me still single in my mid 20s
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same old story of never had a gf before.....
i seriously dun believe in fate and destiny crap.....
i know its up to me to really improve myself and be more daring to know girls................
but i dun dare to approach girls, ask girls to be friends type... has been waiting for me to become more confident at knowing girls but has not succeed yet....... still feeling envy of others and sad about my plight once a while.....
here is some plans i have thought up. first, is to continue to pressure myself to know girls by approaching girls to be friends in school or outside world ( which i dun dare) the second way is to try to go for dating and social agencies.... fourth is to go and read more dating books and love books.....
last straw is to buy a vietnam wife by age 34( still not sure yet whether 34 is right)
lastly... to all guys who are like me.... dun believe in fate thing..... u got to really take accountability in life...... i noe some pple never do much but still can meet their gf by fate or whatever u call it..... but do u think u will be so lucky like these guys..... there is no free lunch... one has to work if he wants to achieve his goal... -
You havn't ask those in the 50s and still single guys...
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join sds.
there are nice girls there too. -
Leave it up to fate TS... Someday, oneday, it will happen =) -
it is pathetic if man have to develop a contigency plan to get a life partner..
work hard to improve on oneself.. "boyfren/husband qualities" I am sure gals will come knocking on yur doors..
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u got go meh? how u noe? i tot sds close down already?Originally posted by dragg:join sds.
there are nice girls there too. -
Hi TS, I really agree with Tissot.Originally posted by Tissot1853:it is pathetic if man have to develop a contigency plan to get a life partner..
work hard to improve on oneself.. "boyfren/husband qualities" I am sure gals will come knocking on yur doors..
Improve on yourself and girls will start knocking on your door. Relationship is not like work where a contingency plan can be drafted and executed like a corporate buy-over or military attack. Girls are very wierd creatures if we are to view them from the viewpt of a guy.
Let nature come its way. A GF should also be your best friend. -
no gf then do something abt it lo... mid 20s no gf also no big deal... u can spend the time to improve ur life and make urself successful... but in the mean time can know more gal frens and improve ur socio skills...Originally posted by january:same old story of never had a gf before.....
i seriously dun believe in fate and destiny crap.....
i know its up to me to really improve myself and be more daring to know girls................
but i dun dare to approach girls, ask girls to be friends type... has been waiting for me to become more confident at knowing girls but has not succeed yet....... still feeling envy of others and sad about my plight once a while.....
here is some plans i have thought up. first, is to continue to pressure myself to know girls by approaching girls to be friends in school or outside world ( which i dun dare) the second way is to try to go for dating and social agencies.... fourth is to go and read more dating books and love books.....
last straw is to buy a vietnam wife by age 34( still not sure yet whether 34 is right)
lastly... to all guys who are like me.... dun believe in fate thing..... u got to really take accountability in life...... i noe some pple never do much but still can meet their gf by fate or whatever u call it..... but do u think u will be so lucky like these guys..... there is no free lunch... one has to work if he wants to achieve his goal... -
I'm rather in the same situation as you, but it is also partly because I don't like to do things on impulse, so I'd rather observe the girl's character before I decide to go for her or not. So far I haven't really met any girl who makes me feel it's worth sacrificing my freedom for.
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Unfortunately, if you are fifty and havn't found a soulmate, kindly forget it. If anyone is looking to be in the assasin line or even a commercial spy, forget about getting into a proper relationship.Originally posted by MS:Hi TS, I really agree with Tissot.
Improve on yourself and girls will start knocking on your door. Relationship is not like work where a contingency plan can be drafted and executed like a corporate buy-over or military attack. Girls are very wierd creatures if we are to view them from the viewpt of a guy.
Let nature come its way. A GF should also be your best friend. -
'buy' a vietnam wife?
hmm.. i think guys really have to pressure themselves so much when they are in their mid or late 30s lor..
coz age is not a problem to a man when it comes to marriage ba.
it's the ladies who have to panic tho..
let nature take its course ba..
the best thing comes when you least expected it. -
So what are you doing to do about it?Originally posted by january:same old story of never had a gf before.....
i seriously dun believe in fate and destiny crap.....
i know its up to me to really improve myself and be more daring to know girls................
but i dun dare to approach girls, ask girls to be friends type... has been waiting for me to become more confident at knowing girls but has not succeed yet....... still feeling envy of others and sad about my plight once a while.....
here is some plans i have thought up. first, is to continue to pressure myself to know girls by approaching girls to be friends in school or outside world ( which i dun dare) the second way is to try to go for dating and social agencies.... fourth is to go and read more dating books and love books.....
last straw is to buy a vietnam wife by age 34( still not sure yet whether 34 is right)
lastly... to all guys who are like me.... dun believe in fate thing..... u got to really take accountability in life...... i noe some pple never do much but still can meet their gf by fate or whatever u call it..... but do u think u will be so lucky like these guys..... there is no free lunch... one has to work if he wants to achieve his goal... -
maybe you DoTA too muched?Originally posted by january:same old story of never had a gf before.....
i seriously dun believe in fate and destiny crap.....
i know its up to me to really improve myself and be more daring to know girls................
but i dun dare to approach girls, ask girls to be friends type... has been waiting for me to become more confident at knowing girls but has not succeed yet....... still feeling envy of others and sad about my plight once a while.....
here is some plans i have thought up. first, is to continue to pressure myself to know girls by approaching girls to be friends in school or outside world ( which i dun dare) the second way is to try to go for dating and social agencies.... fourth is to go and read more dating books and love books.....
last straw is to buy a vietnam wife by age 34( still not sure yet whether 34 is right)
lastly... to all guys who are like me.... dun believe in fate thing..... u got to really take accountability in life...... i noe some pple never do much but still can meet their gf by fate or whatever u call it..... but do u think u will be so lucky like these guys..... there is no free lunch... one has to work if he wants to achieve his goal...
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me too no heart ache over it life still goes on
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dun worry man..
i'm sure eventually you will find ur Miss Right..
Good luck and all the best.. -
Tell U what, no GF nevermind just know how to get along with female friend... Soon out later u will get one..
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lots of people have proved that you can never be sure.Originally posted by lonestar86:dun worry man..
i'm sure eventually you will find ur Miss Right..
Good luck and all the best.. -
haa me also in my mid 20s with no gf.
mayb we can form a club haa.. -
/signs up.Originally posted by gno2:haa me also in my mid 20s with no gf.
mayb we can form a club haa.. -
20s oni complain.....! U r still a young punk!!! -
haiya. this is what i'm doing. participating in activities and getting to know more people. with that it'll improve chances and who knows you might not even need to do anything!
i find that those who approaches strangers is like so not appropriate. don't really leave a good impression. no offence. just my opinion. -
wah lau eh...buy is a wrong word to use in this instance....if you see it that way then you are only treating her as a product......it may not be a bad thing afterall...i know given the chance some men would rather have a matched made foreign wife instead of their unbearable sg wives.....and that's the truth ya...so no point rushing...Originally posted by january:last straw is to buy a vietnam wife by age 34( still not sure yet whether 34 is right) -
If you dont believe in fate, then you'll have no romance.Originally posted by january:same old story of never had a gf before.....
i seriously dun believe in fate and destiny crap.....
i know its up to me to really improve myself and be more daring to know girls................
but i dun dare to approach girls, ask girls to be friends type... has been waiting for me to become more confident at knowing girls but has not succeed yet....... still feeling envy of others and sad about my plight once a while.....
here is some plans i have thought up. first, is to continue to pressure myself to know girls by approaching girls to be friends in school or outside world ( which i dun dare) the second way is to try to go for dating and social agencies.... fourth is to go and read more dating books and love books.....
last straw is to buy a vietnam wife by age 34( still not sure yet whether 34 is right)
lastly... to all guys who are like me.... dun believe in fate thing..... u got to really take accountability in life...... i noe some pple never do much but still can meet their gf by fate or whatever u call it..... but do u think u will be so lucky like these guys..... there is no free lunch... one has to work if he wants to achieve his goal...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1zqW8gge3FE -
my first post in Aunt Agony,
Vietnam women are pretty good, in terms of looks and character.
Most i've met or spoken to (business contacts/frens) are down-to-earth, honest and sincere. coz their life is tough, they appreciate things much more.
buy is a strong word i agree, they're (Vietnam) good women, you just have to find the right girl and give her happiness by treating her right and not expecting tons in return. (i suggest getting virgin in case you worried about HIV)
33 ~ 35 is a good age to get them if fate isn't working for you. hehe
but then january.. how do you look yourself? i would think it matters, as you've gotten dress up and look good to feel good and confident about yourself.
girls generally are attracted to confident guys, inner confidence.
and then.. you really need to chase a girl lor.. haha give her calls or sms to show you're interested in them.. thats my thoughts.
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please ask yourself the purpose of seeking a partner and you will know what you should do.