need quick advice
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U mention clubbing?
I think most problem arise from BGR arise with clubbing and drinking...
Number one rule for me-- Never try to know a gal from clubbing as gf or future
wife,unless u intend to flirt!
Btw,I hate clubbing and drinking...
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always remember to change back your nick....Originally posted by pierre^^:Actually wad we say here got use?
i tink ur mind got ans le
Doko
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Siao liao... Clone discovered!Originally posted by M©+square:always remember to change back your nick.... 
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He has my franchise.
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Originally posted by dokono:He has my franchise.
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yesOriginally posted by CannyOng:U mention clubbing?
I think most problem arise from BGR arise with clubbing and drinking...
Number one rule for me-- Never try to know a gal from clubbing as gf or future
wife,unless u intend to flirt!
Btw,I hate clubbing and drinking...
if you want to get good girls, get it from those volunteer organisations.
They should be nicer people. This is not to generalise clubbing girls, however. The odds of them being nice, the number is lower. -
Originally posted by lexibabe:hi, i hope someone can help me out here..
i met a friend through a guy friend some weeks back and i don think i am falling in love with him or even like him cause the time of knowing each other is so short and we have been out like 2 times only.
the second time we went out he kiss me and say he will fall in love with me and he also ask me if i will fall in love with him... but the problem is he has a gf and he told me he is keeping his options open... what the heck is he thinking abt?
i jus cant get him off my mind now and he always sms me good morning and nite untill the day recently he stopped...
its getting on my nerves as i am a straight forwarded gal and i don like to play mind games.. can someone advise me on his behaviour?
thanks a million
It takes about four drinks to make a man lose his mind; about four kisses to make a woman lose hers?
Albeit it has been mentioned, to me, apart from being a potential player, it is also equally possible for a man like him to be living in a long 'deceased' relationship, seeking for someone else to fill up his emotional void to restore himself.
If you dislike mind games, then avoid putting yourself as a candidate into such a situation - which goes to say that you don't have to understand his mindset to decipher his behavior.
Don't view this matter too complicated - if you are uncomfortable, nothing will make you feel good in that awkward presence. You must understand that being kissed and showered with SMS attention, which left you feeling paradoxically 'good', does not mean that you might have an interest in him. That surge of feeling could have spiraled from your empty inner self, which give false emotional sense.
His appearance might actually be a signal, spiritually/subconsciously telling you about your vulnerability you have yet to be 'patched'?
Be mindful of yourself.
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it is weird that you took so long to know that he is a player
once he have a gf and he say he keep his options open clearly show his lack of faith and he is a playboi -
theres no need to understand why he did that..
perhaps given his flamboyant character, he would have done the same to Any girl..
To be fair,
forget what he did, or what he will do to woo you..
the fact is, this guy 's character ought to be slapped.
you guys onli met once in the club ( or twice..) and he alreadi initiated to
kiss you without your approval and knowing he has a gf..
you tink this kind of guy is a good catch?? moreover, guys u meet in clubs .. er.. just have to be more careful..
its jus a beginning.. free yourself from future troubles by ignorin him now..
like what other forumers mentioned.. he is a PLayer.. toys ard with pple's feelings.. dun be his victim..
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this is very enlightening. i will keep this in mind what you have say here and it reflects what i am feeling. i think people here hve a much clearer picture than what i have for myself.Originally posted by Yunhaier: It takes about four drinks to make a man lose his mind; about four kisses to make a woman lose hers?
Albeit it has been mentioned, to me, apart from being a potential player, it is also equally possible for a man like him to be living in a long 'deceased' relationship, seeking for someone else to fill up his emotional void to restore himself.
If you dislike mind games, then avoid putting yourself as a candidate into such a situation - which goes to say that you don't have to understand his mindset to decipher his behavior.
Don't view this matter too complicated - if you are uncomfortable, nothing will make you feel good in that awkward presence. You must understand that being kissed and showered with SMS attention, which left you feeling paradoxically 'good', does not mean that you might have an interest in him. That surge of feeling could have spiraled from your empty inner self, which give false emotional sense.
His appearance might actually be a signal, spiritually/subconsciously telling you about your vulnerability you have yet to be 'patched'?
Be mindful of yourself.
Cheers -
i donno abt it...maybe u think that i am stupid...maybe true in certain sense but i really cant reconize a player...Originally posted by ghimpheng:it is weird that you took so long to know that he is a player
once he have a gf and he say he keep his options open clearly show his lack of faith and he is a playboi
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You really like him don't youOriginally posted by lexibabe:i donno abt it...maybe u think that i am stupid...maybe true in certain sense but i really cant reconize a player...
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hmm... thats a tough question cause i also donno abt it myself and since people here have been saying things like he's a player than i think it might be true that he is.Originally posted by choco B:You really like him don't you -
We're all glad everything worked out fine for you eventually.
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I suspect it's because you really like him that's why you just CANNOT or REFUSE to see the obvious .Originally posted by lexibabe:hmm... thats a tough question cause i also donno abt it myself and since people here have been saying things like he's a player than i might be true that he is.
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clubbing?Originally posted by ditzy:We're all glad everything worked out fine for you eventually. Let's go clubbing and for a drink sometime. -
Yeah, just you and me.Originally posted by lexibabe:clubbing? -
but there is no reason for me to like him? so why i refuse to see?Originally posted by choco B:I suspect it's because you really like him that's why you just CANNOT or REFUSE to see the obvious . -
....Originally posted by ditzy:Yeah, just you and me. -
I dunno. The only answers left is that you're either abit slow, or blind !
So are you giving him up ?Originally posted by lexibabe:but there is no reason for me to like him? so why i refuse to see? -
yah. why shouldn't i?Originally posted by choco B:I dunno. The only answers left is that you're either abit slow, or blind !
So are you giving him up ?
i should be going to the library to look for nice faithful guys.... -
i have enough of clubbing... except if the mood comes why not we go to the library?Originally posted by ditzy:Yeah, just you and me. 
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No problem, as long as its not bedok.Originally posted by lexibabe:i have enough of clubbing... except if the mood comes why not we go to the library? I call mistyblue along. -
no prob, she's niceOriginally posted by ditzy:No problem, as long as its not bedok. I call mistyblue along.