me 18 years old still havent..
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whats wrong with that?
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understand that u are only 18 years old.. an age to be desperatly in love.. but if ur motive of getting a gf is to show off to ur fres around, expect the ger to shower you with love, to show concern bout u.. i might as well u get a dog instead.Originally posted by chinese_boy:have a relationship before .. my looks is ok. i dont smoke nor drink beer.. i treat all my fren goods.. how come? im scared i by 20+ still no gf.. can any1 help me out..
anyway u are still young, there are still a lot of things for u to do beside love.. i think it more apporiate for u to seek one after army.. but maybe even after army, you wun even think of finding a gf anymore.. once a person grows older, the desire of love gets lesser.. cos u have already use to being alone and u realised that there are other things for u to accomplish.. -
from wat i have read, i think it is better that you do not find a gf until u have reached a more matured age
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Haha, I don't think you need a girlfriend...I think you need a social escort man! Oh my, look at me 19, so damn sad of losing a 3yr r-ship, thought I can't live without the ex, but look at me man! I'm alive, kicking and well! Living much stronger also, and if you're eligible, even attached girls will ask you out man! So be nice, most girls these days like Mr.Sensifarkingtivity, but I'm not like that, I'm the Alpha-Male sort. And frankly, you sound desperate, girls don't like desperate guys, so you either shape up your mentality, or ship out to those match-making agencies.
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Aiyo , its ok de la..... cant really compare such things...
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Originally posted by ditzy:"Those looking for commitment need not apply."
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Shuai ge~! I date you can?Originally posted by SpecOps87:Haha, I don't think you need a girlfriend...I think you need a social escort man! Oh my, look at me 19, so damn sad of losing a 3yr r-ship, thought I can't live without the ex, but look at me man! I'm alive, kicking and well! Living much stronger also, and if you're eligible, even attached girls will ask you out man! So be nice, most girls these days like Mr.Sensifarkingtivity, but I'm not like that, I'm the Alpha-Male sort. And frankly, you sound desperate, girls don't like desperate guys, so you either shape up your mentality, or ship out to those match-making agencies. 
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Haha,you bad girl! Study lah! Don't skip class!Originally posted by Quinsy:Shuai ge~! I date you can?
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Aiiiiiii is it shameful to be without gf at the age of 18? Shld i go hide my face?
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This week i didnt skip class~!Originally posted by SpecOps87:Haha,you bad girl! Study lah! Don't skip class!
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Look at things this way. People in other countries are worried about no food, no place to stay, earthquakes, tsunami etc, and here you are worrying you got no gf?Originally posted by chinese_boy:have a relationship before .. my looks is ok. i dont smoke nor drink beer.. i treat all my fren goods.. how come? im scared i by 20+ still no gf.. can any1 help me out..
I think must send some of u go to those countries then see if u worry about got bf/gf or not. -
ahhh l like this one..best advice given...Originally posted by nanren4ever:Look at things this way. People in other countries are worried about no food, no place to stay, earthquakes, tsunami etc, and here you are worrying you got no gf?
I think must send some of u go to those countries then see if u worry about got bf/gf or not.
ya lo...other countries ppl worry abt no food, no place to hav a shether, eathquakes and tsuanami and etc...but sum sg guys here hiam and trouble no gf...
No gf will die meh? l tell u gt gf then u headache la...if ur gf not those sensible, not those appreciative type...u will end up having alot of problems and mess to clear...
l now see young guys gt gf...l stand aside ... wickedly laughing nia...
Sum guys like carrot..let the gf chop until...haha l dun wish to say le..
oh ya to added...l am oso once a big carrot...oso let gals chop before wor...did sumtime laugh at my stupidness last time -
you have money to treat gals to restaurants or can only afford to treat cai png? 
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Go smoke. Go drink. Go tattoo. Go pierce. GO become a junkie.
Geez.. u juz need to be confident la. Anyway being attached not necessary is a good thing. ANyway u are still young why conc on such things.. there are better things to do den to daydream abt such stuff.
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Hmm 18 years old nvm. But try to have a GF before 30yrs old. My SS teacher says that due to education and society, alot of people are not getting married, or married at an older age. In the past, people used to get married at around 24-26 yrs old, now is around 29.3 yrs old.
Which is quite old larh, then my teacher also say having children at older ages is more risker. Studies have shown that if you plan to have children at older age, the danger of giving birth to a child rises sharply. Also, you risk giving birth to a deformed baby , such as down syndrome.
Alot of people dont want to have children/get married at an early age is simply because of their stupid carrier, with the stupid phrase "my carrier comes first, r/s 10 years later then talk." What i believe is that if you can balance your carrier and family, you shouldn't have problems.
But at 18 dont worry larh, if 30+ liao still haven got GF then start to worry. 18 is still very young.
Oh ya, i would like to ask you guys something. Any guys/boys here WILL NEVER marry a girl who earns more than you, have a higher position than yours, and is richer? Anyone got such thinkings? -
Hah.Originally posted by Eternal-fire:I am 18 too, single, never been in a relationship before. I drink casually, I dun smoke, swear most of the damm time, have wierd thinking and I have black painted nails and long hair(I am straight and a male) If it makes you feel better I dun have female friends only acquaintances. But my advise is dun ever get desperate.
No female friends probably because you shouldn't be mixing around with the 70% of sissy, breathy sounding female wimps in Singapore who patronize "cute" Japanese sh*t and flounce around in prissy skirts and heels, and don't have a life except going around in all female packs for shopping trips and whining about her bgf relationships.
If she's the non-conformist dudette who follows her own rules, her own life - she'll welcome you with open arms.
You two could go kick some frickin' ass together. -
Yeah, I dun really like mainstream gals anyway. Can't understand them, act cute all the time.Originally posted by GameGoddess:Hah.
No female friends probably because you shouldn't be mixing around with the 70% of sissy, breathy sounding female wimps in Singapore who patronize "cute" Japanese sh*t and flounce around in prissy skirts and heels, and don't have a life except going around in all female packs for shopping trips and whining about her bgf relationships.
If she's the non-conformist dudette who follows her own rules, her own life - she'll welcome you with open arms.
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bbaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!...........
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i got such thinking before.Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:Oh ya, i would like to ask you guys something. Any guys/boys here WILL NEVER marry a girl who earns more than you, have a higher position than yours, and is richer? Anyone got such thinkings? -
Why like that? Do we males have a superiority complex or something?
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by 20+, 30+ still no gf so?
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crazy~
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Oh ya, i would like to ask you guys something. Any guys/boys here WILL NEVER marry a girl who earns more than you, have a higher position than yours, and is richer? Anyone got such thinkings?
Hm.
The same for girls as well.
Many girls will think twice (some never) when marrying a guy who earns less than she does, or is much lower down on the food chain (ha, food chain.) than she is.
Or shorter. Etc.
Reason being. It's all biological, me thinks.
Why do girls prefer taller guys? Because it gives her a sense of security. It gives the psychological effect that he is more dominant (thus more desirable) and stronger than shorter, stumpy guys, when she could be a sumo wrestler, shorter than him and much stronger than he is.
It's all in the society mindset.
When he earns less than she does and either of them don't like it.
Simple logic. One reason to explain this is that in ancient times, a man who can provide for his woman/women was not only larger, taller, stronger, he was also more dominant, hence he got a larger share of everything.
A man earning big bucks today is put in the same context, same logic. He can provide more, he gets a larger share of everything because he can afford to.
This equates to him being able to care for the family, the kids.
In the end, a woman looks at a man and can feel everything from A - Z, but she cannot deny the human evolutionary root that we humans have been living by since the dawn of human kind - that the man's worth is his ability to stay long enough to provide for her and their brood.
And the man, that a woman is fit enough to bear his children and carry on his genes, the more women, the better. (Even if one woman is the "main" one and the rest are all "sexual outlets".)
So...that's the low down.
The thing...are we strong enough to think differently, to break from these biological ties and move higher up the evolutionary ladder? -
change into new look la...
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i do agree but if u smoke and drink = more worse rightOriginally posted by CannyOng:Yr look is ok,so what? U mean those ugly don't deserve a partner?
No smoke and non-drinker deesn't mean u r good.
Btw,do u know how to take care of a lady and treat her well?
U dont get a parnter just for the sake of her concerning u and peer pressure.
As what other say. U even need to give out equavailent or even more amount of concer and care back to her. R/S is not game or just some fashion clothes,wear it and just throw it. It involves human being,emotion and love. If u don't handle well,and may hurt someone(heart) bad in the process.....