Originally posted by Aaron8105:yucks all gals like tat.....now i start to hate gals man![]()
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of course different girls.Originally posted by m_lancer:Doko.. both of us is with different girls...
But I've read his story.. both of us almost in the same situation...
You're being over-sensitiveOriginally posted by m_lancer:I'm feeling kind of lost and upset... wonder if she really meant what she said when she told me that the breakup was due to her studies or was is becoz there was another guy in her heart... Just one month since we broke up and she is already attached... that's why I do not know whether I should believe or not believe wat she told me b4....
Originally posted by m_lancer:I have already deleted her contacts and everything.. ytd msg was just to wish her.. yet.. she mentioned abt the other guy...Which I find the most hurtful part is... I do not wish to know who she is with.. and somemore that person I have been disliking for very long already... yet.. I got such a reply from her...
She can give you such contradiction, do you think she care if you believe her words?Originally posted by m_lancer:Me and my ex broke up 2months ago.. till now I m still unable to forget about her.. when she broke up with me.. she told me that she wants to focus on her studies.. she told me we could still be friends...
But we never spoke to each other ever since....
Clinging on to my hope that one day we could be back together.. Till one day which is a month later after we broke up, I discovered she was attached already... I almost went crazy... coz I still remembered the reason we broke up...
Yesterday being christmas.. I msged her a christmas msg.. She replied me.. 'Thanks and merry christmas to me.. and saying that the other guy (I think it's only right for me not to mention his name.. though I dun like that person that much) says hi to me'... At that moment.. I was feeling kind of angry as well as upset.. thinking that is it purposely trying to make me know that she is with him... I have met up with this guy b4 when me and my ex were still together.. He was her best friend... and she told me b4 there wont be a possibilty of them being together..
I'm feeling kind of lost and upset... wonder if she really meant what she said when she told me that the breakup was due to her studies or was is becoz there was another guy in her heart... Just one month since we broke up and she is already attached... that's why I do not know whether I should believe or not believe wat she told me b4....
You could have replied that your gf also say Hi to her.Originally posted by m_lancer:I have already deleted her contacts and everything.. ytd msg was just to wish her.. yet.. she mentioned abt the other guy...Which I find the most hurtful part is... I do not wish to know who she is with.. and somemore that person I have been disliking for very long already... yet.. I got such a reply from her...
Time will come and pass. Your wounds will be healed if you allow it to.Originally posted by m_lancer:yup.. noticed the pattern.. anyway.. I've tried to get over her... but just don't know why the impact of the msg ytd made me felt upset again... ya.. I understand time will heal... am also waiting for time to pass...
Because you trusted her words. And you felt cheated when you learnt that the reason for break up may not be her studies at all.Originally posted by m_lancer:yup.. noticed the pattern.. anyway.. I've tried to get over her... but just don't know why the impact of the msg ytd made me felt upset again... ya.. I understand time will heal... am also waiting for time to pass...
Closure is good, if one is given.Originally posted by M©+square:Because you trusted her words. And you felt cheated when you learnt that the reason for break up may not be her studies at all.
That is the main problem. You felt lied at because you realise she wasn't truthful when you give her whatever she wanted, because you felt that it is good for her.
::: you're played out.
If need be, just ask her out and tell you the real reason for the break-up and seek closure.
Cheers
He have a choice to ask for the truth.Originally posted by blu_sky:Closure is good, if one is given.
But if she had chosen the easy way out, why will she tell the hard truth now?
Eh.... why I think da other wae har...?Originally posted by Cool-gal:stil.. never to trust ur gf/bf truly n fully. reason is, there is a possibility tat they will lie. no one is perfect or saint. of coz i do not encourage suspicious questioning but when it comes to r/s, better not to believe wholly. take it easy.
some gals sucks to the core, same to the guys.
so, just let this be a lessson learnt lor??
cheers
Ha..If u think reasoning is not impt anymore, y in the 1st place will u come here n post ur thread? I guess deep down inside, u wan an answer from her. But i guess the problem is, she will never tell u the answer or truth anymore. She wants u out of her life so bad. It hurts but I went thr something like that b4...Originally posted by m_lancer:M©+square u exactly said out how I felt.. but I think I will still let time heal... no point meeting up with her since I already know she is attached and doing well.. Don't want her to feel what I'm feeling now... One suffer or rather having this mixed feeling is enough... I guess reasoning or not is not important anymore..