Cant Forget
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Hi guys, not sure u guys still rem me? Do a search on Disappointed and Sad. Thats my post a mth+ back. Anyway, i did what u guys instructed me to do. I carry on my life.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=217887
In fact, there's a girl that even like me now. but there goes the problem. Firstly i found out there is no way for me to have feelins for the girl, although she is thoughful and pretty. I just cant seems to let my feelins develop for her.
Whereas on the other hand. my ex still meet up with me sometimes. I went out with her too. We had a chat, all these. I still told her how much i feel about her.
Recently, she went together with this guy, the one that came in as 3 party.
She told me she still have feelins for me, but she did nt give a comment when i ask her if she have more feelins more for him or me.
She told me i am someone that will give her security and someone that will more stable in a relationship. However she told me he is someone that can handle her moodswings and temper all these.
What am i supposed to do ? I thought of MIA in her life, but i cant do it. I dont know why. I tried everythin i can in my power now but it seems useless. She say it's unfair to the guy if she return to me now.
Do you think i still stand a chance to be with her? She said she is very confused now and she does not want to be unfair to him. Guys, help me out. SOrry for the trouble again. -
Give her some time. She needs time to settle down.Originally posted by mitgalant:Hi guys, not sure u guys still rem me? Do a search on Disappointed and Sad. Thats my post a mth+ back. Anyway, i did what u guys instructed me to do. I carry on my life.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=217887
In fact, there's a girl that even like me now. but there goes the problem. Firstly i found out there is no way for me to have feelins for the girl, although she is thoughful and pretty. I just cant seems to let my feelins develop for her.
Whereas on the other hand. my ex still meet up with me sometimes. I went out with her too. We had a chat, all these. I still told her how much i feel about her.
Recently, she went together with this guy, the one that came in as 3 party.
She told me she still have feelins for me, but she did nt give a comment when i ask her if she have more feelins more for him or me.
She told me i am someone that will give her security and someone that will more stable in a relationship. However she told me he is someone that can handle her moodswings and temper all these.
What am i supposed to do ? I thought of MIA in her life, but i cant do it. I dont know why. I tried everythin i can in my power now but it seems useless. She say it's unfair to the guy if she return to me now.
Do you think i still stand a chance to be with her? She said she is very confused now and she does not want to be unfair to him. Guys, help me out. SOrry for the trouble again.
If she loves/likes u, give her time. Besides that, convince her to leave her guy and make it clear to her.
By the way, do u still love her? If so, give her time. -
It's already over. Stick with the new one.Originally posted by mitgalant:Hi guys, not sure u guys still rem me? Do a search on Disappointed and Sad. Thats my post a mth+ back. Anyway, i did what u guys instructed me to do. I carry on my life.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=217887
In fact, there's a girl that even like me now. but there goes the problem. Firstly i found out there is no way for me to have feelins for the girl, although she is thoughful and pretty. I just cant seems to let my feelins develop for her.
Whereas on the other hand. my ex still meet up with me sometimes. I went out with her too. We had a chat, all these. I still told her how much i feel about her.
Recently, she went together with this guy, the one that came in as 3 party.
She told me she still have feelins for me, but she did nt give a comment when i ask her if she have more feelins more for him or me.
She told me i am someone that will give her security and someone that will more stable in a relationship. However she told me he is someone that can handle her moodswings and temper all these.
What am i supposed to do ? I thought of MIA in her life, but i cant do it. I dont know why. I tried everythin i can in my power now but it seems useless. She say it's unfair to the guy if she return to me now.
Do you think i still stand a chance to be with her? She said she is very confused now and she does not want to be unfair to him. Guys, help me out. SOrry for the trouble again.
If ever, the old one comes back to you, she must have a hidden agenda.
Beware.
doko -
i really do love her way too much. How to convince her to leave the guy ?Originally posted by bryanseb:Give her some time. She needs time to settle down.
If she loves/likes u, give her time. Besides that, convince her to leave her guy and make it clear to her.
By the way, do u still love her? If so, give her time.
i am very very scare as day passes. The feelin between them sure blossom as days go pass.
sometimes i really feel like a sub but yet she say i am nt a sub. she even told me if i feel like a sub, she will not meet me.
the guy, on the other hand, I THINK, is also givin her the same pressure. How? how? -
the problem is although the new one treats me well etc etc etc. But somehow or rather, i juz cant develop the feelins towards her. i still wan my gf. i know i still love my gf as much as the past.Originally posted by dokono:It's already over. Stick with the new one.
If ever, the old one comes back to you, she must have a hidden agenda.
Beware.
doko -
Current gf or ur ex-gf, who u love most?Originally posted by mitgalant:i really do love her way too much. How to convince her to leave the guy ?
i am very very scare as day passes. The feelin between them sure blossom as days go pass.
sometimes i really feel like a sub but yet she say i am nt a sub. she even told me if i feel like a sub, she will not meet me.
the guy, on the other hand, I THINK, is also givin her the same pressure. How? how? -
i dun have a gf now. Juz that ther is this girl that gt feelins towards me now. But i know i wont be with her. and i dun wan her to get hurt cos she will be a sub. thats why. i juz cant get the feelin towards her.Originally posted by bryanseb:Current gf or ur ex-gf, who u love most?
I definately love my ex gf. -
Originally posted by mitgalant:i dun have a gf now. Juz that ther is this girl that gt feelins towards me now. But i know i wont be with her. and i dun wan her to get hurt cos she will be a sub. thats why. i juz cant get the feelin towards her.
I definately love my ex gf.
The other guy got any weekness? If so, use it to bait/lure ur ex to trust you. Or should i say, to make her to thinks that the other guy suxs.
But i think there's something can be done more effective, but now can't remember. -
wats the way? but i really hope is, she come back to me with feelins. and nt cos of sub or wat else.
i really change alot for her le. but just she cant really notice them now.
any way for me to make her come back to me or realise her feelins now? given the situation that she is unstable again? -
Wah, now want to play game liao....
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You know how you just don't have any feelings for that girl who likes you?
Well , this is the same scenario between you and your ex-girlfriend..... she just doesn't feel for you either. You're the "look good on paper" guy, stable and secure, but her heart wants sparks, else no deal!
If you think your female admirer is sad & pitiful for not having her feelings reciprocated.... then ask yourself if you wanna be just like her
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You're not even a sub to her. She's confused. You're confused. What more should I say?Originally posted by mitgalant:i really do love her way too much. How to convince her to leave the guy ?
i am very very scare as day passes. The feelin between them sure blossom as days go pass.
sometimes i really feel like a sub but yet she say i am nt a sub. she even told me if i feel like a sub, she will not meet me.
the guy, on the other hand, I THINK, is also givin her the same pressure. How? how?
Stop deceiving yourself. -
Pls tell the current girl who is interested in you that you're not interested in her.Originally posted by mitgalant:i dun have a gf now. Juz that ther is this girl that gt feelins towards me now. But i know i wont be with her. and i dun wan her to get hurt cos she will be a sub. thats why. i juz cant get the feelin towards her.
I definately love my ex gf. -
I think you better fix yourself 1st.Originally posted by mitgalant:wats the way? but i really hope is, she come back to me with feelins. and nt cos of sub or wat else.
i really change alot for her le. but just she cant really notice them now.
any way for me to make her come back to me or realise her feelins now? given the situation that she is unstable again? -
how will u all say i am confused? I all along know what i really wan mah.Originally posted by Devil1976:You're not even a sub to her. She's confused. You're confused. What more should I say?
Stop deceiving yourself.
i gt drop lots of hints to the girl that i nt interested. cos i duno how to reject ppl. its like first time. -
what u mean by want spank?Originally posted by choco B:You know how you just don't have any feelings for that girl who likes you?
Well , this is the same scenario between you and your ex-girlfriend..... she just doesn't feel for you either. You're the "look good on paper" guy, stable and secure, but her heart wants sparks, else no deal!
If you think your female admirer is sad & pitiful for not having her feelings reciprocated.... then ask yourself if you wanna be just like her
i dun wanna be like her. i already drop lots of hints to her le.
whereas on my ex gf side, she is sort of like givin me some hints here and there. which i dun really get it. sometimes the hints is we can be together, whereas sometimes, the hint is we cant be together. i am confused by her.
i think if given the choice, she sure take both cos both gt gd points. but yet i only wan me to be in her life. thats all.
PS: she goin to a short trip with the guy le. i know somethin sure happen there one. how? what can i do? dun mind wearin old shoes or wat. cos i really love her too deep. -
dun drop hints. tell her nicely and directly tat u are not interested in her. if not, she might nv get ur hint at all and be wasting her time and feelings for u.
as for ur ex, do u think u can really give her wat u want? what posed as a problem last time, will u be able to handle it now? if not, why not let her be with the new guy in life?
u say she is dropping u hints and u r not sure. then ask her. make things clear and let her decide what issit tat she wants and choose for herself. by saying u want to be the onli in her life is a very selfish way of thinking.
if fate really wants to bring u 2 together, it will. -
Your ex is playing you and you admit you're happy to be played by her. How come your standards so low?
Wear old shoes means you cannot expect anything from her leh. There is nothing you can do. She go holiday with other man , you must be happy for her. Why don't you help carry her luggage and see her off at the airport? 
Originally posted by mitgalant:what u mean by want spank?
i dun wanna be like her. i already drop lots of hints to her le.
whereas on my ex gf side, she is sort of like givin me some hints here and there. which i dun really get it. sometimes the hints is we can be together, whereas sometimes, the hint is we cant be together. i am confused by her.
i think if given the choice, she sure take both cos both gt gd points. but yet i only wan me to be in her life. thats all.
PS: she goin to a short trip with the guy le. i know somethin sure happen there one. how? what can i do? dun mind wearin old shoes or wat. cos i really love her too deep. -
It's too painful to read. ....Originally posted by choco B:Your ex is playing you and you admit you're happy to be played by her. How come your standards so low?
Wear old shoes means you cannot expect anything from her leh. There is nothing you can do. She go holiday with other man , you must be happy for her. Why don't you help carry her luggage and see her off at the airport? 
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i mean i will be willin to forgive any mistakes she made. cos i believe everyone make mistakes ba?Originally posted by choco B:Your ex is playing you and you admit you're happy to be played by her. How come your standards so low?
Wear old shoes means you cannot expect anything from her leh. There is nothing you can do. She go holiday with other man , you must be happy for her. Why don't you help carry her luggage and see her off at the airport?
i wont carry the luggage all these la. but i really dun think she is such person. how to make her not to be confused now? really hurtful to see her and the guy so close and i cant do anythin but juz envy. and the guy, i think he is very smart. he knows how to play with words. whereas i duno how to.
i understand they are in a honeymood period. but will she come back to me soon? i really duno what can i say or do infront of her. i feel so sucky. -
I think ur ex is a bad person. Trying to step on two boats just in case.Originally posted by mitgalant:i mean i will be willin to forgive any mistakes she made. cos i believe everyone make mistakes ba?
i wont carry the luggage all these la. but i really dun think she is such person. how to make her not to be confused now? really hurtful to see her and the guy so close and i cant do anythin but juz envy. and the guy, i think he is very smart. he knows how to play with words. whereas i duno how to.
i understand they are in a honeymood period. but will she come back to me soon? i really duno what can i say or do infront of her. i feel so sucky.
Once she come back from the trip, she would have slept many times with him already. Worth your wait ha? -
No.Originally posted by mitgalant:but will she come back to me soon? Time will prove if she is really "such a person" or not. If you refuse to read and accept the signs now, I guess you'll just have to suffer some more, till you finally are satisfied to give up Originally posted by mitgalant:but i really dun think she is such person. how to make her not to be confused now?
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Ok, let's say she comes back to you after a lot of begging on your knees.Originally posted by mitgalant:i mean i will be willin to forgive any mistakes she made. cos i believe everyone make mistakes ba?
i wont carry the luggage all these la. but i really dun think she is such person. how to make her not to be confused now? really hurtful to see her and the guy so close and i cant do anythin but juz envy. and the guy, i think he is very smart. he knows how to play with words. whereas i duno how to.
i understand they are in a honeymood period. but will she come back to me soon? i really duno what can i say or do infront of her. i feel so sucky.
Physically she is with you. Her heart? Every time you talk to her, her eyes seem to be somewhere else. She is not focusing on you.
If you like it, go ahead. Beg. Please. Beg her. She will come back.
doko -
Can't you understand? She doesn't know how to reject you. The male cannot take rejection. Rejection hurts their pride.
doko -
i did told her. y nt one shot, let me pain. y muz u slowly like torture me lidat? if no chance, then say no chance. but she does not wanna give me an ans.
she say she tried to forget me. but she cant. i did told her if u really wanna forget me,i can help u. but yet she say she dun want.
I told her only come back to me with the feelin and not the heart.
Whenever i ask her things like, can we be together? u really like the guy all these, her standard ans is i duno, dun ask me, no reply, no comment all these.
i really duno what to do. i tried what i can already. No avail.
its like she told me, only when somethin happened between she and the guy, or else she wont be comin back to me, cos its not fair to him. DUH.
argh.