I'm so traumatised...

• Space1999

  4 Dec 06, 01:06

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  i can only imagine of that if it happened to me, and i simply replied truthfully of what i can expect.
  
  you believe me or not, i don't care.

  well if you really think so , then good for you
  but until it does, lets not dish out our own "what if it happened to me moralistic "
  i can say how i felt because this happened to somebody i love many years ago..and i can tell you how the sexual preprators make their first move
  
  by pretending to be drunk..
  
  and i did beat him up..
• binarynwitz

  4 Dec 06, 01:07

  Originally posted by Space1999:

  drunk or not, was the guy right to do what he did?
  that means its okay to run naked to a girl room alone and followed her when you are drunk?
  if you think its right,,, i rest my case
  i have nothing to say to you

  That statement would have been mine to you.
  
  Being drunk doesn't mean you don't need to take responsibility. Being drunk means you made a honest mistake.
  
  If he's willing to repent and truly sorry, why not?
• Space1999

  4 Dec 06, 01:09

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:

  That statement would have been mine to you.
  
  Being drunk doesn't mean you don't need to take responsibility. Being drunk means you made a honest mistake.
  
  If he's willing to repent and truly sorry, why not?

  read my earlier post, in my case, she was not as lucky or maybe smart as ts to run away cause she was too scared..
  and guess what..that guy was drunk too or pretended to be...you can be drunk?naked?and did what he did?have you done it?
• monoslayer

  4 Dec 06, 01:11

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:

  That statement would have been mine to you.
  
  Being drunk doesn't mean you don't need to take responsibility. Being drunk means you made a honest mistake.
  
  If he's willing to repent and truly sorry, why not?

  was he truly drunk in the 1st place? "jiu zhui 3 fen shing". IMHO, wat he did was unforgivable.
• Space1999

  4 Dec 06, 01:13

  Originally posted by monoslayer:

  was he truly drunk in the 1st place? "jiu zhui 3 fen shing". IMHO, wat he did was unforgivable.

  exactly!
  the main things is drunk or not we never know, what we are sure of here now is what he did was unforgivable.stop giving him excuses for what he did..
  
• binarynwitz

  4 Dec 06, 01:13

  He could be drunk enough to not realise he was naked. And he could be chasing her because he just doesn't know what went wrong.
  
  I've seen people like that.
  
  Though, I can't say if I would do it. I've never been drunk, but there was once I nearly did something to a girl I held dear.
  
  Thank goodness, I didn't drink enough to completely lose my sense (3/4 of a 24% wine).
  
  Edit: You're just too ready to give people the death sentence because you've seen one that's guilty.
• mase101

  4 Dec 06, 01:13

  Whack that son of the bitch!
• Space1999

  4 Dec 06, 01:16

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:
  [b]He could be drunk enough to not realise he was naked. And he could be chasing her because he just doesn't know what went wrong.I've seen people like that.
  

  pah...no way man, no way..
  i drink ..and from what ts wrote of him..he is a fantastic drinker...i find it hard to believe that he is innocent...
  what next...he is drunk enuff to rape?
  
• Space1999

  4 Dec 06, 01:18

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:

  He could be drunk enough to not realise he was naked. And he could be chasing her because he just doesn't know what went wrong.
  
  I've seen people like that.
  
  Though, I can't say if I would do it. I've never been drunk, but there was once I nearly did something to a girl I held dear.
  
  Thank goodness, I didn't drink enough to completely lose my sense (3/4 of a 24% wine).
  
  Edit: You're just too ready to give people the death sentence because you've seen one that's guilty.

  well , i hope it doesnt happen to your loved ones, im not joking, i really hope so..the trauma they experienced cause them not being able to go out , crying..fear..alway locked up in the room,
  and all for what? because he is drunk?
  thats a load of crap
• dokono

  4 Dec 06, 01:20

  Originally posted by Space1999:

  talk ? more talk? and expose herself, im not ts biggest fan, but as a guy here, i would like to tell you how real bastards mind work
  
  by calling him or meeting him secretly behind the wife back, she is exposing herself even more, he can even use that as evidence to his wife,
  see she is interested in me! she started it first!
  really dumb move to do that,,,
  
  either you expose to the wife,
  beat the shit out of him
  or just ignore them totally but cutting them out of her life..
  
  pls give more pratical ideas...not ideas out of drama

  Hi Space
  
  Relax. I know you are agitated over your "dear"
  
  You suggested three options here.
  1)Expose the guy.
  2) Beat the crap out of that butthole.
  3)Ignore them totally.
  
  Personally, my style will be just ignore the guy more from now onwards. Unless he apologises and swear he never do it again, it's hard to trust him anymore. Even if he does apologise, my trust is never the same as before. And I will never stay in their house again, EVER.
  
  Your style is very violent. Bash his balls. But we should not use our balls to think.
  
  Look, there are 3 options you have suggested. Let's take a look.
  
  Option 1: You expose the guy. But their marriage will be on the rocks. True, you want the wife to know of his damn behaviour but can you spare a thought for their marriage? As I have said, any more nonsense, she should tell the wife of that damn behaviour of his and then cut them loose. Friends? Nah~ Enemies better.
  
  Option 2: Beat the crap out of him. Even if you manage to bash him, can you reverse the situation? It 's not helping the situation except making things worse. Real men do not use violence.
  
  Option 3: Avoid him totally. Personally, I have stated before that in my previous post that this is my advice. However, Yunhaier's advice is workable as well. That is, if you do value the friendship. If not, she can jolly well avoid the jerk.
  
  Hence, I feel option 3 is the best if that answers your vengeance for Ms. Blu_sky.
  
  doko
• binarynwitz

  4 Dec 06, 01:20

  It already happened to one.
  
  But that's out of topic.
• monoslayer

  4 Dec 06, 01:21

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:

  He could be drunk enough to not realise he was naked. And he could be chasing her because he just doesn't know what went wrong.
  
  I've seen people like that.
  
  Though, I can't say if I would do it. I've never been drunk, but there was once I nearly did something to a girl I held dear.
  
  Thank goodness, I didn't drink enough to completely lose my sense (3/4 of a 24% wine).
  
  Edit: You're just too ready to give people the death sentence because you've seen one that's guilty.

  go get urself drunk den come here post again. if u r really drunk, ur head would b so farking heavy tat u wouldnt wanna do anything except sleep.
• binarynwitz

  4 Dec 06, 01:22

  That's dead drunk, lah.
  
  Have you tried when you just drink not too little, not too much, then you suddenly start thinking of things you never thought of, and somehow you start acting on them.
  
  Like I said, happened to me once.
• Space1999

  4 Dec 06, 01:23

  Originally posted by dokono:

  Hi Space
  
  Relax. I know you are agitated over your "dear"
  
  You suggested two options here.
  1)Expose the guy.
  2) Beat the crap out of that butthole.
  3)Ignore them totally.
  
  Personally, my style will be just ignore the guy more from now onwards. Unless he apologises and swear he never do it again, it's hard to trust him anymore. Even if he does apologise, my trust is never the same as before. And I will never stay in their house again, EVER.
  
  Your style is very violent. Bash his balls. But we should not use our balls to think.
  
  Look, there are 3 options you have suggested. Let's take a look.
  
  Option 1: You expose the guy. But their marriage will be on the rocks. True, you want the wife to know of his damn behaviour but can you spare a thought for their marriage? As I have said, any more nonsense, she should tell the wife of that damn behaviour of his and then cut them loose. Friends? Nah~ Enemies better.
  
  Option 2: Beat the crap out of him. Even if you manage to bash him, can you reverse the situation? It 's not helping the situation except making things worse. Real men do not use violence.
  
  Option 3: Avoid him totally. Personally, I have stated before that in my previous post that this is my advice. However, Yunhaier's advice is workable as well. That is, if you do value the friendship. If not, she can jolly well avoid the jerk.
  
  Hence, I feel option 3 is the best if that answers your vengeance for Ms. Blu_sky.
  
  doko

  im agitated by men constant sexual behavior towards woman , the caveman style , take what you want bordering on sex crimes, in fact its a sex crime already,she can actually make a police report.
  
  i beleive this is the lowest of all man kind, the sexual predator who take advantage of the victim and try to mask his intentions by being drunk or any other format
  
  im a strong advocacy of the sweet persuasion style...
• Ito_^

  4 Dec 06, 01:24

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:

  That's dead drunk, lah.
  
  Have you tried when you just drink not too little, not too much, then you suddenly start thinking of things you never thought of, and somehow you start acting on them.
  
  Like I said, happened to me once.

  could be drugs oso.. many reasons.
  
  i once accidentally ate panadol with juz couple glasses of cocktail. whoa.. high man.
• Space1999

  4 Dec 06, 01:24

  Originally posted by monoslayer:

  go get urself drunk den come here post again. if u r really drunk, ur head would b so farking heavy tat u wouldnt wanna do anything except sleep.

  precisely real drinkers would know that..not part time drinkers
• monoslayer

  4 Dec 06, 01:25

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:

  That's dead drunk, lah.
  
  Have you tried when you just drink not too little, not too much, then you suddenly start thinking of things you never thought of, and somehow you start acting on them.
  
  Like I said, happened to me once.

  tats call 'high', not drunk.
  
• binarynwitz

  4 Dec 06, 01:27

  Originally posted by monoslayer:

  tats call 'high', not drunk.
  

  I prefer mildly drunk.
• monoslayer

  4 Dec 06, 01:28

  if tat guy still can give chase, i truly believe he is aware of his own actions.
• binarynwitz

  4 Dec 06, 01:29

  Originally posted by Space1999:

  im a strong advocacy of the sweet persuasion style...

  Foreplay?
• Space1999

  4 Dec 06, 01:29

  Originally posted by monoslayer:

  if tat guy still can give chase, i truly believe he is aware of his own actions.

  if you are so drunk , you can hardly move, not to mention give chase..
• binarynwitz

  4 Dec 06, 01:29

  Originally posted by monoslayer:

  if tat guy still can give chase, i truly believe he is aware of his own actions.

  Wait for Ms. blu_sky to give us more information, bah. Because her "chasing" somehow doesn't sound like chasing. >.>
• Space1999

  4 Dec 06, 01:31

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:

  Foreplay?

  dude
  your attempt at humour in such a serious topic of abuse of woman is not really appreciated, shows how old are you and your immaturity.
• Space1999

  4 Dec 06, 01:32

  Originally posted by binarynwitz:

  Wait for Ms. blu_sky to give us more information, bah. Because her "chasing" somehow doesn't sound like chasing. >.>

  so i ran up the roof. he followed me to the roof!
  
  if this is not chasing , pls tell me what is?to the roof!
  pah
  
• monoslayer

  4 Dec 06, 01:33

  anyway, did blu_sky even mention tat bugger was drunk? cos i read the 1st post n there was nothing written abt him being drunk.