Promises to wait

• StarPuppy

  2 Jan 07, 21:59

  Do you think that in this age and society that making a promise to wait for a special someone is stupid?
  
  does it show how dedicated this guy is?
  
  
• FireIce

  2 Jan 07, 22:01

  i think is lormantik leh
• browniebaobao

  2 Jan 07, 22:02

  love makes a person stupid.
  
• kopiosatu

  2 Jan 07, 22:03

  i have to wait 8-10 months.
  sibeh painful
• dokono

  2 Jan 07, 22:05

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  i have to wait 8-10 months.
  sibeh painful

  and then?
  
  doko
• Gackt247

  2 Jan 07, 22:05

  Romantic yes. Idealistic yes. Silly yes. Unrealistic yes.
• ifish

  2 Jan 07, 22:06

  the longer the wait the more painful it become.
  I'm still waiting
• sqully

  2 Jan 07, 22:07

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  Do you think that in this age and society that making a promise to wait for a special someone is stupid?
  
  does it show how dedicated this guy is?
  
  

  depends on under what circumstances and how realistic it is.
• kopiosatu

  2 Jan 07, 22:08

  Originally posted by dokono:

  and then?
  
  doko

  then i go back to my hometown and i feel way better.
  
  true happiness lies there
• mistyblue

  2 Jan 07, 22:08

  Not for me to pass comment.
• StarPuppy

  2 Jan 07, 22:09

  actually this kind of thing..its kinda stupid
  
  even u willing to wait...the other person will just forget it another few months or so
• dokono

  2 Jan 07, 22:10

  Originally posted by ifish:

  the longer the wait the more painful it become.
  I'm still waiting

  hey fish,
  
  I suggest you don't wait.
  
  90% of the time, waiting means the girl is not into you.
  
  doko
• Gackt247

  2 Jan 07, 22:11

  Originally posted by dokono:

  hey fish,
  
  I suggest you don't wait.
  
  90% of the time, waiting means the girl is not into you.
  
  doko

  Yep.. i dig wat u say as well..
• sqully

  2 Jan 07, 22:12

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  actually this kind of thing..its kinda stupid
  
  even u willing to wait...the other person will just forget it another few months or so

  and so u r posting the thread for?
• dokono

  2 Jan 07, 22:13

  Originally posted by kopiosatu:

  then i go back to my hometown and i feel way better.
  
  true happiness lies there

  Good for you
  
  doko
• StarPuppy

  2 Jan 07, 22:14

  Originally posted by sqully:

  and so u r posting the thread for?

  asking around lor
  
  
• M©+square

  2 Jan 07, 22:16

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  actually this kind of thing..its kinda stupid
  
  even u willing to wait...the other person will just forget it another few months or so

  So does that guy want to wait because he wants to, and because he's dedicated.
  
  Or he waits on condition that the person is still around?
  
  He must know what and why is he waiting for.
  
  Cheers
• StarPuppy

  2 Jan 07, 22:21

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  So does that guy want to wait because he wants to, and because he's dedicated.
  
  Or he waits on condition that the person is still around?
  
  He must know what and why is he waiting for.
  
  Cheers

  usually the guy waits so that the guy shows that hes dedicated and of course his love for the lady and also maybe the lady will be touched?
  
  what else wil he wait for?
• dokono

  2 Jan 07, 22:22

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  So does that guy want to wait because he wants to, and because he's dedicated.
  
  Or he waits on condition that the person is still around?
  
  He must know what and why is he waiting for.
  
  Cheers

  In any case, he should not wait, simply because the time spent on waiting can be used to chase other chicks who could be hotter.
  
  Also, the fact he must be made to wait speaks volumes for the amout of love the girl has for the guy.
  
  doko
• M©+square

  2 Jan 07, 22:22

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  usually the guy waits so that the guy shows that hes dedicated and of course his love for the lady and also maybe the lady will be touched?
  
  what else wil he wait for?

  What else?
  
  He waits for the right guy to protect her and love her before he could let go.
  Karmic struggle? Maybe.
  
  Cheers
• StarPuppy

  2 Jan 07, 22:24

  Originally posted by dokono:

  In any case, he should not wait, simply because the time spent on waiting can be used to chase other chicks who could be hotter.
  
  Also, the fact he must be made to wait speaks volumes for the amout of love the girl has for the guy.
  
  doko

  then what is love? if u chase the next gal who is hotter and so on?
• StarPuppy

  2 Jan 07, 22:25

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  What else?
  
  He waits for the right guy to protect her and love her before he could let go.
  Karmic struggle? Maybe.
  
  Cheers

  Karmic struggle?
  
  dun understand on the point of waiting for the right guy to protect her
  
  i mean he can be the right guy...why would he need to wait for someone to take over his place?
• M©+square

  2 Jan 07, 22:28

  Originally posted by StarPuppy:

  Karmic struggle?
  
  dun understand on the point of waiting for the right guy to protect her
  
  i mean he can be the right guy...why would he need to wait for someone to take over his place?

  I'm offering another viewpoint of wait.
  
  A wait could or maybe selfish or unselfish in nature.
  
  There are many reasons to one issue and many outcomes and decisions to it.
  
  Cheers
• Cool-gal

  2 Jan 07, 22:32

  if the result is going to be fruitful then wait, if not, forget abt it and move on..
• browniebaobao

  2 Jan 07, 22:36

  usually if someone waits, he's still a bit hopeful and dun want to give up.
  
  but then, always remember, if the other party asked u not to wait and u insisted doing so, then if things dun work out between the two of you, do not complain, coz u chose to wait of your own accord.
  
  waiting for somebody can be a torture and painful.. how long are you going to wait? wat if the outcome is not what u want? are u able to accept it?