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Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Somebody has to be male and somebody female for the relationship to work well, even gay ones.
Men learned to take it when shouted at and screamed at in the army but cannot take it when their wives / GF are moody.
Somebody has to stay cool and calm when one party is moody/gone mad and I would think that women are moody at least once a month.
One day I heard someone shout very loud to all her colleagues, "I have PMS, stay away from me!" So I don't think I am being sexiest for having that sentiment.
PMS is one thing, generally it very much depends on the how strong the love is, expectations, pragmatism, personality, character, stress/tolerant level of both genders for the relationship to work. Both parties have to put in utmost effort then the relationship will work. Sigh, with so many differences between the two genders, sometimes it's kind of tough to solve problems. -
I know what you mean, it is like, "I am having PMS I should be home sleeping until I feel better."Originally posted by dokono:Guy or girl having PMS as a reason is a bad excuse.
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hahahaha you are right about the differences... see: To score with the ladies, make them laughOriginally posted by rane: PMS is one thing, generally it very much depends on the how strong the love is, expectations, pragmatism, personality, character, stress/tolerant level of both genders for the relationship to work. Both parties have to put in utmost effort then the relationship will work. Sigh, with so many differences between the two genders, sometimes it's kind of tough to solve problems. -
asked her out on sat night..gave me the excuess that having family dinner wanna be a good gal..
I think she is not really keen on me.......give up liao ...not going to waste time -
Hey, what's the purpose of setting up the website mentioned above, to spread Christianity?Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:hahahaha you are right about the differences... see: To score with the ladies, make them laugh -
If you were Takeshi Kaneshiro, you think she would give such excuses?Originally posted by xtreme223:asked her out on sat night..gave me the excuess that having family dinner wanna be a good gal..
I think she is not really keen on me.......give up liao ...not going to waste time
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hey, doko, guess the gal just treating him as a good friend and may not want to hurt him to tell him directly that she is not interested. YOu know in general gals don't like to hurt guys when coming to this sort of sensitive issue. Looks and $ don't matter!Originally posted by dokono:If you were Takeshi Kaneshiro, you think she would give such excuses?
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Rane,Originally posted by rane:hey, doko, guess the gal just treating him as a good friend and may not want to hurt him to tell him directly that she is not interested. YOu know in general gals don't like to hurt guys when coming to this sort of sensitive issue. Looks and $ don't matter!
I hope the girl reject him nicely so he knows he can move on instead of thinking of false hopes. I know girls don't want to hurt guys' pride.
Looks and money don't matter? True and not true. It definitely helps a lot. We are in the real world. It depends. Generally speaking, most girls would go for handsome guys. Maybe it applies to you only la haha ?
If someone as handsome and hot as Takeshi ask you out, would you say "yes"?
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Originally posted by dokono:Rane,
I hope the girl reject him nicely so he knows he can move on instead of thinking of false hopes. I know girls don't want to hurt guys' pride.
Looks and money don't matter? True and not true. It definitely helps a lot. We are in the real world. It depends. Generally speaking, most girls would go for handsome guys. Maybe it applies to you only la haha ?
If someone as handsome and hot as Takeshi ask you out, would you say "yes"?
doko 
Hey, doko. Yeah, depends on what gals are looking for in guys. Some place character as top priority, some go for look, some go for $ and some go for all the above. No bingo for you OK, I don't go for looks. I've ever fallen for not good looking guys. To me character is no 1 on the list. No good character no talk. Well, if someone who has good character and is as good looking as Takeshi asks me out, I will go. If this someone who looks like Takeshi asks me out and he has bad character I will not go! -
i think she just treat me as a good nice friend.....but then again i cant stop thinking of her...how? how can i know got a b/f? at least my heart will die off..she is not even half as pretty as my ex..but i just like her
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Depends on whether you still wan to continue being friends or just cut off all contact.
If you still wan to be friends, den slowly observe lor.
If wanna cut off all contacts if cannot be gf/bf, den just tell her staright in the face that you are interested in her and see how she reacts lor.
If she accepts you den good for you.
If she avoids you like the plague, at least you have been mentally prepared.
But the way you put it, seems to me that she's playing hard to get. And like what somebody mentioned, her reluctance to confirm outing might be that she is waiting for somebody else to confirm with her and you are the 'spare tyre'.
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i dont mind to be spare as long as i am given more chance and she doesnt have a b/f.
she did tell me how bad her ex is.so i assume sh doesnt have a b/f.
the pt now is how to know if she is just treating me as a friend or if want some knid of relationship -
Originally posted by xtreme223:i think she just treat me as a good nice friend.....but then again i cant stop thinking of her...how? how can i know got a b/f? at least my heart will die off..she is not even half as pretty as my ex..but i just like her
Told u b4 you may have to ask what her plan is for Valentine's Day. With her answer you will be able to know if she is attached. If you are daring ask her directly if she has boyfriend.