who having a long distance love ..here
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Are you a gay or a lesbian?Originally posted by missqi:i used to have a gf who is in london..
think some forumnites may know.....
but now...i like someone who is sg for NS now...after ns will go back to the states for his degree...
so ya.....
there wont be any outcomes...
so haha.
v
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pomosexual.Originally posted by Tan Ah Teck:Are you a gay or a lesbian? -
seriously, love is the huge thing keeping the two together.
i just came back from a year in sydney. not easy i can tell u, almost broke up quite a few times. this year, changed uni to perth to b closer and same time zone and all, but i doubt it'll b any easier...haiz -
/imitates devil
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Me...
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Originally posted by TehJarVu:of course met b4
we're not online friends
i dun know wat i am gonna do
drag and drag loh
i dun wan to tok abt it liao~ .... -
Mmm...Originally posted by missqi:i used to have a gf who is in london..
think some forumnites may know.....
but now...i like someone who is sg for NS now...after ns will go back to the states for his degree...
so ya.....
there wont be any outcomes...
so haha. v
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Hmm... Think we might be pretty closeOriginally posted by missqi:pomosexual.
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Originally posted by alexkusu:/imitates devil ...
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My advise to you is don't wait... While it is true that absence makes the heart grow fonder, prolonged absence can likely dilute a relationship. Our minds are programmed to be forward looking, thats why memory will fade (for good reason too...). The longer you two get separated, the less likely something will come out of this long distance relationship...Originally posted by neighborgirl:he told wait... wait ... wait
When I went for overseas study, my batch of fellow SIngaporeans consisted of perhaps 20 guys, half of whom have girlfriends in SG. For the first months these guys really behave themselves... putting their GF's pics on their dorm room walls etc. etc.... But one year down the road, none of these guys maintain that relationship with their GFs in SG.
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Exactly. It doesn't work out. You forgot to mention that the guys also are looking for new targets overseas? Also, the girls on the other side are being hounded by guys at home also?Originally posted by Beyond Religion:My advise to you is don't wait... While it is true that absence makes the heart grow fonder, prolonged absence can likely dilute a relationship. Our minds are programmed to be forward looking, thats why memory will fade (for good reason too...). The longer you two get separated, the less likely something will come out of this long distance relationship...
When I went for overseas study, my batch of fellow SIngaporeans consisted of perhaps 20 guys, half of whom have girlfriends in SG. For the first months these guys really behave themselves... putting their GF's pics on their dorm room walls etc. etc.... But one year down the road, none of these guys maintain that relationship with their GFs in SG.
So, spare yourself the heartache.
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Hmm...................................................Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm... Think we might be pretty close -
i am.
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I live block 723 she live 724
few M considered distance? -
It can work out. It depends on how much both of you want to stay together. That will determine what you're willing to do for it.
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LDR before but now no more cos married alr.. living/working together
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me...
she's in KL while i'm in Singapore..
will go kl twice a month on the weekends
friday nite reach kl, sun night back to singapore..monday go work.. -
wa...Originally posted by trafox10:me...
she's in KL while i'm in Singapore..
will go kl twice a month on the weekends
friday nite reach kl, sun night back to singapore..monday go work..
last time i got an offer to work in KL...but i rejected it, cos I foresee I wudnt be able to meet up much with my dear if I go there to work... -
haha.i know who you are!Originally posted by trafox10:me...
she's in KL while i'm in Singapore..
will go kl twice a month on the weekends
friday nite reach kl, sun night back to singapore..monday go work.. -
how long has this been goin on? does she come over?Originally posted by trafox10:me...
she's in KL while i'm in Singapore..
will go kl twice a month on the weekends
friday nite reach kl, sun night back to singapore..monday go work.. -
well, i have a friend who met her bf in OZ during the last year of her studies. she came back half year after they were together. her bf continued his studies for another 2 years there, while she was here.Originally posted by Beyond Religion:My advise to you is don't wait... While it is true that absence makes the heart grow fonder, prolonged absence can likely dilute a relationship. Our minds are programmed to be forward looking, thats why memory will fade (for good reason too...). The longer you two get separated, the less likely something will come out of this long distance relationship...
When I went for overseas study, my batch of fellow SIngaporeans consisted of perhaps 20 guys, half of whom have girlfriends in SG. For the first months these guys really behave themselves... putting their GF's pics on their dorm room walls etc. etc.... But one year down the road, none of these guys maintain that relationship with their GFs in SG.
So, spare yourself the heartache.
that was 7 years ago. now? they are married with 2 kids.
What im saying is, though it is extremely difficult, it is not impossible. Dont lose hope. -
i just went thru these for a yr... when my partner was in Uk... the time difference was hell and everyday waiting for him to online.. was hell too... really difficult times.. had lots of quarrels, mistrust, initating of breakup etc... thou we are supposed to be very stable in our r/s as outsiders think so. all i can say, is not impossible, it really take 2 hands to clap and seriously maintaining this long distance r/s.
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She is back already? everything is good now?Originally posted by mystee:i just went thru these for a yr... when my partner was in Uk... the time difference was hell and everyday waiting for him to online.. was hell too... really difficult times.. had lots of quarrels, mistrust, initating of breakup etc... thou we are supposed to be very stable in our r/s as outsiders think so. all i can say, is not impossible, it really take 2 hands to clap and seriously maintaining this long distance r/s. -
yup, he is back already, was there for a yr... lots of things happened when he was there and we almost broke up. As both of us cant bear to leave this r/s, so we compromised and promised that we will try not to bring up things that were happened there again.Originally posted by blu_sky:She is back already? everything is good now?
hmm... in every r/s, there are up & downs... but things aint too good recently, still due to trust as discussed with u in another thread. we were togther for almost 5 yr, i knew he was the one for me. but i just cant bring myself to trust him due to some incidents that happened in uk and in sg.
just hope that he can jz stop hiding and lying to me... one more time.. and that's it.. i will definately stop this r/s. -
Since you have decided to give it one more shot, give it your best. Put the past behind you. Dont think about them, at least try. But NEVER mention them to him. If need to, talk to a friend.Originally posted by mystee:yup, he is back already, was there for a yr... lots of things happened when he was there and we almost broke up. As both of us cant bear to leave this r/s, so we compromised and promised that we will try not to bring up things that were happened there again.
hmm... in every r/s, there are up & downs... but things aint too good recently, still due to trust as discussed with u in another thread. we were togther for almost 5 yr, i knew he was the one for me. but i just cant bring myself to trust him due to some incidents that happened in uk and in sg.
just hope that he can jz stop hiding and lying to me... one more time.. and that's it.. i will definately stop this r/s.
Importantly, impressed upon him the critical importance of honesty to you.
Good luck girl! If you need, you can always find support here