does he love me?
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I think you guys get together too fast. sound to me like im in my younger days chatting in IRC n suddenly like some one.. anyway, be prepared for the worse.
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I think a little to early to say "love" right? Got a feeling Amber20's BF is a little bewildered... I mean... his girlfriend's got TWO jobs!!! And maybe he don't want to impose on her super busy schedule...Originally posted by Syndicate:I think you guys get together too fast. sound to me like im in my younger days chatting in IRC n suddenly like some one.. anyway, be prepared for the worse.
As for the phone thing... hmmmm... I think the bond between the couple is not that strong yet...
Or maybe... he cannot figure out if he "loves" Amber20...
Amber20... the only way to find out is to find time to talk to him face to face. Do something nice, cook his fav food and bring it to him... may just work... -
talk to him. If both of u caN't settle it, just give up.
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Have you tried to understand him instead?Originally posted by Amber20:hello.. this the first time i had started my own topic here..
2 months ago.. i knew a guy who is serving ns now.. Although we never meet and chat on e phone before, i feel he is special and honest guy.. I started to like him.. I hinted him alOT and he knew it.. He oso say he like me.. after we meet, not so long, few weeks later, we get together already. Then e problem had came. WE seldom meet coz both of us are busy. As I am working from day to night and He is in Ns. his duty is like first day 2pm to second day 5pm k Book out. Third day he has to Book in at 2pm. And for me, I working from morning 8.30Am to night 12am, as I am holding two jobs. One Full time office job and one full time at The Pub. He don mind that me working pub. Only hope I know wat I am doing. But until now we Never chat on e phone coz he don like to talk on e Phone.He doesnÂ’t seems to Care 4 Me as time goes by. We even meet once in two week. When he book Out he only will spend his time on his doyta and sleeping. He will never spend
Time with me even not trying to understand me more. I am very vexed. Does he love me? Is it I have no time to acc him?
Should I give up this useless relationship? Or maybe I AM over sensitive
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now better? i had just edited my wordings.. -
Is that any progress in the relationship... does it goes into a higher level...
if not , he just want to find someone to talk to....
how old are you???
hm... what is the meaning of love to u???
how u want him to show concern to u, did u hint to him or tell him??
or just ask him straight whether he loves u anot??? -
then i ask you all you one question.. a bf one week never msg his gf is that normal? not i sensitive le.. now it have become worst..
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i had msg him again and again like a idiot.. and he never reply..
then got anyone tell me why le? One week liao.. why le?
i don wan to lie to myself anymore.. he just don wan me liao right?
he just sick of me hor? -
do u know when is his birthday ?Originally posted by Amber20:i had msg him again and again like a idiot.. and he never reply..
then got anyone tell me why le? One week liao.. why le?
i don wan to lie to myself anymore.. he just don wan me liao right?
he just sick of me hor?
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seriously... both your thread seems to point to the same problem. Go call him during weekends... if he nv pick up then you got the answer.
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some vocation is a few days in camp a few days book out..Originally posted by citymax:think ur bf cheating on u lah...
where got duty every alternate day...
think he kena extra till he ord liao...
Go Fly Kite Lah!!!!
my fren and my fren de ex bf tio liddat de vocation
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in vocation doesn't mean cannot sms....Originally posted by shinta:some vocation is a few days in camp a few days book out..
my fren and my fren de ex bf tio liddat de vocation
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he juz doeesnt like to sms (her?). ts said he doesnt sms once within a week. even if in camp sometimes cannot sms, how about the days when he booked out?Originally posted by M©+square:in vocation doesn't mean cannot sms.... -
his horoscopes is aries ..
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It seems apparent to me that your BF in question is really not interested to pursue this relationship any further, after that much sms... there's no reaction from him.
I had a BF who was enlisted then as well... even when he's out for exercise, knowing he won't be able to call or sms me, he will let me know before hand... so I won't be expecting him to call or contact me... I think you already know the answer yourself.... -
He likes doyta more than uOriginally posted by Amber20:hello.. this the first time i had started my own topic here..
2 months ago.. i knew a guy who is serving ns now.. Although we never meet and chat on e phone before, i feel he is special and honest guy.. I started to like him.. I hinted him alOT and he knew it.. He oso say he like me.. after we meet, not so long, few weeks later, we get together already. Then e problem had came. WE seldom meet coz both of us are busy. As I am working from day to night and He is in Ns. his duty is like first day 2pm to second day 5pm k Book out. Third day he has to Book in at 2pm. And for me, I working from morning 8.30Am to night 12am, as I am holding two jobs. One Full time office job and one full time at The Pub. He don mind that me working pub. Only hope I know wat I am doing. But until now we Never chat on e phone coz he don like to talk on e Phone.He doesnÂ’t seems to Care 4 Me as time goes by. We even meet once in two week. When he book Out he only will spend his time on his doyta and sleeping. He will never spend
Time with me even not trying to understand me more. I am very vexed. Does he love me? Is it I have no time to acc him?
Should I give up this useless relationship? Or maybe I AM over sensitive
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now better? i had just edited my wordings.. -
DOTA = sin.
(Right, sorry for the OT, but it's quite common these days..DOTA strangling the life out of a relationship) -
sad truth. it's going no where.
what you should do is tell him the truth how u feel. if u want it to work it will. if he thinks it won't it won't. IT is SAD how these things happen but what can u do but move on. use it as an experience to learn from.
most likely the guy is not for the relationship. sure you can wait and continue later but it is long time. u want to hear advice. but u already know what u want. you only want other ppl to agree with you. so i'm hear to tell u everything you want to know. it's ok to have two jobs. it's ok to be in love with someone in NS. it's ok to still love him. but u also know it's not ok if u can't talk or see him as much as you like. it's not ok to keep going in the relationship. it's not ok to keep waiting anymore.
hurry and get a new guy
roar
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What's yours then?Originally posted by Amber20:his horoscopes is aries ..
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me 20.. he 21.. but now is ok liao.. i had given up on him liao ..
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good for you. Sometimes must take it easy.... as long you are not nasty, you'll be alright!Originally posted by Amber20:me 20.. he 21.. but now is ok liao.. i had given up on him liao ..
feel more relax...
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Yes, when one door closes, another window might be opened. Dont spend too much time staring at the closed door that you fail to notice the opened window.Originally posted by Amber20:me 20.. he 21.. but now is ok liao.. i had given up on him liao ..
feel more relax...