need quick advice
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don't mean we have to follow just because someone is doin' it.Originally posted by mayday80:Well... it is pretty norm in USA btw. You either like it or you don't.
we make our own lifestyle choices.
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Live and Learn.Originally posted by lexibabe:i am not really early 20's, mid ba. but a mid 20's person with a confused mind for r/s is a deadly blend...die of stupidity
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x2Originally posted by mistyblue:don't mean we have to follow just because someone is doin' it.
we make our own lifestyle choices. 
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i agree but when people start doing it... its seems weirdOriginally posted by mistyblue:don't mean we have to follow just because someone is doin' it.
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its their life. Ain't mine to judge. I am only interested in living mine as best I can.Originally posted by lexibabe:i agree but when people start doing it... its seems weird -
ahh,.... i envy uOriginally posted by mistyblue:its their life. Ain't mine to judge. I am only interested in living mine as best I can.
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Like I said you either can accept it or don't accept it. I don't believe who is more right than the other. Maybe it's weird because we live in conservative society, or maybe we're chinese? I have no idea.Originally posted by lexibabe:i agree but when people start doing it... its seems weird -
married to a sensible and patient guy. He has his quirks...Originally posted by lexibabe:ahh,.... i envy u
so are u in a stable r/s now?
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maybe the idea is not weird but when it involves me its weird cause we or rather i believe not to break up other people and in this case its a ????Originally posted by mayday80:Like I said you either can accept it or don't accept it. I don't believe who is more right than the other. Maybe it's weird because we live in conservative society, or maybe we're chinese? I have no idea. -
Originally posted by mistyblue:married to a sensible and patient guy. He has his quirks...
do not envy others...
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Apparently his idea of a gf is not like what we think. And it seems like his gf is ok with it. So she's not like his actual commited gf la... so why not? Not telling you to do anything funny with him yet wat. But if you let him kiss you and all that then you'll have to be as open minded as he is.
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oicOriginally posted by mayday80:Apparently his idea of a gf is not like what we think. And it seems like his gf is ok with it. So she's not like his actual commited gf la... so why not? Not telling you to do anything funny with him yet wat. But if you let him kiss you and all that then you'll have to be as open minded as he is.
now it dawns on me. i guess u are rite, but its takes time to know. how can be so open minded? -
Well we're all adults anyway. You make your decisions. Don't let him touch you if you don't want him to.
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riteOriginally posted by mayday80:Well we're all adults anyway. You make your decisions. Don't let him touch you if you don't want him to.
i love everyone here!!!
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yeah! you love me
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i did tell him that i was not the type that he think he can have fun with and i told him that i am not out for fun. he says he knows... i don understand which part of him know
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he knows... but he's not gonna stop trying... men are always trying. Get it?
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i do idoOriginally posted by mayday80:yeah! you love me -
but but but... i tot i was being clear to him on this? NOT FOR FUN?Originally posted by mayday80:he knows... but he's not gonna stop trying... men are always trying. Get it? -
Hmm ... if you like him... test water by going out with him but keep your distance lor. If he pissed, you can say 'cos you attached'. See how it develops. If you end up liking him more and more and he seem to be sincere in dropping his gf nonsense. Then move the r/s up a notch lor. Do not let him touch you if you are not into the open minded thing.... else he will never get the msg.
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its too complicated llike that...why cant i jus hv somebody that is not so complicated?Originally posted by mayday80:Hmm ... if you like him... test water by going out with him but keep your distance lor. If he pissed, you can say 'cos you attached'. See how it develops. If you end up liking him more and more and he seem to be sincere in dropping his gf nonsense. Then move the r/s up a notch lor. Do not let him touch you if you are not into the open minded thing.... else he will never get the msg.
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I'm very simple also, you want? Haha! But I think courtship/love is like a game anyway... it's this confusion and uncertainity that makes it fun... yet the same things causes pain. Oh well... you are warned. Peaceful is too boring anyway.
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huh? than u will play that kind of games too?Originally posted by mayday80:I'm very simple also, you want? Haha! But I think courtship/love is like a game anyway... it's this confusion and uncertainity that makes it fun... yet the same things causes pain. Oh well... you are warned. Peaceful is too boring anyway. -
nope... not yet. See my thread and you'll know I'm in agony too.
Usually I lose.... cos I'm not a player. But I do believe in romance. -
hmm... okieOriginally posted by mayday80:nope... not yet. See my thread and you'll know I'm in agony too.
Usually I lose.... cos I'm not a player. But I do believe in romance.
where is ur thread? i go and see