some things jsut isnt meant to be..
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well.. i know this ger online for sometime.. finally one day we met up.. and slowly things progress.. and finally we got together..
and like any other couple.. theres some argueing here and there..
and then theres sort of a silence war between us.. one day she asked me.. can i trust her again?? (i assumed she wanted thing to patch up). well i needed time to think so i didnt reply her immediatly.. and the next thing i know.. shes with another guy already!! how can someone have a change of heart so quickly?? its not like some secondary school relationship..
well.. heres a photo of us.. WHEN we'r still happy together.. wats left are all memories.. sad..
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Ditch her. Find someone who can appreciate u better.
Anyways she is just skin and bones. -
wow. is that really ur picture?
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hmm then move on..
she is now with another guy le..., and like u say..she has a change of heart le...what more can u do?
Juz try get over with it asap lo..Time shall heal anything
My case last time oso a bit like urs...she has a change of heart..like her classmate...
really devasted at this fact...but as time passes...u will feel the pain lessening...Is going to be alrite for u too..=) -
Poor boy..
Dun be sad. Love is like that. Think positive.
If you truly love her, accept what she is now. If she still loves you, she might look u up again.
But remember, if she loves you, why is she with a new guy? Many reasons of course. But that also doesnt mean she do not love you anymore.
Be patience la. Keep urself busy. One day, hopefully one day, she might open her heart back to you....
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Is there a need to post you and her pictures together? If u trully respect her, u should not post picture of her here. Unless u have her consent.
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done
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Originally posted by Space1999:i really dont think posting your picture here with her is such a great idea.
X2.
I agree with Space.
Somehow, I don't think she will be pleased to see her picture posted in a local forum. If she discover this thread, you are likely to blow off whatever small glimpse of hope to even retain friendship.
On the other hand, I am interested to understand the rational of you posting this picture here.
What's in your mind when you are doing it? And why?
P.S: Mod you may want to edit post to remove the peekture?
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When you are in love, you tend to pour out everything. Even posting pictures seem like an ok thing to do. Because of love. Because of hurt and sadness.Originally posted by Yunhaier: X2.
I agree with Space.
Somehow, I don't think she will be pleased to see her picture posted in a local forum. If she discover this thread, you are likely to blow off whatever small glimpse of hope to even retain friendship.
On the other hand, I am interested to understand the rational of you posting this picture here.
What's in your mind when you are doing it? And why?
Cheers
Matters of the heart is difficult to understand.
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sounds like sabo , is this your own picture?
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Originally posted by mhcampboy:When you are in love, you tend to pour out everything. Even posting pictures seem like an ok thing to do. Because of love. Because of hurt and sadness.
Matters of the heart is difficult to understand. I hold my comments on this; would prefer TS to explain himself.
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lol the girl is making an expression that i usually like to make and wich my dear thinks is cute
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well.. its my pic.. and thats all i had left.. and do i really need a reason for posting some picture up here?? its not like some nudity pic or whatever.. and i belive i know her better then u know her?? so i belive she dont mind me posting her pic up here..
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you asked her?Originally posted by ivan_wsd:well.. its my pic.. and thats all i had left.. and do i really need a reason for posting some picture up here?? its not like some nudity pic or whatever.. and i belive i know her better then u know her?? so i belive she dont mind me posting her pic up here.. -
erm even if it is not nudity pic, sum girls mite mind. I am one of themOriginally posted by ivan_wsd:well.. its my pic.. and thats all i had left.. and do i really need a reason for posting some picture up here?? its not like some nudity pic or whatever.. and i belive i know her better then u know her?? so i belive she dont mind me posting her pic up here..
Wat would she feel if one day she goes on a street and people around her whisper,"Hey, isn't that the girl inside a forum thread last time? And she just broke up with her bf!"
Think about it. And this place isnt really a good place to post up pics of someone you would like to continue to be frens wif...just my humble opinion based on my experience -
you should ask her, but at the same time this picture is all you have to remind you of the relationship , only one picture?Originally posted by ivan_wsd:well.. its my pic.. and thats all i had left.. and do i really need a reason for posting some picture up here?? its not like some nudity pic or whatever.. and i belive i know her better then u know her?? so i belive she dont mind me posting her pic up here.. -
if i were to post all the pic, i belive 1 page is not enuff ??Originally posted by Space1999:you should ask her, but at the same time this picture is all you have to remind you of the relationship , only one picture?
i'm just posting the one which we used to like the most..
and i belive whats done is done?? i'm just trying to put whats in my heart out.. so i dont feel so stuff up in my chest.. and wats all about the pic thing??
my ger left me.. my best buddy got into some case and is in civil custody.. i had no one to talk to.. no wan to encourage me and now all of u are telling me posting some pic is wrong??? OMGZZZZZZ -
up to youOriginally posted by ivan_wsd:if i were to post all the pic, i belive 1 page is not enuff ??
i'm just posting the one which we used to like the most..
and i belive whats done is done?? i'm just trying to put whats in my heart out.. so i dont feel so stuff up in my chest.. and wats all about the pic thing??
my ger left me.. my best buddy got into some case and is in civil custody.. i had no one to talk to.. no wan to encourage me and now all of u are telling me posting some pic is wrong??? OMGZZZZZZ
just think of the consequences. This matter might turn out to be worse than now. -
Are you studying? where are you studyin?Originally posted by ivan_wsd:if i were to post all the pic, i belive 1 page is not enuff ??
i'm just posting the one which we used to like the most..
and i belive whats done is done?? i'm just trying to put whats in my heart out.. so i dont feel so stuff up in my chest.. and wats all about the pic thing??
my ger left me.. my best buddy got into some case and is in civil custody.. i had no one to talk to.. no wan to encourage me and now all of u are telling me posting some pic is wrong??? OMGZZZZZZ -
I don't think forumners are telling you off . It is just well meaning advice to remove your picture because you don't know the people out in the net irl whether they are psychos or just plain nice people. It's for your own safety and the girl's as well.Originally posted by ivan_wsd:if i were to post all the pic, i belive 1 page is not enuff ??
i'm just posting the one which we used to like the most..
and i belive whats done is done?? i'm just trying to put whats in my heart out.. so i dont feel so stuff up in my chest.. and wats all about the pic thing??
my ger left me.. my best buddy got into some case and is in civil custody.. i had no one to talk to.. no wan to encourage me and now all of u are telling me posting some pic is wrong??? OMGZZZZZZ -
There there.... no one is telling you wad to do...Originally posted by ivan_wsd:if i were to post all the pic, i belive 1 page is not enuff ??
i'm just posting the one which we used to like the most..
and i belive whats done is done?? i'm just trying to put whats in my heart out.. so i dont feel so stuff up in my chest.. and wats all about the pic thing??
my ger left me.. my best buddy got into some case and is in civil custody.. i had no one to talk to.. no wan to encourage me and now all of u are telling me posting some pic is wrong??? OMGZZZZZZ
I think they are just reminding you of the complications involved.
Maybe you wanna tell us more of your problems? -
wah seh...you two got the fu qi lian leh..
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How old are the both of you?Originally posted by ivan_wsd:well.. i know this ger online for sometime.. finally one day we met up.. and slowly things progress.. and finally we got together..
and like any other couple.. theres some argueing here and there..
and then theres sort of a silence war between us.. one day she asked me.. can i trust her again?? (i assumed she wanted thing to patch up). well i needed time to think so i didnt reply her immediatly.. and the next thing i know.. shes with another guy already!! how can someone have a change of heart so quickly?? its not like some secondary school relationship..
well.. heres a photo of us.. WHEN we'r still happy together.. wats left are all memories.. sad..
Well you said you know her well but you did not know the fact that she jumped ship so soon. And you don't know the direction of the relationship changes so fast if you knew her well enough.
Clearly, you don't know the enemy well.
But, rest well and prepare for the next battle.
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not wise to say this to someone who has just broken up wif his girl...Originally posted by TYING:wah seh...you two got the fu qi lian leh.. -
why u post my pic?