I lost something, but I found many other things
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In life, you gain something, you lose something.
There's no way one will be always gaining.
And if you fall, you learn a lesson. -
Hahaha.Originally posted by SpecOps87:Well....as much as I would like to appear as a Saint. Haha, lets face it yeah, reality bites. after the pain, you won't see the person the same way again. I'm great friends with the 2 other exes before the most recent one. As they made clean breaks, not the irresponsible leave you hanging sort. Ha, so yeah. there you have it. Haha, trying to up myself further as an Alpha-Male yeah.
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No problem, You're welcomeOriginally posted by SpecOps87:Also, I would like to thank those whom have given me a helping hand to recover from the bottomless pit which I've found myself to be trapped in.
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Turn the energy of hate, anger into something else man!hahaha, take me further, give me strength
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Very Well DoneOriginally posted by SpecOps87:Iyah,i know the guy she's with will never be able to hold a candle or even a matchstick against me. **kk, mebbe tt's the male ego at work** Besides, she comes to me online asking me to help her with her project and stuff...i gave her the usual reply "Your boyfriend dunnoe meh?" or if she whines to me online bout her not having money, my reply "Get from your boyfriend" I can see that she's pissed, but she has no choice but to swallow humble pie and suck it up because she needs my help. Though I can't be bothered to lift a finger to help. Don't quite care what she's been telling her poly friends either, as I've met a few of them in the past week to makan as I got introduced by her fellow course mate. They were quite shocked that in personality and speech I'm quite different from whom she's carved me out to be in front of them. Good For You Keep It Up -
niceee...
girls can be a pain too huh? -
Nice rebound, Spec. Glad to see you're doing well.
'Why do we fall, Bruce?'
'So we can learn how to get up.' -
Wah, Curse of the Kin Huay costume very nice leh, GUmmy.Originally posted by SpecOps87:Haha, its okay. I'm actually fine with being single for now. haha, no commitments and i get to meet a variety of flowers. So why not? And no...i'm not taking revenge lah. But more of...instigating her to do stupid things. Like they said...revenge is a dish best served cold. -
SOME lah... you sae liddat later a few replies will be similar to this "guys can be a pain too"... Then I foresee the GREAT gender war...Originally posted by gigabyte14:niceee...
girls can be a pain too huh?
Siao bo!?
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proud of you, dude!
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Quite agreed with what you say.Originally posted by browniebaobao:In life, you gain something, you lose something.
There's no way one will be always gaining.
And if you fall, you learn a lesson.
But i couldn't learn the lesson which yet again i suffered.. -
Been there bros.. It really hurts in the beginning.. true friends are those who stay when every1 leave..
Glad that you have found your true friends..
Cheer up bro.. -
Are u sure you have grown stronger out of this? Or had u just replaced one emptiness with another?Originally posted by SpecOps87:Hello All,
A few months back many of you guys here would have known how betrayed and frustrated I felt being betrayed by my gf and me losing a crazy amount of weight in a short time.
But I'm back...I'm back stronger. Though I've lost her, I've gained by having the company of many of my friends. My bonds with my friends are such that we can actually meet up as a group 2/3 times a week for movies, makan and so on. They brought me clubbing, to meet new people and I really felt that I've missed out on soooo many things in the past 3yrs of my life having lived in the micro environment which revolves around her.
I'm glad to have found a renewed meaning in life. Now when my friends ask me out, I will no longer be turning them down, but will agree straight away unless I've got something on. I will also take initiative to ask them out. Ha, I feel so blessed to have such a gd bunch of friends.
Also, I would like to thank those whom have given me a helping hand to recover from the bottomless pit which I've found myself to be trapped in. -
your life is fill with misery reallyOriginally posted by SpecOps87:and why not? haha..don't get me wrong yeah. I'm not there to pick up wild flowers for ONS etc...think I'm too ugly for that. Ha, but more for the company of friends and to see what i've missed out on. Not to mention going to play some mind games.haha -
I've learned the lesson of not taking things for granted. The impermanence of the things in life.Whom are the friends that will ride along side me through the storm and whom are those whom will vanish at the slightest of problems. If you are asking about me being spiritually empty, I would tell you this. Life and Destiny is in one's own hands. I don't see why I should ever be living the life that people expect me to live. I want to and hope to live my dreams, fulfill my ambitions,up my self-worth.Originally posted by nanren4ever:Are u sure you have grown stronger out of this? Or had u just replaced one emptiness with another? -
I'm not miserable. In fact, I've been given a renewed reason to live life with vigor.Much much more vigor. And playing mind games is called the Art Of Seduction...ha.Originally posted by ghimpheng:your life is fill with misery really -
Originally posted by SpecOps87:
idiot
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I'm not miserable. In fact, I've been given a renewed reason to live life with vigor.Much much more vigor. And playing mind games is called the Art Of Seduction...ha.[/b]
are you still human ?
humans are getting more and more crap as the days goes on -
After reading this post, I have my doubts that you are over her... wake up! Beg her to come back to you and treat her better this time.Originally posted by SpecOps87:Iyah,i know the guy she's with will never be able to hold a candle or even a matchstick against me. **kk, mebbe tt's the male ego at work** Besides, she comes to me online asking me to help her with her project and stuff...i gave her the usual reply "Your boyfriend dunnoe meh?" or if she whines to me online bout her not having money, my reply "Get from your boyfriend" I can see that she's pissed, but she has no choice but to swallow humble pie and suck it up because she needs my help. Though I can't be bothered to lift a finger to help. Don't quite care what she's been telling her poly friends either, as I've met a few of them in the past week to makan as I got introduced by her fellow course mate. They were quite shocked that in personality and speech I'm quite different from whom she's carved me out to be in front of them. -
Hey man...why should I? I think that enough is enough...I'm ugly as Quinsy can tell you guys, but I don't think I'm that ineligible that I've to resort to being her life vest all the time? Besides...when she's made the choice to give up a horse for a donkey, she should bear the responsibility of having a donkey for the horse will though hurt gallop away to find his own field of flowers. And hey casino_king my friend...if you had known how I've been treated...then you will know...Originally posted by casino_king:After reading this post, I have my doubts that you are over her... wake up! Beg her to come back to you and treat her better this time. -
definitely human. But hey...I never go in too deep now. Back of once the day is over.Originally posted by ghimpheng:idiot
are you still human ?
humans are getting more and more crap as the days goes on -
Ugly as me mah...?Originally posted by SpecOps87:Hey man...why should I? I think that enough is enough...I'm ugly as Quinsy can tell you guys, but I don't think I'm that ineligible that I've to resort to being her life vest all the time? Besides...when she's made the choice to give up a horse for a donkey, she should bear the responsibility of having a donkey for the horse will though hurt gallop away to find his own field of flowers. And hey casino_king my friend...if you had known how I've been treated...then you will know...
Ugly and pretty are but only 2 sides of the coin. Looking at a person, you can see the pretty side in that person but you can also see the ugly side.
Never think the way highlighted in there. I can see you still harbour some form of hatred and jealousy. Let it go. It will not do you any good as it won't do her the same.
The best form of revenge is NO revenge. Well that's what I advocate anyway. *shrugs* -
seriously, friends are the best
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Good for you....Originally posted by SpecOps87:Hello All,
A few months back many of you guys here would have known how betrayed and frustrated I felt being betrayed by my gf and me losing a crazy amount of weight in a short time.
But I'm back...I'm back stronger. Though I've lost her, I've gained by having the company of many of my friends. My bonds with my friends are such that we can actually meet up as a group 2/3 times a week for movies, makan and so on. They brought me clubbing, to meet new people and I really felt that I've missed out on soooo many things in the past 3yrs of my life having lived in the micro environment which revolves around her.
I'm glad to have found a renewed meaning in life. Now when my friends ask me out, I will no longer be turning them down, but will agree straight away unless I've got something on. I will also take initiative to ask them out. Ha, I feel so blessed to have such a gd bunch of friends.
Also, I would like to thank those whom have given me a helping hand to recover from the bottomless pit which I've found myself to be trapped in.
we all need friends to rally about us in these times....
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Ha, you where got ugly lah dey...mebbe you got a heart of gold.Originally posted by Bontakun:Ugly as me mah...?
Ugly and pretty are but only 2 sides of the coin. Looking at a person, you can see the pretty side in that person but you can also see the ugly side.
Never think the way highlighted in there. I can see you still harbour some form of hatred and jealousy. Let it go. It will not do you any good as it won't do her the same.
The best form of revenge is NO revenge. Well that's what I advocate anyway. *shrugs*
And frankly...I do not deny that I harbour some form of hatred but NOT jealousy. Because I don't get it...why come whining to me when you've got probs. with your work, with your handsome? What am I? Does she expect me to like sayang her, boost her ego, make her feel wanted and then let her move on? Also, since she likes to listen to the particularly nice slut boss whom is so promiscuous and want to live a life like hers, hold her thoughts that does nothing but poison her mind in deeeeeeep regard...what can I say?
Anyway...can only say that if you wanna be with someone, be with someone whom is not a hot favourite, if she is...make sure she's damn committed and faithful. -
Ya tking revenge is like turning 1 big round and u find urself back to square 1 again..Originally posted by Bontakun:Ugly as me mah...?
Ugly and pretty are but only 2 sides of the coin. Looking at a person, you can see the pretty side in that person but you can also see the ugly side.
Never think the way highlighted in there. I can see you still harbour some form of hatred and jealousy. Let it go. It will not do you any good as it won't do her the same.
The best form of revenge is NO revenge. Well that's what I advocate anyway. *shrugs*
A friend once told me..it is difficult to forgive sumone than to hate the person..
But if u can forgive him/her...this shows 1 thing abt u..magnimuous..dun noe if l spelled wrongly not..ya..
Slowly let go...My case l tink is none better than u oso..my ex gf dun even treat me like a human....my pride, integrity, confidence are all thrown..
At the 1st few mths , l was kinda angry...angry only..dun understand y l get such unfair treatment..but still l dun harbour any tots of getting her back...
But now, after 6 mths, done alot of thinkings and straighten out alot of things...l am alrite, back to my old self..l decided to enjoy every moments of my life..do the things l like and trying to noe more things..if u are still in the jealously and hatred mode..u will nver noe how to enjoy happily de...