need quick advice

• mistyblue

  8 Dec 06, 11:48

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  not divorce. jus in a weird r/s, its very complicating...i also don understand it.

  Anything complicated, uncomfortable ... don't get involve.
  Something fishy...
  
• ditzy

  8 Dec 06, 11:48

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  petty?
  why?

  She shy liao, don't tease her liao lar.
• lexibabe

  8 Dec 06, 11:52

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  Anything complicated, uncomfortable ... don't get involve.
  Something fishy...
  

  what do u think of it? whats the fish inside it?
• mistyblue

  8 Dec 06, 11:54

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  what do u think of it? whats the fish inside it?

  I don't wanna guess but anything is possible.
  If people cannot clearly explain their r/s, then they are in their trouble. Just don't make their's your own as well.
  
  For example: 3-some? Another Fuc.k Buddy?
• lexibabe

  8 Dec 06, 11:55

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  I don't wanna guess but anything is possible.
  If people cannot clearly explain their r/s, then they are in their trouble. Just don't make their's your own as well.
  
  For example: 3-some? Another Fuc.k Buddy?

  ahh....i see
  but its really a complicating story... i was like wat? when i hear it. its not clear at all but at the same time he seems happy with her... so wats wrong?
• mayday80

  8 Dec 06, 11:57

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  i don think its needing any developing at all... he is attatched and i don want to be seeming to break them up and be the 3rd party.
  he told me that he know this now gf in a a forum and when they were both jus broken up with their spouses and is feeling lonely and so when on dates and blah blah blah and so were together now. that is his explaination of the part of keeping options open. so he say they got a mutal understanding that if each one found a better one than they will consider if they will continue or go..???
  this is a weird story...

  Sounds familar... means both wanna get some, but don't want to commit. This is a non-exclusive dating situation. Unless you wanna give him, don't even think about it.
• lexibabe

  8 Dec 06, 11:58

  Originally posted by mayday80:

  Sounds familar... means both wanna get some, but don't want to commit. This is a non-exclusive dating situation. Unless you wanna give him, don't even think about it.

  huh?
  than wats the point?wat is a non-exclusive dating situation?
• blu_sky

  8 Dec 06, 11:59

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  ahh....i see
  but its really a complicating story... i was like wat? when i hear it. its not clear at all but at the same time he seems happy with her... so wats wrong?

  Happy with her, then why still get involved with you?
• lexibabe

  8 Dec 06, 12:01

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  Happy with her, then why still get involved with you?

  hmm... thats a good question.. i donno
  
• blu_sky

  8 Dec 06, 12:02

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  hmm... thats a good question.. i donno
  

  He is trouble. Unless you like to play with fire, cut him off.
• lexibabe

  8 Dec 06, 12:03

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  He is trouble. Unless you like to play with fire, cut him off.

  orh. how can u see? teach me?
• blu_sky

  8 Dec 06, 12:04

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  orh. how can u see? teach me?

  The rest have been telling you, havent they?
  
  juz scroll up and you will see it.
• mistyblue

  8 Dec 06, 12:05

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  huh?
  than wats the point?wat is a non-exclusive dating situation?

  non-exclusive
  They don't want to commit, at any time, they see a better fish, they make a run for it. If there are any responsibilities, its implied that its not theirs as they can also conveniently point out you can be doing thing with other people. Etc.
  
  Please read the fine print...
• lexibabe

  8 Dec 06, 12:07

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  non-exclusive
  They don't want to commit, at any time, they see a better fish, they make a run for it. If there are any responsibilities, its implied that its not theirs as they can also conveniently point out you can be doing thing with other people. Etc.
  
  Please read the fine print...

  ahh.... got this kind of things ? i really donno...how complicated... but why are they doing it? if they want to be together. i mean as in the girl too?
• mistyblue

  8 Dec 06, 12:11

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  ahh.... got this kind of things ? i really donno...how complicated... but why are they doing it? if they want to be together

  There are lots more you don't wanna know and don't ever want to get involve.
  Ignorance is bliss.
  
  what's your age.
• smudgey

  8 Dec 06, 12:12

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  actually its not strange when you cannot tell and need advices cause when u are in the situtaion, things tend to cloud your mind.
  

  hmmm.. Lexi,
  
  In your first post, you say you had no feelings for him that you don't like him.
  
  if that's the case, where's the confusion?
  
• lexibabe

  8 Dec 06, 12:13

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  There are lots more you don't wanna know and don't ever want to get involve.
  Ignorance is bliss.
  
  what's your age.

  u will laugh at me if i tell u my age.. and maybe brand me as stupid?
  
  
• lexibabe

  8 Dec 06, 12:13

  Originally posted by smudgey:

  hmmm.. Lexi,
  
  In your first post, you say you had no feelings for him that you don't like him.
  
  if that's the case, where's the confusion?
  

  there is no confusion now...hee
• blu_sky

  8 Dec 06, 12:14

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  ahh.... got this kind of things ? i really donno...how complicated... but why are they doing it? if they want to be together. i mean as in the girl too?

  Sometimes the gal/guy doesnt have a choice, cos tats wat the other party wanted? and she/he likes the other party too much?
  
  Sometimes both oso want to play? dun want to commit?
  
  Sometimes the party is not wat the person really want? well, if you cant buy your fav jag, juz drive altis first lah, wait till you find and can afford your fav car, then jump ship.
  
  and etc and etc....
  
  there are so many reasons why people do it. juz make sure you are not doin wat you dun want to do. and beware of such people.
• blu_sky

  8 Dec 06, 12:16

  Originally posted by lexibabe:

  there is no confusion now...hee

  Going for lunch. You take care gal.
• mistyblue

  8 Dec 06, 12:16

  I clock you around early 20s.
  
  BTW, there are some so call "liberated" women who seems to think they have something to prove. So they engage in things they believe in. You see the rather crappy show with flying dutch man. One of the episode is about this SPG Izzy - she had a number of ang moh fuc.k buddies and she made it sound natural and everyone's doin' it and all other women who are not like her are whatever, etc etc.
  
  One type of rice, feed a thousand type of people.
  
• lexibabe

  8 Dec 06, 12:19

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  Going for lunch. You take care gal.

  enjoy!
• lexibabe

  8 Dec 06, 12:20

  Originally posted by mistyblue:

  I clock you around early 20s.
  
  BTW, there are some so call "liberated" women who seems to think they have something to prove. So they engage in things they believe in. You see the rather crappy show with flying dutch man. One of the episode is about this SPG Izzy - she had a number of ang moh fuc.k buddies and she made it sound natural and everyone's doin' it and all other women who are not like her are whatever, etc etc.
  
  One type of rice, feed a thousand type of people.
  

  i am not really early 20's, mid ba. but a mid 20's person with a confused mind for r/s is a deadly blend...die of stupidity
• mayday80

  8 Dec 06, 12:21

  Well... it is pretty norm in USA btw. You either like it or you don't.
• lexibabe

  8 Dec 06, 12:24

  Originally posted by mayday80:

  Well... it is pretty norm in USA btw. You either like it or you don't.

  hmm... but tat is when u don wan the commitment?