i'm seriously hurt..
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25 consider young??Originally posted by dokono:still young...their minds are not stable and can still change very fast.
doko
for a woman, i dun think so..
btw, i think she has made the right choice by leaving me..
i'm only 20 and i'm only a NSF..
while the other guy is 28
financially stable..
much more mature than me..
he definitely can give her what she wants..
well for me, there's nothing i can do.. -
Need to get this clear: how did you chase her? Or she chased you?Originally posted by lonestar86:i'm not what she wants..
i can't give her what she wants..
there's nothing i can do..
serve me right..
doko -
neither..Originally posted by dokono:Need to get this clear: how did you chase her? Or she chased you?
doko
we get 2gather naturally..
it was sweet..
but short.. -
I see. I guess it was a fling for her. I mean who was the one who suggested you two get together first?Originally posted by lonestar86:neither..
we get 2gather naturally..
it was sweet..
but short..
doko -
Listen, don't feel sorry for yourself. There's no need to. The future is bright ahead of you. With time, you will forget the pain.Originally posted by lonestar86:25 consider young??
for a woman, i dun think so..
btw, i think she has made the right choice by leaving me..
i'm only 20 and i'm only a NSF..
while the other guy is 28
financially stable..
much more mature than me..
he definitely can give her what she wants..
well for me, there's nothing i can do..
Financially, maturity and life experience, you are no match for him.
doko -
no match for him??Originally posted by dokono:Listen, don't feel sorry for yourself. There's no need to. The future is bright ahead of you. With time, you will forget the pain.
Financially, maturity and life experience, you are no match for him.
doko
since i'm no match for him in financially, maturity and life experience..
then i will ambush and assault him..
perhaps stab him in his back with a pocket knife??
his appearance cause our break-up..
it's all his fault..
he's ought to be punished..
i want his life..
i hate him to the core..
if i've a rifle and live rounds..
i would have shoot him in his f***ing head.. -
Originally posted by lonestar86:
Hello! I think I will retract my statement. Are you such a sore loser? Did he instigate the breakup? If this woman can leave for another man, she can do it again.
[b]no match for him??
since i'm no match for him in financially, maturity and life experience..
then i will ambush and assault him..
perhaps stab him in his back with a pocket knife??
his appearance cause our break-up..
it's all his fault..
he's ought to be punished..
i want his life..
i hate him to the core..
if i've a rifle and live rounds..
i would have shoot him in his f***ing head..
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Forget about her love for you. Do you want to marry a woman who is so impulsive, fickle, unloyal ?
doko -
i wouldn't say 1 month is a short period and i believe u are really hurt. the feelings u have might be more than 1 year in fact.
but what happened has happened. there is no turning point.
what u should do is .. smile and move on! she is already seeing another guy.
why not u start seeing another girl too? aniwae not exactly to follow her foodsteps but most importantly dun think of her anymore since she has decided to erase u from her mind and allows a new guy to enter just in a month and easily she can repeat this step again and again in future. WHO KNOWS?
im sure u deserved someone better than her. she may be good but u will be meet a better now. smmiles okies. -
Originally posted by lonestar86:
hey hey hey....
[b]no match for him??
since i'm no match for him in financially, maturity and life experience..
then i will ambush and assault him..
perhaps stab him in his back with a pocket knife??
his appearance cause our break-up..
it's all his fault..
he's ought to be punished..
i want his life..
i hate him to the core..
if i've a rifle and live rounds..
i would have shoot him in his f***ing head..
[/b]
don't let this guy have such power over you.
don't let him and the gal turn you into someone hateful,
don't ruin your future for them.
they are not worth it!
Live your life HAPPY, HAPPY HAPPY
ShOW them! you are better off!!!!! -
we have been 2gather for 5 months..Originally posted by SherLady:i wouldn't say 1 month is a short period and i believe u are really hurt. the feelings u have might be more than 1 year in fact.
what i'm trying to say is, it has been only less than 1 month since we broke up.. -
if i really met him on the street..Originally posted by smudgey:hey hey hey....
don't let this guy have such power over you.
don't let him and the gal turn you into someone hateful,
don't ruin your future for them.
they are not worth it!
Live your life HAPPY, HAPPY HAPPY
ShOW them! you are better off!!!!!
i dunno if i can control my temper..
i'm afraid i'll do foolish things like confronting him.. -
Tell me if it still feels the same when you get another gal.Originally posted by lonestar86:but it really hurts..
the pain is so unbearable..
/Pat pat.
Cheers -
you must learn to control your temper lor....Originally posted by lonestar86:if i really met him on the street..
i dunno if i can control my temper..
i'm afraid i'll do foolish things like confronting him..
if u feel really angry, go vent it by excercising!!! -
sama sama la..Originally posted by lonestar86:we have been 2gather for merely 5 months..
it has been a month since we've broke up..
but now she's with another guy..
i'm really hurt..
this kind of gal no need to b sad de..
Lai, FBI intro u some gals! -
i will try to control my temper..Originally posted by smudgey:you must learn to control your temper lor....
if u feel really angry, go vent it by excercising!!! -
i need time to recover..Originally posted by FBI:sama sama la..
this kind of gal no need to b sad de..
Lai, FBI intro u some gals!
perhaps aft i've fully recovered then u intro them to me ba..
thanks anyway.. -
Intro some to me alsoOriginally posted by FBI:sama sama la..
this kind of gal no need to b sad de..
Lai, FBI intro u some gals! 
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take up something like muaythaiOriginally posted by lonestar86:i will try to control my temper.. -
don fan jian laOriginally posted by Mysteria:Intro some to me also -
Originally posted by FBI:don fan jian la Why cannot
We are all fan jian people ma -
Hey....Originally posted by lonestar86:i will try to control my temper..
Take it ez ya.. Its not worth being so down coz of this..... u're still so young! Way to go man! There are still alot of fishes in the pond! Lotsa trees in the jungle! This is just a phase of life... do get over it and done with.. and move on...
Actually... IMO, no one is to be entirely blamed bah....
Maybe the age gap's one of the reasons...
It may be your frist love.. but it may not be her's....
A girl of the same age as u... 20/21, or even younger......
and some girl who's half a decade to 30 yrs old.. like you mentioned.. they have different needs and wants....
Majority of the younger gals who are still studyin... taking myself ( a few years ago) as an example........r/s was only a form of emotional support.. and companionship... I know what i'm going to do in future, but i haven't started workin on my life yet...
But for older girls... they may be already thinking of settling down.. or maybe they have different lifestyles...they're into fine dining... branded ( not talking about everlast/adidas.. but LV and stuffz..)... They have already started working.. and also planning for their future... Already half way there...
however u're still servin ur NS..and well.. i believe you will have a bright future if you work hard.. but how long can she wait? 5 more years she will be 30... and for a guy.... at the age of 25... prolly they have just graduated from varsity.. and just started work.. you need at least a few years to advance in your career and to be financially stable to settle down... So how many more years will she have to wait? Well....life isn't perfect anyway, as long as she socialises around, she'll bound to meetup with many other potential suitors which can promise her a future in the next few years? Even if it's not this 28 yr old fella... it could have been another guy later on....
I have a brother who's 4 years my junior..... we have a huge difference in frequencies.... I can really imagine that... oh well.. there are alot of cute xmms out there...why not just take a break..clear ur mind...and move on...look for new love dude! Grow up and work hard for ur future together!! Jia you! -
hahaha..... u all hor.... so cute!!! fanjian here and there!!!Originally posted by Mysteria: Why cannot
We are all fan jian people ma -
You heard of people being attahed for more than 8-10 years, within 1 year after they broke up, both parties found their own partners and got married to other people?Originally posted by lonestar86:we have been 2gather for merely 5 months..
it has been a month since we've broke up..
but now she's with another guy..
i'm really hurt..
thats life. Move on. -
yes, please do....Originally posted by lonestar86:i will try to control my temper.. -
silv3rgal, u r so rite..Originally posted by silv3rgal:Hey....
Take it ez ya.. Its not worth being so down coz of this..... u're still so young! Way to go man! There are still alot of fishes in the pond! Lotsa trees in the jungle! This is just a phase of life... do get over it and done with.. and move on...
Actually... IMO, no one is to be entirely blamed bah....
Maybe the age gap's one of the reasons...
It may be your frist love.. but it may not be her's....
A girl of the same age as u... 20/21, or even younger......
and some girl who's half a decade to 30 yrs old.. like you mentioned.. they have different needs and wants....
Majority of the younger gals who are still studyin... taking myself ( a few years ago) as an example........r/s was only a form of emotional support.. and companionship... I know what i'm going to do in future, but i haven't started workin on my life yet...
But for older girls... they may be already thinking of settling down.. or maybe they have different lifestyles...they're into fine dining... branded ( not talking about everlast/adidas.. but LV and stuffz..)... They have already started working.. and also planning for their future... Already half way there...
however u're still servin ur NS..and well.. i believe you will have a bright future if you work hard.. but how long can she wait? 5 more years she will be 30... and for a guy.... at the age of 25... prolly they have just graduated from varsity.. and just started work.. you need at least a few years to advance in your career and to be financially stable to settle down... So how many more years will she have to wait? Well....life isn't perfect anyway, as long as she socialises around, she'll bound to meetup with many other potential suitors which can promise her a future in the next few years? Even if it's not this 28 yr old fella... it could have been another guy later on....
I have a brother who's 4 years my junior..... we have a huge difference in frequencies.... I can really imagine that... oh well.. there are alot of cute xmms out there...why not just take a break..clear ur mind...and move on...look for new love dude! Grow up and work hard for ur future together!! Jia you!
what u've said really make sense..
thank you so much..
i really appreciate it..