some things jsut isnt meant to be..
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well.. we'r in the early 20's.. like i said we'r just like any normal couple.. together most of the time.. doing things wat normal couple do.. sharing thoughts.. one day over some misunderstanding i just felt that i need sometime to think and how i can talk things right with her.. but she just suddenly has a change of heart.. and worst still the person shes with now is someone i know.. but obviously is not my fren.. well not enemy too..
and due to my our life style.. we get to see each other (including the guy shes with now) almost everyday.. and it just hurt to see someone i love so much with another guy??? and i can hardly concentrate on my work.. i told myself i must stand up.. and my best buddy.. who is always there for me.. who encourage me when things like this happen.. suddenly just isnt there anymore.. i dunno who to turn to.. i just wanna talk to someone.. and pull me up again..
and i belive pic like mine can be found in friendster.. and almost anyone has access to friendster.. and if heres a dangerous place.. how safe is friendster?? my purpose of posting the pic maybe is jsut to let ppl see how sweet issit when we'r together?? i got no specific reason for posting it.. -
You reminded me of myself.Originally posted by ivan_wsd:well.. we'r in the early 20's.. like i said we'r just like any normal couple.. together most of the time.. doing things wat normal couple do.. sharing thoughts.. one day over some misunderstanding i just felt that i need sometime to think and how i can talk things right with her.. but she just suddenly has a change of heart.. and worst still the person shes with now is someone i know.. but obviously is not my fren.. well not enemy too..
and due to my our life style.. we get to see each other (including the guy shes with now) almost everyday.. and it just hurt to see someone i love so much with another guy??? and i can hardly concentrate on my work.. i told myself i must stand up.. and my best buddy.. who is always there for me.. who encourage me when things like this happen.. suddenly just isnt there anymore.. i dunno who to turn to.. i just wanna talk to someone.. and pull me up again..
and i belive pic like mine can be found in friendster.. and almost anyone has access to friendster.. and if heres a dangerous place.. how safe is friendster?? my purpose of posting the pic maybe is jsut to let ppl see how sweet issit when we'r together?? i got no specific reason for posting it..
Almost the same event happened. But different scenario.
Hmm, maybe you could give some time off between both of you first? Cos i believe she still loves you. Maybe circumstances led her to be attach with another guy.
Try and talk to her and ask her what is going to happen now? Are you willing to show her love by waiting? Or do you want to move on?
I am sure, one day, she will call you again and ask to be together again.
Cos both of you are deeply in love.
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wah.. not dat i wan to rub salt but.. ur photo u two really fu qi face leh.
life so unexpected sia..
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Pity.
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i must thank you for giving me such advice.. but i was wondering wat u said.. can i accept her again?? i love her yet i hate her.. i hate her for doing such thing to me.. making me feel like this..Originally posted by mhcampboy:You reminded me of myself.
Almost the same event happened. But different scenario.
Hmm, maybe you could give some time off between both of you first? Cos i believe she still loves you. Maybe circumstances led her to be attach with another guy.
Try and talk to her and ask her what is going to happen now? Are you willing to show her love by waiting? Or do you want to move on?
I am sure, one day, she will call you again and ask to be together again.
Cos both of you are deeply in love. -
Yeah sweet it was last time but not now anymore.Originally posted by ivan_wsd:well.. we'r in the early 20's.. like i said we'r just like any normal couple.. together most of the time.. doing things wat normal couple do.. sharing thoughts.. one day over some misunderstanding i just felt that i need sometime to think and how i can talk things right with her.. but she just suddenly has a change of heart.. and worst still the person shes with now is someone i know.. but obviously is not my fren.. well not enemy too..
and due to my our life style.. we get to see each other (including the guy shes with now) almost everyday.. and it just hurt to see someone i love so much with another guy??? and i can hardly concentrate on my work.. i told myself i must stand up.. and my best buddy.. who is always there for me.. who encourage me when things like this happen.. suddenly just isnt there anymore.. i dunno who to turn to.. i just wanna talk to someone.. and pull me up again..
and i belive pic like mine can be found in friendster.. and almost anyone has access to friendster.. and if heres a dangerous place.. how safe is friendster?? my purpose of posting the pic maybe is jsut to let ppl see how sweet issit when we'r together?? i got no specific reason for posting it..
One thing you have to know is girls her age can change feelings very suddenly.
Pick yourself up- because if she can do this to you, what do you think is the love she has for you? The answer: zero. The misunderstanding you had was just an excuse.
Love comes and go. Just be prepared for the next one.
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You hate her actions. But you dont hate her love. You still love her. Can you let your memories go just like that?Originally posted by ivan_wsd:i must thank you for giving me such advice.. but i was wondering wat u said.. can i accept her again?? i love her yet i hate her.. i hate her for doing such thing to me.. making me feel like this..
Sometimes, love is just not enough for a relationship to be better. Forgiveness is. Maybe one day, with your patience, your efforts will pay off. She will ask u back... and thats where your suffering will soon be lifted. And after tat, the decision lies in you...
for now, you really cannot do anitin... except if u wish... try to talk things out with her again... but never ever overdo it.. as in never call every min of the day asking her back tat sorts...
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Originally posted by ivan_wsd:well.. we'r in the early 20's.. like i said we'r just like any normal couple.. together most of the time.. doing things wat normal couple do.. sharing thoughts.. one day over some misunderstanding i just felt that i need sometime to think and how i can talk things right with her.. but she just suddenly has a change of heart.. and worst still the person shes with now is someone i know.. but obviously is not my fren.. well not enemy too..
and due to my our life style.. we get to see each other (including the guy shes with now) almost everyday.. and it just hurt to see someone i love so much with another guy??? and i can hardly concentrate on my work.. i told myself i must stand up.. and my best buddy.. who is always there for me.. who encourage me when things like this happen.. suddenly just isnt there anymore.. i dunno who to turn to.. i just wanna talk to someone.. and pull me up again..
and i belive pic like mine can be found in friendster.. and almost anyone has access to friendster.. and if heres a dangerous place.. how safe is friendster?? my purpose of posting the pic maybe is jsut to let ppl see how sweet issit when we'r together?? i got no specific reason for posting it..
How does it change your situation even people decides that you two look compatiable or sweet as you sadly puts it? After all, compatibility is relative - a well-packaged can of peanut butter doesn't always mean that it will automatically taste good to your buds.
A good photograph stops a beautiful moment from slipping away.
But would you rather live in that stasis of time and forgo the next beautiful moment?
Putting up that picture, wouldn't it create more room for self pity with that sort of action?
She has fleeting affection - I don't think her love is substantial if she could decide to be with someone else even before she resolve the dire complication between the both of you.
Of course, you are free to release your emotional stress here; Aunt Agony is a place for the low spirited and depressed. Pen down what you need as if you are speaking - people are here to listen.
P.S: Spacey - maybe you could also edit your post to remove the quoted picture since TS has already edited his post in good faith.
Cheers -
pal,Originally posted by Yunhaier: How does it change your situation even people decides that you two look compatiable or sweet as you sadly puts it? After all, compatibility is relative - a well-packaged can of peanut butter doesn't always mean that it will automatically taste good to your buds.
A good photograph stops a beautiful moment from slipping away.
But would you rather live in that stasis of time and forgo the next beautiful moment?
Putting up that picture, wouldn't it create more room for self pity with that sort of action?
She has fleeting affection - I don't think her love is substantial if she could decide to be with someone else even before she resolve the dire complication between the both of you.
Of course, you are free to release your emotional stress here; Aunt Agony is a place for the low spirited and depressed. Pen down what you need as if you are speaking - people are here to listen.
P.S: Spacey - maybe you could also edit your post to remove the quoted picture since TS has already edited his post in good faith.
Cheers
it your life la. choose the right woman.
time will heal, no doubt it is difficult initially. write in forum is good.
gald that u do that.
the gal is jus not stable yet from u. switcp partner so fast?
got to learn to acccept it.
rest a few month first. when you think you are ready for the next woman, then go for it.
if keeping away the picture help, then do it pls. It doesnt mean u r weak to handle. jus 'wise' enough to accept the reality.