My dad got affairs.
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My mum recently juz found out that my dad has an affair outside. We are all so sad now. This thing has been going on for 3 yrs le, after my dad change his job. Y he he causing us to b so stress?
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Relax don do silly things ok...
Try to talk to your dad ,see if can compromise cos not matter what home is still the place any man who had affair wants to be in.
All the best ok.
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You need to be strong, and be there for your mom.
I think your mother should be the one talking to your dad about this, so just be by her side.
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My family have similar issues long time ago too... but in the end my dad came back and my mom changed her nagging ways... their r/s have never been better all these years now! This is crazy... but you may want to talk to him private about the issue and see what's bothering him.
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Have talk with your dad. Find out why he's having an affair.
Stand by your mum, and try to console her. You cannot do much now; you have to leave it to your parents to make their own decisions. What you can do now, is remain neutral, and talk to both of them.
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Must always be prepared to face the most undesirable outcome for the negotiation btw your parents ok...Be strong.
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Tks everyone.. I will try to talk to my dad n c how it goes.
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Originally posted by purple-ice:My mum recently juz found out that my dad has an affair outside. We are all so sad now. This thing has been going on for 3 yrs le, after my dad change his job. Y he he causing us to b so stress?
Pls help. I dunno wat I can do now.
Are old are you now?
How long is their marriage?
Is this marriage rocky and littered with disharmony?
How/what do you previously thought of your dad?
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yes ur dad has an affair so now u hv to stand by ur mum n sarpot her... like wat others said, talk to ur dad n hear his side of the story... but no matter wat, cannot expect things to turn round immediately as its 3yrs liao... so might need to work things out slowly...Originally posted by purple-ice:My mum recently juz found out that my dad has an affair outside. We are all so sad now. This thing has been going on for 3 yrs le, after my dad change his job. Y he he causing us to b so stress?
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Whichever way it turns out, you still have a 50-50 chance to turn things around. So do what you are supposed to do.
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more than 50.... marriage and children is worth more than affair... you would never believe it. Do not act like nothing happened and do not turn against your father now.
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you must be strong and help your mum pass this period...if you breakdown who is going to help her?
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your dad is in the wrong! You must be very very strong. Your mother needs you there!!.
Let there be hope! -
the only thing you can do is to stay out of it.
just be there for your mum.
dont make matters worst by interfering. -
dont do anything let your parents sort it outOriginally posted by purple-ice:My mum recently juz found out that my dad has an affair outside. We are all so sad now. This thing has been going on for 3 yrs le, after my dad change his job. Y he he causing us to b so stress?
Pls help. I dunno wat I can do now. -
whatever it is , stay strong. Let your parents handle their stuff.
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Hmmm.... I would say to stay out of this and let your parents settle it.
In the meantime, be a pillar of support for your mum.
Take care. -
lol. how come dad affairs like so common nowadays?
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If u need help or someone to talk to. U can always count on us. Though there will always be some jerks around. Dont let them dishearten u.
Be strong.
Yours sincerely,
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there's nothing much you can do....Originally posted by purple-ice:My mum recently juz found out that my dad has an affair outside. We are all so sad now. This thing has been going on for 3 yrs le, after my dad change his job. Y he he causing us to b so stress?
Pls help. I dunno wat I can do now.
how old are you? -
we're always here for you.
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When ur dad change his job... is it a betta ones with higher pay?
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dont worry too much
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Originally posted by Yunhaier: Are old are you now?
How long is their marriage?
Is this marriage rocky and littered with disharmony?
How/what do you previously thought of your dad?
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Me 22 this year.. My parents married for approx 25 yrs le... he used to be veri caring to us until recently the whole family go genting for tours (i din go.. study for exams).. then my mum caught them together. She has been "acting blur" for weeks le after my dad ask my mum to forgive him.Originally posted by smudgey:there's nothing much you can do....
how old are you?
But recently my mum became very paranoid again. Talking abt want to slap the bitch n funny funny things. That bitch was a worker of my dad, they everyday meet up, go to wrk, have lunch n send that bitch home everyday. Haiz..
Now still thinking abt a way to talk to my dad. No ideas.. Seems veri awkard.
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On the contary to other people said. I believe children have to talk to parents also. Do not act like nothing happen and do not take sides. This is better for them.