My wife to be don't want to marry me..

• pwnz0r

  14 Dec 06, 17:22

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Look on the bright side , the real agony is after married the wife wants a divorce
  This is cheaper!

  Actually you can declare an annulment as long as you are wedded for not more than 3 years.
• the_don

  14 Dec 06, 17:24

  Originally posted by pwnz0r:

  Actually you can declare an annulment as long as you are wedded for not more than 3 years.

  i tot 3months for annulment?
• storywolf

  14 Dec 06, 17:47

  Originally posted by ThomasBRIAN:

  My gf... wife to be..
  suddenly opt out...
  that she doesn't want to marry me...
  two weeks later is our wedding.
  all our preparation done already.
  family member invited..
  now ..
  she want out.
  
  cause she find that she doesn't really love me..
  it been only a game for her all along..
  and we have lot of quarrel due to finding for flat..
  wedding gown.. dress... etc..
  
  it really sad that she do it out of sudden..
  she firmly don't want to marry me.
  
  how to explain to ppl that now she want out???
  
  

  how to explain to ppl that now she want out ??? Easy just say it - say want out. It is not the time for face .....
  
  My cousin same situation like you. But you more lucky at least she did it before the wedding. My cousin & wife went through the wedding .... then 3month after the damn gal say she want out ..... that time everyone in deeper shit .... harder to explain, and more legal works and stuff.
  
  My friend, it maybe sad , but since she want out, it the only road.... it is not the time to question even why, as affair of a lady heart is too complex.... just move on....
• shinta

  14 Dec 06, 17:49

  Originally posted by the_don:

  i tot 3months for annulment?

  recently extended to 3 years
• bee_gal

  14 Dec 06, 17:50

  Originally posted by storywolf:

  how to explain to ppl that now she want out ??? Easy just say it - say want out. It is not the time for face .....
  
  My cousin same situation like you. But you more lucky at least she did it before the wedding. My cousin & wife went through the wedding .... then 3month after the damn gal say she want out ..... that time everyone in deeper shit .... harder to explain, and more legal works and stuff.
  
  My friend, it maybe sad , but since she want out, it the only road.... it is not the time to question even why, as affair of a lady heart is too complex.... just move on....

  How long had your cousin and his wife been together before they got married? how old are they?
• Cool-gal

  14 Dec 06, 19:27

  hey, bro..
  cheer up ok.
  everything happens for a reason.
  she is not the one for u.
  u deserve someone better.
  
• alexkusu

  14 Dec 06, 19:29

  From what I heard frm others in the same boat, its better to opt out now then divorce later.
  
  
• Yunhaier

  14 Dec 06, 21:17

  Originally posted by ThomasBRIAN:

  My gf... wife to be..
  suddenly opt out...
  that she doesn't want to marry me...
  two weeks later is our wedding.
  all our preparation done already.
  family member invited..
  now ..
  she want out.
  
  cause she find that she doesn't really love me..
  it been only a game for her all along..
  and we have lot of quarrel due to finding for flat..
  wedding gown.. dress... etc..
  
  it really sad that she do it out of sudden..
  she firmly don't want to marry me.
  
  how to explain to ppl that now she want out???
  
  

  Tell us about your relationship.
  
  Cheers
• leo-kun

  14 Dec 06, 21:22

  i felt sad for you
• browniebaobao

  14 Dec 06, 23:28

  and did she give you any reason?
  
  ple always say, it's better to find out that she dun love you now, better than find out after your wedding..
  
  anyway.. i think it must be very hard to accept it.. and also have to explain to frens and relatives, the losses etc..
  
  pat pat thomas*
• viciouskitty74

  15 Dec 06, 00:41

  question is. have you folks ROM?
  
  Or solomenised?
  
  When talking about wedding. Is is a ceremony or a traditional do?
  
  Please advise. This concerns the wedding legality. Deal with one thing at a time and dont lump everything together. Emotional issues are useless and drags you down instead of clarifying the relationship.
• buses_galore

  15 Dec 06, 01:15

  She must have visited sgf...
• the_don

  15 Dec 06, 11:59

  Originally posted by shinta:

  recently extended to 3 years

  wah my fren is farked then. his wife wans to annul and he does not wat to give it to her
• elindra

  15 Dec 06, 12:04

  Originally posted by the_don:

  wah my fren is farked then. his wife wans to annul and he does not wat to give it to her

  Err annul better than divorce
  No need give asset and all these shit leh (I think)
  
  
• the_don

  15 Dec 06, 17:22

  Originally posted by elindra:

  Err annul better than divorce
  No need give asset and all these shit leh (I think)
  
  

  for this "pai zhar bor" divorce better. she ask for annul because she wans to be labeled as Single and be free to do watever she wan. anyway the guy is super bummer, dun work, dun bother to look for work, everyday play game. he damn lucky family rich.
• SGpork

  15 Dec 06, 17:26

  
• jusgal

  15 Dec 06, 17:28

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Look on the bright side , the real agony is after married the wife wants a divorce
  This is cheaper!

  yup...dun have to pay here wife maintenance. after marriage must pay.
  
• Squiggly

  15 Dec 06, 19:27

  Originally posted by viciouskitty74:

  question is. have you folks ROM?
  
  Or solomenised?
  
  When talking about wedding. Is is a ceremony or a traditional do?
  
  Please advise. This concerns the wedding legality. Deal with one thing at a time and dont lump everything together. Emotional issues are useless and drags you down instead of clarifying the relationship.

  Yeah... i think for now, shelve all the preparations, and check with all the affected contractors (bridal, photographer, justice of peace etc) and venue (church, hotel, restaurant etc) to see if they can postpone your date for you...
  
  The next thing is to ask for more time from your GF/wife-to-be.... seek for mediation or other professional help if required...
  
  And I think we need more information here...
• dokono

  16 Dec 06, 19:11

  Originally posted by ThomasBRIAN:

  My gf... wife to be..
  suddenly opt out...
  that she doesn't want to marry me...
  two weeks later is our wedding.
  all our preparation done already.
  family member invited..
  now ..
  she want out.
  
  cause she find that she doesn't really love me..
  it been only a game for her all along..
  and we have lot of quarrel due to finding for flat..
  wedding gown.. dress... etc..
  
  it really sad that she do it out of sudden..
  she firmly don't want to marry me.
  
  how to explain to ppl that now she want out???
  
  

  How to explain?
  
  One line: she does not love you anymore. Zero love.
  
  Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't love you? Imagine staying with someone who gets irritated by the sight of you every minute? For 40 years? Very difficult. You can't stay with someone who does not love you. You can't force it. Eventually she will still want out. Better now than later.
  
  doko
• yuko-ogura

  16 Dec 06, 19:26

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Look on the bright side , the real agony is after married the wife wants a divorce
  This is cheaper!

  thx for the comment wor.
• viciouskitty74

  17 Dec 06, 16:21

  Eh? What happened to the threadstarter?
  
  Gone to hid in the bed and cry until fainted liao?