need quick advice

• lexibabe

  7 Dec 06, 11:24

  hi, i hope someone can help me out here..
  i met a friend through a guy friend some weeks back and i don think i am falling in love with him or even like him cause the time of knowing each other is so short and we have been out like 2 times only.
  the second time we went out he kiss me and say he will fall in love with me and he also ask me if i will fall in love with him... but the problem is he has a gf and he told me he is keeping his options open... what the heck is he thinking abt?
  i jus cant get him off my mind now and he always sms me good morning and nite untill the day recently he stopped...
  its getting on my nerves as i am a straight forwarded gal and i don like to play mind games.. can someone advise me on his behaviour?
  
  thanks a million
• ditzy

  7 Dec 06, 11:27

  What! 2nd time out and he gets to kiss you. And he got gf somemore, still tell you he keeping his options open! Grrr, tell him don't call you, you'll call him.
• ditzy

  7 Dec 06, 11:28

  If you want sweet revenge, meet him a third time, get his gf's contact secretly, and let the games begin.
• Space1999

  7 Dec 06, 11:28

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  hi, i hope someone can help me out here..
  i met a friend through a guy friend some weeks back and i don think i am falling in love with him or even like him cause the time of knowing each other is so short and we have been out like 2 times only.
  the second time we went out he kiss me and say he will fall in love with me and he also ask me if i will fall in love with him... but the problem is he has a gf and he told me he is keeping his options open... what the heck is he thinking abt?
  i jus cant get him off my mind now and he always sms me good morning and nite untill the day recently he stopped...
  its getting on my nerves as i am a straight forwarded gal and i don like to play mind games.. can someone advise me on his behaviour?
  
  thanks a million

  player confirmed
• M©+square

  7 Dec 06, 11:29

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  hi, i hope someone can help me out here..
  i met a friend through a guy friend some weeks back and i don think i am falling in love with him or even like him cause the time of knowing each other is so short and we have been out like 2 times only.
  the second time we went out he kiss me and say he will fall in love with me and he also ask me if i will fall in love with him... but the problem is he has a gf and he told me he is keeping his options open... what the heck is he thinking abt?
  i jus cant get him off my mind now and he always sms me good morning and nite untill the day recently he stopped...
  its getting on my nerves as i am a straight forwarded gal and i don like to play mind games.. can someone advise me on his behaviour?
  
  thanks a million

  and you liked it.
• lexibabe

  7 Dec 06, 11:31

  Originally posted by Space1999:

  player confirmed

  player means what? i really get disturbed by this and well... to tell the truth... we went clubbing the second time round and i was tipsy when he say all this things... and the next day he called me and chatted with me and tell me abt his past gf things and his idea of a relationship...
  whats the point?
  
  
• Space1999

  7 Dec 06, 11:32

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  player means what? i really get disturbed by this and well... to tell the truth... we went clubbing the second time round and i was tipsy when he say all this things... and the next day he called me and chatted with me and tell me abt his past gf things and his idea of a relationship...
  whats the point?
  
  

  that means he is going to play play u lor
• ditzy

  7 Dec 06, 11:32

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  and you liked it.

  Girls are liddat one, they tell you they don't, its totally wrong, its not right, they won't do this. End of the day, they do everything else contrary to the above.
• lexibabe

  7 Dec 06, 11:37

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  Girls are liddat one, they tell you they don't, its totally wrong, its not right, they won't do this. End of the day, they do everything else contrary to the above.

  not really lar. anyways i didnt like it but if he is true than i will accpect him but now he seems to be not
• Ito_^

  7 Dec 06, 11:37

  Originally posted by lexibabe:
  hi, i hope someone can help me out here..
  i met a friend through a guy friend some weeks back and i don think i am falling in love with him or even like him cause the time of knowing each other is so short and we have been out like 2 times only.
  the second time we went out he kiss me and say he will fall in love with me and he also ask me if i will fall in love with him... but the problem is he has a gf and he told me he is keeping his options open... what the heck is he thinking abt?
  i jus cant get him off my mind now and he always sms me good morning and nite untill the day recently he stopped...
  its getting on my nerves as i am a straight forwarded gal and i don like to play mind games.. can someone advise me on his behaviour?
  
  thanks a million

  quite funny
• charlemagne

  7 Dec 06, 11:38

  Clubbing you say? Well, answer's there right in front of you.
  
  He's treating you like a doormat, but of course if you tell him off like that, he'd reply you back, what makes you think you're so special? ~WhiteChicks Wayan Brothers~
• ditzy

  7 Dec 06, 11:38

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  not really lar. anyways i didnt like it but if he is true than i will accpect him but now he seems to be not

  Then if he's true now, but still decides to keep his options open after that?
• M©+square

  7 Dec 06, 11:40

  my statement stands. We'll see.
  
  Cheers
• lexibabe

  7 Dec 06, 11:42

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  quite funny

  i also find that funny and worst still disturbing
  
  
• mistyblue

  7 Dec 06, 11:45

  your last statement ... straight-forward... ermm...
  
  if that's the case, you would not be asking for advice.
• lexibabe

  7 Dec 06, 11:47

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  Then if he's true now, but still decides to keep his options open after that?

  u are rite.. i should not be stupid rite? which i think i am being rite now. i think its all not so worth for his gf
  
  but anyways i don like it lar. who would like being forced to kiss?
  that is ridiculous
  and i mean what i say
  
• lexibabe

  7 Dec 06, 11:52

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  your last statement ... straight-forward... ermm...
  
  if that's the case, you would not be asking for advice.

  actually advice in seeing what sort of person he is basing on the things that he did. i still feel that even i am straight forward there will be times when i will be confused. rite?
  and i am a confused kid....
  
  
• lexibabe

  7 Dec 06, 12:25

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  actually advice in seeing what sort of person he is basing on the things that he did. i still feel that even i am straight forward there will be times when i will be confused. rite?
  and i am a confused kid....
  
  

  anyways, thanks for pointing to me that he is really a player in disguse.
  i pity his poor gf. thanks people
• mistyblue

  7 Dec 06, 12:26

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  actually advice in seeing what sort of person he is basing on the things that he did. i still feel that even i am straight forward there will be times when i will be confused. rite?
  and i am a confused kid....
  
  

  I find it strange you cannot tell ...
  we are far removed from your experience and situation.
  so whatever we tell you is an extrapolation of your posts.
  
  
• lexibabe

  7 Dec 06, 12:36

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  I find it strange you cannot tell ...
  we are far removed from your experience and situation.
  so whatever we tell you is an extrapolation of your posts.
  
  

  actually its not strange when you cannot tell and need advices cause when u are in the situtaion, things tend to cloud your mind.
  
• ditzy

  7 Dec 06, 13:11

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  actually its not strange when you cannot tell and need advices cause when u are in the situtaion, things tend to cloud your mind.
  

  Can see for your case, it seems extra murky.
• Patrik

  7 Dec 06, 13:16

  YEEKS!!!!!!!
  
• BrUtUs

  7 Dec 06, 13:24

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  hi, i hope someone can help me out here..
  i met a friend through a guy friend some weeks back and i don think i am falling in love with him or even like him cause the time of knowing each other is so short and we have been out like 2 times only.
  the second time we went out he kiss me and say he will fall in love with me and he also ask me if i will fall in love with him... but the problem is he has a gf and he told me he is keeping his options open... what the heck is he thinking abt?
  i jus cant get him off my mind now and he always sms me good morning and nite untill the day recently he stopped...
  its getting on my nerves as i am a straight forwarded gal and i don like to play mind games.. can someone advise me on his behaviour?
  
  thanks a million

  u believe he mean wat he say, u must be a big fool... hes jz a flirt la... see u pretty wan to bed u liao la... ure probably the 99th he said this week.... dun be naive... its jz a standard game strategy for a flirt... better cut off all ties with him b4 u lose more...
• mayday80

  7 Dec 06, 13:33

  For one, he's interested in you. Now is on your part, do you like him?
  If yes, then you should keep in contact, yet keep a distance until you are more sure where you're heading... for example how he's going to deal with him being attached.
  If you are not confident of handling a 'possible' player, then you should probably quit before you get hurt.
• mistyblue

  7 Dec 06, 13:34

  Originally posted by ditzy:

  Can see for your case, it seems extra murky.

  hmmm...