27 lady has curfew
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Hi ppl,
My friend has a 27 yrs old girlfriend who has curfew. She needs to reach home by 11pm daily else the parent will flare up. Applies to weekends, public holidays like Xmas, New Yr etc. Is there anyway we can do to convince the parents of this girl that their daughter is already VERY GROWN UP and can go out after midnight. We are trying to organise a Xmas party but this girl cant go ... what should we do?? Anyone has suggestion? -
I have a gal friend who is 26 and she is not allowed to stay overnight for chalet.
She is fine with that. -
Huh? 27 yrs liao ho. Can earn her own money liao. Without living on her parent expense,what is there to afraid of? Ask her to move out since she no need to live on parent. See what can they do...
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The problem is she is also very obedient ..she obeys her mum and dad.... but she wants to try being out after midnight too but she doesnt dare.
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did she talk to her parents about it?
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How does she look like???
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If 27 yrs old, earning money, I dun see any reason for her to be afraid of her parents.
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Dont think so. Anyway, she does not dare to rebel coz she just got attached to this guy and doesnt want the parents to think badly of this guy teaching her "bad" things..
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Since she is obedient. Yr friend shalll follow her wish! He may wanted to spend more time with her but if anger her parent and she gets upset. What is the point of spending more time with her?Originally posted by imouto222:The problem is she is also very obedient ..she obeys her mum and dad.... but she wants to try being out after midnight too but she doesnt dare.
Always put yr parnter interest in first,not yr self! -
Is she very pretty? If nt, tell her parents not to worry.
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My that 26 year gal friend who cannot stay overnight chalet is not bad looking.Originally posted by Syndicate:Is she very pretty? If nt, tell her parents not to worry.
7/10 for looks,8/10 for figure.
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That is why all of us are puzzled as well .... and she is very guai guai type.... obedient .. so we are wondering what is wrong with her parents...Originally posted by NUS_Superst@r:If 27 yrs old, earning money, I dun see any reason for her to be afraid of her parents. -
She is above average ..i think ..very sweet girl...Originally posted by Marco_Simone:My that 26 year gal friend who cannot stay overnight chalet is not bad looking.
7/10 for looks,8/10 for figure. -
She maybe the only daughter. Protective of their daughter is common. Her parent maybe the conservative type!Originally posted by imouto222:That is why all of us are puzzled as well .... and she is very guai guai type.... obedient .. so we are wondering what is wrong with her parents... -
Some parents just couldn't let go la...
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We understand...but we just want to help her to get out of house on Xmas Eve and have a small celebration with us at another friend's house. She wont be the only lady as me and another friend's girlfriend will be around ... and we are all very decent ppl .... we were thinking of sending me and the friend's girlfriend to show our face to the parents that we are bringing the girl out for that dayOriginally posted by CannyOng:Since she is obedient. Yr friend shalll follow her wish! He may wanted to spend more time with her but if anger her parent and she gets upset. What is the point of spending more time with her?
Always put yr parnter interest in first,not yr self!
What do ya ppl think? -
But I think her parents nid to slowly let go of her daughter cos she will eventually get married and move out. Is this going to be like when she reaches 30 plus? I can't imagine.
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IF they don't let her out, she don't give them money. Simple.
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what is wrong with curfew. u owe ur life to your parents
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What is wrong with a curfew? Each family got their own rules.
There's more to life than after 11pm.
The boyfriend/friends must gain the trust of her family in the first place.
No 2 way about it. -
get some pple the parents can trust to be chaperones
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so u will marry anyone chosen for u by ur parents? since ur life is theirsOriginally posted by Not4rent:what is wrong with curfew. u owe ur life to your parents -
marry her lorOriginally posted by imouto222:Hi ppl,
My friend has a 27 yrs old girlfriend who has curfew. She needs to reach home by 11pm daily else the parent will flare up. Applies to weekends, public holidays like Xmas, New Yr etc. Is there anyway we can do to convince the parents of this girl that their daughter is already VERY GROWN UP and can go out after midnight. We are trying to organise a Xmas party but this girl cant go ... what should we do?? Anyone has suggestion? -
jz hv an early party.... party no need to be late night right? its her n her bf problem to sort out so let them be...Originally posted by imouto222:Hi ppl,
My friend has a 27 yrs old girlfriend who has curfew. She needs to reach home by 11pm daily else the parent will flare up. Applies to weekends, public holidays like Xmas, New Yr etc. Is there anyway we can do to convince the parents of this girl that their daughter is already VERY GROWN UP and can go out after midnight. We are trying to organise a Xmas party but this girl cant go ... what should we do?? Anyone has suggestion? -
get your 27 years old friends to bring some decent looking friends back home for her parent to be aware who is she mixing with ...then the parent will start to gain trust in her