a girl in my lecture group

• mamamamama

  6 Jan 07, 01:05

  Originally posted by CHoCo^LaTcH:

  this is the way to go
  sometimes nyp can see some attitude girls
  1 look can tell.....but if she hangs out wif nice guys...that a gd sign

  it's a good sign if she hangs out with nice guys?
  
  like that counted as good ah.. can elaborate?
• mamamamama

  6 Jan 07, 01:07

  Originally posted by shutterpod:

  hi my name is xxx.can i have a quick look at your notes just for a little while.

  i thought of this before
  
  there was one rare occasion where she sat just a chair away from me. too bad one of my classmate was beside me and i dowan her (my classmate) to get jealous.
  
  my one and only chance flew away just like that
  
  now she sits with her group of friends.
• aRcTiC_sTaR

  6 Jan 07, 01:27

  If it's meant to be, you will find the opportunity when you least expect it.
• CHoCo^LaTcH

  6 Jan 07, 01:44

  Originally posted by mamamamama:

  it's a good sign if she hangs out with nice guys?
  
  like that counted as good ah.. can elaborate?

  depends on wat type of guy u are...if u're a quiet type of guy
  and she oftens sits with such guys during lec, then its gd for u...
  same goes for outgoing type...
  
  
• Eternal-fire

  6 Jan 07, 02:52

  NYP got so many nice gals meh? I study there too but it seems I got sick of the gals there since last year.
  
  Anyway if you are those quiet and not confident type of guy (just like me) forget about it. She ain't gonna be interested in you. You must be confident enough to apporach her then can develop further.
• Quinsy

  6 Jan 07, 02:56

  Originally posted by mamamamama:

  nope. not IT.
  
  anyway many might find this scenario familar. very common ma.

  Which canteen u go to?
  
  Quinsy goes to SCL.
• Quinsy

  6 Jan 07, 02:58

  Originally posted by mamamamama:

  NYP.
  
  cannot reveal anymore le

  Age?
• Quinsy

  6 Jan 07, 03:09

  Originally posted by Quinsy:

  Age?

  i know liao. you 19. 87 or 88?
• nanren4ever

  6 Jan 07, 08:25

  Originally posted by mamamamama:

  im quite attracted to this girl in my lecture group. same course but different module group (class).
  
  i'm not even sure if she knows of my existence.
  
  can anyone suggest methods i can use to get to know her?
  
  actually i'm waiting for an opportunity to get a chance to talk to her, or even smile at her. (an example would be opening the lecture door for her when lesson ends.)
  
  so far, there's still no chances.
  
  i just hope that she does not get scared off by me.

  Since in the same lecture group, then quite ok, even if different module group.
  Get your friends to sit with u in the same row as her, or behind her during lectures. Make sure you are the one that sit as near her, and not sitting nearest the aisle. Buy Mentos or any other type of sweets. Offer to her friends 1st, then offer to her(but if she sitting next to u, of course offer her 1st). Then, its up to you liao bro.
  
  Gd luck.
• mamamamama

  6 Jan 07, 23:48

  Originally posted by Quinsy:

  Which canteen u go to?
  
  Quinsy goes to SCL.

  south canteen.
  
  same as you, dragon baby
• mamamamama

  6 Jan 07, 23:50

  Originally posted by nanren4ever:

  Since in the same lecture group, then quite ok, even if different module group.
  Get your friends to sit with u in the same row as her, or behind her during lectures. Make sure you are the one that sit as near her, and not sitting nearest the aisle. Buy Mentos or any other type of sweets. Offer to her friends 1st, then offer to her(but if she sitting next to u, of course offer her 1st). Then, its up to you liao bro.
  
  Gd luck.

  thanks! i love your idea.
  
  next stop would be arming myself with sweets
• Eternal-fire

  7 Jan 07, 01:45

  Originally posted by mamamamama:

  south canteen.
  
  same as you, dragon baby

  I go south canteen too....... But mostly FJ
• ifish

  7 Jan 07, 02:17

  Originally posted by Eternal-fire:

  I go south canteen too....... But mostly FJ

  all go south. no one go north ahh?
  
  she usually alone or in groups one? and which part of LT she always sit one?
• Eternal-fire

  7 Jan 07, 02:43

  Originally posted by ifish:

  all go south. no one go north ahh?
  
  she usually alone or in groups one? and which part of LT she always sit one?

  North far from my school mah and food there a little more ex than south. So go south lar.
• mamamamama

  7 Jan 07, 22:31

  Originally posted by ifish:

  all go south. no one go north ahh?
  
  she usually alone or in groups one? and which part of LT she always sit one?

  in groups de. small groups like 3 or 4.
  
  usually there are 2 doors in each LT right? she sits near the door on the right. right at the back.
• ifish

  7 Jan 07, 22:47

  Originally posted by mamamamama:

  in groups de. small groups like 3 or 4.
  
  usually there are 2 doors in each LT right? she sits near the door on the right. right at the back.

  like that super easy lar.. you just one day morning class come late. Then you go sit beside her or grab a chair sit behind or if u still no courage, ask your friends whether they know her or her friends. Lecture group 100+ ppl only.. sure one of your tutorial mates know one of her friends.
  
  Good luck
• Quinsy

  8 Jan 07, 16:54

  Originally posted by mamamamama:

  in groups de. small groups like 3 or 4.
  
  usually there are 2 doors in each LT right? she sits near the door on the right. right at the back.

  THEN SIT AT THE AISLE near the right door la! Then when u offer sweet can just reach your hand out to give her what. =.=!! Oh, arm yourself with a BIG pack. cuz usually when you pass sweets the sweets will travel all the way to the front. -.-!!
  
  If you see me must say hi hor.
• Quinsy

  8 Jan 07, 16:56

  Originally posted by Eternal-fire:

  North far from my school mah and food there a little more ex than south. So go south lar.

  South canteen food nicer. GOt fried food!
• mamamamama

  8 Jan 07, 18:12

  Originally posted by Quinsy:

  THEN SIT AT THE AISLE near the right door la! Then when u offer sweet can just reach your hand out to give her what. =.=!! Oh, arm yourself with a BIG pack. cuz usually when you pass sweets the sweets will travel all the way to the front. -.-!!
  
  If you see me must say hi hor.

  i'm trying very hard to sit near her le. problem is my friends and i will always sit together. but nvm, already quite near to her le
  
  i think it'll be easier for you to spot me instead. tall tall fat fat de
  
  btw, you from year 2?
• ifish

  8 Jan 07, 18:30

  Originally posted by mamamamama:

  i'm trying very hard to sit near her le. problem is my friends and i will always sit together. but nvm, already quite near to her le
  
  i think it'll be easier for you to spot me instead. tall tall fat fat de
  
  btw, you from year 2?

  thats why i ask you to come late and yea i agree that sweet is the best way to make friends esp long lectures
• mamamamama

  8 Jan 07, 18:33

  Originally posted by ifish:

  thats why i ask you to come late and yea i agree that sweet is the best way to make friends esp long lectures

  so thoughtful of you
  
  but today she didn't come to school. most probably sick
• SpecOps87

  9 Jan 07, 17:19

  Originally posted by mamamamama:

  so thoughtful of you
  
  but today she didn't come to school. most probably sick

  awwww....be concerned...after offering sweets say you notice she wasn't present.
• mamamamama

  9 Jan 07, 18:43

  Originally posted by SpecOps87:

  awwww....be concerned...after offering sweets say you notice she wasn't present.

  today i held open the door for her after lecture
  
  she didn't thank me but instead bow her head slightly and made this cute face
  
  or maybe it's just me
• WadeFulp

  9 Jan 07, 18:51

  Try your best lo.... hope you succeed.
• mamamamama

  9 Jan 07, 19:06

  Originally posted by WadeFulp:

  Try your best lo.... hope you succeed.

  
  
  thank you thank you
  
  i will try my best