget abt it! and u need many tested times of yr sincerity plus patient to win her over.. -
This discussion seem to go off topic now... it seems like the talk is heading towards guys are losers who biatch about all singaporean girls being materialistic.
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Seems that the guys are ALWAYS complaining about materialistic girls. But you do not see girls complaining about the guy's lack of money, car, character or etc.
Maybe its time the guys get a grip and gripe a little less - maybe they will come across less of a loser. Face it, guys b!tch quite a bit nowadays. -
heheOriginally posted by mistyblue:Seems that the guys are ALWAYS complaining about materialistic girls. But you do not see girls complaining about the guy's lack of money, car, character or etc.
Maybe its time the guys get a grip and gripe a little less - maybe they will come across less of a loser. Face it, guys b!tch quite a bit nowadays.
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another reason is pretty n rich gals tendency like to boss around, it will cause the guys' ego to hurt greatly.Originally posted by the_don:*faint* dun put words in my mouth.
i happen to have pretty frens who r not materialistic but shy. they are the ones that would need a guy to OPEN their eyes to see them.
being materialistic crosses gender, race and sexual preferences. but since the topic is about gals, lets stick to it
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they are not materialistic what......only realistic.....well...most are.....
but if its a gal who is independent and earning her keeps.....chemistry weighs more.....though it wld be better if u have a decent job..... -
Girls dun come here and whine.Originally posted by mistyblue:Seems that the guys are ALWAYS complaining about materialistic girls. But you do not see girls complaining about the guy's lack of money, car, character or etc.
Maybe its time the guys get a grip and gripe a little less - maybe they will come across less of a loser. Face it, guys b!tch quite a bit nowadays.
They are busy finding other rich guys.
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haha, i also not materialistic. Want anything, i can buy for myself. Not need to wait for guy to buy for me. Not that i poor until cannot buy something for myself ba. hehe.
I am a nice girl too. haha -
at least they are proactive.Originally posted by Patrik:Girls dun come here and whine.
They are busy finding other rich guys. 
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