how to test water
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Originally posted by xtreme223:soulwinner so far u are the only one with some constructive suggestions...she told me usually on fridays she usually hang out with her girlfriends..
hey, xtreme, then go ahead if what soulwinner suggested and let us know the outcome after that.
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ask her for a date for friday and saturday lah... please do not do it last min, ask in advance please.Originally posted by xtreme223:soulwinner so far u are the only one with some constructive suggestions...she told me usually on fridays she usually hang out with her girlfriends.. -
Originally posted by Devil1976:-_-"
Who you think you are...?
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i sms her..and the respond is something like that
me: weekend go clubbing?
her : sat?
me: set!
her: check again on sat see if tired
to me this kind of respond is quite half hearted...not keen in meeting me
or is she just playing some mind games? -
Originally posted by xtreme223:i sms her..and the respond is something like that
me: weekend go clubbing?
her : sat?
me: set!
her: check again on sat see if tired
to me this kind of respond is quite half hearted...not keen in meeting me
or is she just playing some mind games?
hey xtreme223, time will tell if she is playing game or not keen in meeting you. Possibilities --> she is waiting - if other guy she is interested in her ask her out on the same day she will go with him, she may have something to do b4 meeting you on Sat and anticipate she may feel tired, may be playing a little hard to get or just testing how patient you are. Well, but at least she said yes. -
time will tell...?? all i want to know is wat kind of signal if a postive signal that i can really move in to her..coz now we are just friends/colleuge
sometimes she do sms me bo liao stuff.liek she is sleeping or caught in a rain
but then again i suspect she might have a b/f -
Originally posted by xtreme223:time will tell...?? all i want to know is wat kind of signal if a postive signal that i can really move in to her..coz now we are just friends/colleuge
sometimes she do sms me bo liao stuff.liek she is sleeping or caught in a rain
but then again i suspect she might have a b/f
Hey, xtreme, when you mentioned move in to her, you mean you wanna start courting her or living with her? ONly you can find out the answer. You either do it directly or indirectly to find out if she is willing to accept you getting a step close to her/to woo her. If you are daring enough, ask her what she is looking for in a bf. I can see that she likes you, too. Up to you to find out what sort of liking is that. Or it is possible that she treats you as a good friend like what I did to my other guy friends. When they expressed their liking for me I did not give them the green light to be my bf then they all left me, so sad! Sometimes it is very easy for guys to mistaken that gals like them. For you, please find out by depending on your gut feeling. It is kind of tough to mention any signal from a gal, because many times guys may be mistaken. Whatever you are doing , don't rush in case you scare her off.
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gut feel...??? hm....sometimes i can see dome postive but sometimes not.the signals are mixed ..that why i didnt really tell her my feeling. she might be playing hard to catch..but then again if she really like me she will make it easy for me right??
at this point of time ,i think she knew that i sort of interested in her.
if i start to turn cold what do u think her reaction will be? -
Dude,Originally posted by xtreme223:gut feel...??? hm....sometimes i can see dome postive but sometimes not.the signals are mixed ..that why i didnt really tell her my feeling. she might be playing hard to catch..but then again if she really like me she will make it easy for me right??
at this point of time ,i think she knew that i sort of interested in her.
if i start to turn cold what do u think her reaction will be?
How many times have you asked her out already?
doko -
You really think too much! Just ask her out. Relax!!!! Don't imagine this and imagine that. Remember this,Originally posted by xtreme223:gut feel...??? hm....sometimes i can see dome postive but sometimes not.the signals are mixed ..that why i didnt really tell her my feeling. she might be playing hard to catch..but then again if she really like me she will make it easy for me right??
at this point of time ,i think she knew that i sort of interested in her.
if i start to turn cold what do u think her reaction will be?
It will probably end up nothing!
After you go out a while, you find that she do not like you, you do not like her, you like somebody else, she likes somebody else... she realise she is not "ready"... she fall sick or you fall sick... the possibilities are endless.
Live for the moment! Ask her out and enjoy the date. Give her the best time you know how. Enjoy the date. Enjoy the lunches. Enjoy life instead of worrying about life all the time! JUST DO IT -
I like this post.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:You really think too much! Just ask her out. Relax!!!! Don't imagine this and imagine that. Remember this,
It will probably end up nothing!
After you go out a while, you find that she do not like you, you do not like her, you like somebody else, she likes somebody else... she realise she is not "ready"... she fall sick or you fall sick... the possibilities are endless.
Live for the moment! Ask her out and enjoy the date. Give her the best time you know how. Enjoy the date. Enjoy the lunches. Enjoy life instead of worrying about life all the time! JUST DO IT
doko -
Don't test the water. JUST JUMP IN!
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Guo4 Lai2 Ren2 At first I was also like him, worrying about all kind of rubbish...Originally posted by dokono:I like this post.
doko -
Exactly. It's like your life is hanging on the liine if you make a small mistake. Relax. You can't force her to like you.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Guo4 Lai2 Ren2 At first I was also like him, worrying about all kind of rubbish...
doko -
The more you worry, the worse it is. You cannot enjoy yourself and spoil the date! Like the Avril lyrics say:Originally posted by dokono:Exactly. It's like your life is hanging on the liine if you make a small mistake. Relax. You can't force her to like you.
doko
Chill out,
What you yellin' for?
Lay back, it's all been done before
And if you could only let it be
You will see
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Why do you have to go and make things so complicated?
I see the way you're
Acting like you're somebody else gets me frustrated
Life's like this, you
And you fall and you crawl
And you break and you take
What you get and you turn it into
Honesty Promise me I'm never gonna find you fake it
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Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:You really think too much! Just ask her out. Relax!!!! Don't imagine this and imagine that. Remember this,
It will probably end up nothing!
After you go out a while, you find that she do not like you, you do not like her, you like somebody else, she likes somebody else... she realise she is not "ready"... she fall sick or you fall sick... the possibilities are endless.
Live for the moment! Ask her out and enjoy the date. Give her the best time you know how. Enjoy the date. Enjoy the lunches. Enjoy life instead of worrying about life all the time! JUST DO IT Cool! Andrew, I like your style. If all guys are like you that it will save us gals headaches! Bravo, keep it up! That's the way men should be! -
You are so smart and observant... I did not even realise I was doing the ladies here a favour! You are right, men should be that way.Originally posted by rane: Cool! Andrew, I like your style. If all guys are like you that it will save us gals headaches! Bravo, keep it up! That's the way men should be! -
I'll reply like she did if i see see this kind of response.Originally posted by xtreme223:i sms her..and the respond is something like that
me: weekend go clubbing?
her : sat?
me: set!
her: check again on sat see if tired
to me this kind of respond is quite half hearted...not keen in meeting me
or is she just playing some mind games?
Brush up on your communication skills and use it on sms. -
Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:You are so smart and observant... I did not even realise I was doing the ladies here a favour! You are right, men should be that way.
Hi, Andrew, yeah! Me and my ex started that way and naturally and subsequently we were in relationship. But not many, in fact it is very rare to come across men doing it this way. What happen to their guts and spontaneity, I wonder! I know of many other relationships started like that. -
Somebody has to be male and somebody female for the relationship to work well, even gay ones.Originally posted by rane: Hi, Andrew, yeah! Me and my ex started that way and naturally and subsequently we were in relationship. But not many, in fact it is very rare to come across men doing it this way. What happen to their guts and spontaneity, I wonder! I know of many other relationships started like that.
Men learned to take it when shouted at and screamed at in the army but cannot take it when their wives / GF are moody.
Somebody has to stay cool and calm when one party is moody/gone mad and I would think that women are moody at least once a month.
One day I heard someone shout very loud to all her colleagues, "I have PMS, stay away from me!" So I don't think I am being sexiest for having that sentiment. -
Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Guo4 Lai2 Ren2 At first I was also like him, worrying about all kind of rubbish...
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PMS is not an excuse for being rude.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Somebody has to be male and somebody female for the relationship to work well, even gay ones.
Men learned to take it when shouted at and screamed at in the army but cannot take it when their wives / GF are moody.
Somebody has to stay cool and calm when one party is moody/gone mad and I would think that women are moody at least once a month.
One day I heard someone shout very loud to all her colleagues, "I have PMS, stay away from me!" So I don't think I am being sexiest for having that sentiment.
doko -
I think that you must be a guy.Originally posted by dokono:PMS is not an excuse for being rude.
doko
To bryanseb> you are very attention seeking right? Long long time ago lah.... -
Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:I think that you must be a guy.
To bryanseb> you are very attention seeking right? Long long time ago lah.... -
Guy or girl having PMS as a reason is a bad excuse.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:I think that you must be a guy.
To bryanseb> you are very attention seeking right? Long long time ago lah....
doko