does he love me?
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he is just too quiet to talk abt it..
he treat me as his gf.. but y does he like this?
Is it he took me 4 granted? -
just ask him straight out
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Yeah I think you are insecure here. You are like the male version of insecure guys. He likes you. That's all that matters.
Don't complicate things. And start so many threads.
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You sureOriginally posted by dokono:Yeah I think you are insecure here. You are like the male version of insecure guys. He likes you. That's all that matters.
Don't complicate things. And start so many threads.
doko
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The Topic title is saddening.
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that's what she said.Originally posted by Amber20:he is just too quiet to talk abt it..
he treat me as his gf.. but y does he like this?
Is it he took me 4 granted?
U don't think so?
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You mean a girl treats you as her bf means she loves you?Originally posted by dokono:that's what she said.
U don't think so?
doko
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Define treat.Originally posted by M©+square:You mean a girl treats you as her bf means she loves you?
Cheers
I don't know what this guy must do to prove his love man.
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Then how are you sure that he loves her?Originally posted by dokono:Define treat.
I don't know what this guy must do to prove his love man.
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Ahem...maybe he's tired during NS?
Unless u know the nature of his job etc...I guess most guys would want some lonely times (i think) on book out? Doing mindless things
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haha...then how sure are you that Im not sure? Must he say "I love you" everyday to her to prove it? Must he jump off the MRT track? He still keeps in contact with her. One thing Im sure is that she loves him more than he loves her.Originally posted by M©+square:Then how are you sure that he loves her?
I feel the threadstarter is a little possessive here.
But I don't want to get into this debate because now the issues here are still murky. Lot of info are still undisclosed.
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PRECISELY!!!!!Originally posted by dokono:haha...then how sure are you that Im not sure? Must he say "I love you" everyday to her to prove it? Must he jump off the MRT track? He still keeps in contact with her. One thing Im sure is that she loves him more than he loves her.
I feel the threadstarter is a little possessive here.
But I don't want to get into this debate because now the issues here are still murky. Lot of info are still undisclosed.
doko
Threadstarter asked a question, you answered when you're unsure and little info have been supplied.
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Hmm...ok point taken.Originally posted by M©+square:PRECISELY!!!!!
Threadstarter asked a question, you answered when you're unsure and little info have been supplied.
I feel that threadstarter have the right and is right to feel worried.
We are going to watch this guy. See how much he loved her.
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You don't have to do that,Originally posted by dokono:Hmm...ok point taken.
We are going to watch this guy. See how much he loved her.
doko
Naturally, love onto another person encompasses multiple levels of emotions and energies. So it is odd for her boyfriend to react in such a matter.
I wouldn't say he DON'T love her.
But this is his love towards her, i'd question it.
This is not the question of seeing, looks are deceiving as well as the heart of men.
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So what are the questions you are going to ask if you know him?Originally posted by M©+square:You don't have to do that,
Naturally, love onto another person encompasses multiple levels of emotions and energies. So it is odd for her boyfriend to react in such a matter.
I wouldn't say he DON'T love her.
But this is his love towards her, i'd question it.
This is not the question of seeing, looks are deceiving as well as the heart of men.
Cheers
Why you don't msg Amber20 everyday?
Why you don't meet her when you are free?
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You know what? if she would want, i'd call for a individual meetup with the both of them.Originally posted by dokono:So what are the questions you are going to ask if you know him?
Why you don't msg Amber20 everyday?
Why you don't meet her when you are free?
doko
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he smses u to show u that he cares about u...Originally posted by Amber20:hello.. this the first time i had started my own topic here..
2 months ago.. i knew a guy who is serving ns now.. Although we never meet and chat on e phone before, i feel he is special and honest guy.. I started to like him.. I hinted him alOT and he knew it.. He oso say he like me.. after we meet, not so long, few weeks later, we get together already. Then e problem had came. WE seldom meet coz both of us are busy. As I am working from day to night and He is in Ns. his duty is like first day 2pm to second day 5pm k Book out. Third day he has to Book in at 2pm. And for me, I working from morning 8.30Am to night 12am, as I am holding two jobs. One Full time office job and one full time at The Pub. He don mind that me working pub. Only hope I know wat I am doing. But until now we Never chat on e phone coz he don like to talk on e Phone.He doesnÂ’t seems to Care 4 Me as time goes by. We even meet once in two week. When he book Out he only will spend his time on his doyta and sleeping. He will never spend
Time with me even not trying to understand me more. I am very vexed. Does he love me? Is it I have no time to acc him?
Should I give up this useless relationship? Or maybe I AM over sensitive
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now better? i had just edited my wordings..
after NS he probly needs time alone.. to sort things out... to destress. it's nothing to do with u.
when he never respond to the gal-sms-him-test, it means he's probly not interested in other gals yet...
but he's jus not tat into u... bcuz meeting once a fortnight is probly gd enough for him... not gd enough for u....
anyways dont worry, if u like him very much... u'll wait for him to make more moves... i think he's moving jus slow and steady with u... -
haha...Originally posted by M©+square:You know what? if she would want, i'd call for a individual meetup with the both of them.
That is, if it's necessary. I would do it.
that's MC for you huh?
doko
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BF got so bo chup 1 meh...
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Originally posted by Amber20:hello.. this the first time i had started my own topic here..
2 months ago.. i knew a guy who is serving ns now.. Although we never meet and chat on e phone before, i feel he is special and honest guy.. I started to like him.. I hinted him alOT and he knew it.. He oso say he like me.. after we meet, not so long, few weeks later, we get together already. Then e problem had came. WE seldom meet coz both of us are busy. As I am working from day to night and He is in Ns. his duty is like first day 2pm to second day 5pm k Book out. Third day he has to Book in at 2pm. And for me, I working from morning 8.30Am to night 12am, as I am holding two jobs. One Full time office job and one full time at The Pub. He don mind that me working pub. Only hope I know wat I am doing. But until now we Never chat on e phone coz he don like to talk on e Phone.He doesnÂ’t seems to Care 4 Me as time goes by. We even meet once in two week. When he book Out he only will spend his time on his doyta and sleeping. He will never spend
Time with me even not trying to understand me more. I am very vexed. Does he love me? Is it I have no time to acc him?
Should I give up this useless relationship? Or maybe I AM over sensitive
?
now better? i had just edited my wordings..
It seemed to me that you don't know the deal you are getting as you make the 'purchase' hastily. If your man is like that, I expect a great deal of conflicts if you desire to see changes to his attitude towards relationship.
If you buy a horse, one would expect a horse to be like a horse and not like a sheep.
I hope you understand the idea/message I am trying to subtly tell you.
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Can i be a Owl?Originally posted by Yunhaier: It seemed to me that you don't know the deal you are getting as you make the 'purchase' hastily. If your man is like that, I expect a great deal of conflicts if you desire to see changes to his attitude towards relationship.
If you buy a horse, one would expect a horse to be like a horse and not like a sheep.
I hope you understand the idea/message I am trying to subtly tell you.
Cheers
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You will be an owl on MC then.Originally posted by M©+square:Can i be a Owl?
cheers
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Yeah, i can't fly le....Originally posted by Yunhaier:You will be an owl on MC then.
Cheers
Give up....
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good suggestion, but usually if the guy (often those in-experienced ones or those cant take stress) will be very pissed off when being forced to make a choice, it's like making him choose between saving either his mother or his wife both drowning in the sea at the same time.Originally posted by pierre^^:ask him directly ba
ask him this
Games Or Amber
cause one week oni meet one time is really too short le
this piss guys off most of the time.
just speak to him, tell him your concerns properly, don't force him, let him know how you really feel. if he's sensible and mature, than he wll change himself and make time to meet you instead of play games which doesn't help him in his future at all.
I'll give the boyfriend a red card,Originally posted by M©+square:From what i see,
The boyfriend boh cho kang. Very slack attitude.
M© gives boyfriend
Yellow Card.
yellow card is too soft for a punishment.
i guess you haven being to NS before have you?Originally posted by deathscythe99:Ahem...maybe he's tired during NS?
Unless u know the nature of his job etc...I guess most guys would want some lonely times (i think) on book out? Doing mindless things
for those army guys who are attached, the first thing they book out is to meet their love ones, to de-stress and feel relax. just by meeting up with their love ones, maybe meet, slp at her place, be together don't talk, rest is also something that guys with a real heart to keep relationship going are doing.
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Ya, actually i agree. I remembered my 1st bf who was in NS during my younger days. He would always meet up with me after he booked out and i would be the last one he saw before he booked in. Can still remember the broad smile he had the moment he saw me after each of his book out.Originally posted by the_fallen:i guess you haven being to NS before have you?
for those army guys who are attached, the first thing they book out is to meet their love ones, to de-stress and feel relax. just by meeting up with their love ones, maybe meet, slp at her place, be together don't talk, rest is also something that guys with a real heart to keep relationship going are doing.
Guys are human too, gfs want to see them, they would want to see their beloved gfs too. If they really want to see their gfs, they will definitely make time.
But everyone is different, the frequency to meet up would of cos be different too. But meeting up only once a fortnight, not chitchatting over the phone and no frequent sms-es at all is definitely weird for someone in love.