i'm seriously hurt..
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someone ever told me this..Originally posted by blu_sky:You heard of people being attahed for more than 8-10 years, within 1 year after they broke up, both parties found their own partners and got married to other people?
thats life. Move on.
usually, the woman/man who we married, is not really the one we love most..
the one who we really love most was someone in our memories..
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maybe, probably... but isn't it better to be a lil bit more optimistic in love?Originally posted by lonestar86:someone ever told me this..
usually, the woman/man who we married, is not really the one we love most..
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jus treat the man/woman who u married as the one u really love..Originally posted by mayday80:maybe, probably... but isn't it better to be a lil bit more optimistic in love?
but deep in ur heart, u know who he/she is.. -
I don't know if I will ever find someone I can love and I don't know if I'll ever get married so I really don't know what will happen in future. Hopefully it'll be good though...
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What you have met are the wrong girls. Have hope. At most, you don't die without them. Be a monk.Originally posted by mayday80:I don't know if I will ever find someone I can love and I don't know if I'll ever get married so I really don't know what will happen in future. Hopefully it'll be good though...
Just kidding.
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hmmm....Originally posted by mayday80:I don't know if I will ever find someone I can love and I don't know if I'll ever get married so I really don't know what will happen in future. Hopefully it'll be good though...
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What you have met are the wrong guys. Have hope. At most, you don't die without them. Be a nun.Originally posted by smudgey:hmmm....
funny. this is exactly how i feel these days... Just kidding.
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hehehe wrong guys? hmmm...... rather meet just friends now. hehehe no pressure.Originally posted by dokono:What you have met are the wrong guys. Have hope. At most, you don't die without them. Be a nun. Just kidding.
doko
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if the right guy came along and made you happy again, he will be the right guy right?Originally posted by smudgey:hehehe wrong guys? hmmm...... rather meet just friends now. hehehe no pressure.
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hmmm.... maybe.... but then again.... maybe not....Originally posted by dokono:if the right guy came along and made you happy again, he will be the right guy right?
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okie..let me say abt sumtinz at here...Originally posted by mayday80:I don't know if I will ever find someone I can love and I don't know if I'll ever get married so I really don't know what will happen in future. Hopefully it'll be good though...
actually l believed when u are single..try to enrich urself with more knowledge and learn more things...and l tink u will sure find sumone that u like in future de...gals l tink like guys that noe more things and noe how to handle situations bah..so nxt time u can show ur skills to them..and who noes...gals will like u..and then...
besides when gals mature, at a certain age...l tink la..they wont be so fussy abt guys le la..wont fuss whether shuai or not and etc so much...so at that time then u start wooing them...l tink u...not u..we still stand a chance to love n marry de... -
Originally posted by dokono:still young...their minds are not stable and can still change very fast.
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Originally posted by Devil1976:
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My definition of young includes teens to uni students. Some women who are older can still be very fickle in the affairs of the heart. Have you ever noticed some girls like a guy for a while, only to lose feelings very fast? That's what I noticed. Any girl can comment on this?Originally posted by M©+square: If it's not for the 'absolute' statement . I might agree with him...
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Originally posted by lonestar86:
Keep harping on this and you will NEVER find your purpose in life. Really, whoever take this too seriously needs to do a check. Self reflection to be exact. Selfish love and desire will only hurt more than you want.
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someone ever told me this..
usually, the woman/man who we married, is not really the one we love most..
the one who we really love most was someone in our memories..
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Even if it's a non-absolute statement, I would still have find it hard to swallow....?Originally posted by M©+square: If it's not for the 'absolute' statement . I might agree with him... -
That's the case with some women at 25 as can be seen in this thread.Originally posted by Devil1976:Even if it's a non-absolute statement, I would still have find it hard to swallow....?
Now Im not trying to say every woman is like this. There are some young women I know who knows what they want and they don't go by their moods.
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dude... girls get more and more fussy as they grow older. You'll see.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:okie..let me say abt sumtinz at here...
actually l believed when u are single..try to enrich urself with more knowledge and learn more things...and l tink u will sure find sumone that u like in future de...gals l tink like guys that noe more things and noe how to handle situations bah..so nxt time u can show ur skills to them..and who noes...gals will like u..and then...
besides when gals mature, at a certain age...l tink la..they wont be so fussy abt guys le la..wont fuss whether shuai or not and etc so much...so at that time then u start wooing them...l tink u...not u..we still stand a chance to love n marry de...
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o_O, really?Originally posted by mayday80:dude... girls get more and more fussy as they grow older. You'll see.
I won't get too worried though. There's other things that are impt in life... like career, health... you'll need all to be happy in life somewhat.
Anyway ya...life is abt r/s and love...there are alot of things that are impt as well...like u say...
Well if suay suay cannot get a sg gal...l already hav the mindset go get a vietnam wife lor...last time l very against this idea de lehz...tink like not good lehz..but now...when l go tink it seriously...hmm actually nt bad oso...at least the vietnam wife wont hiam and l get to choose -
be warned! culture differences kills romance!Originally posted by xShevchenkox:o_O, really?
Anyway ya...life is abt r/s and love...there are alot of things that are impt as well...like u say...
Well if suay suay cannot get a sg gal...l already hav the mindset go get a vietnam wife lor...last time l very against this idea de lehz...tink like not good lehz..but now...when l go tink it seriously...hmm actually nt bad oso...at least the vietnam wife wont hiam and l get to choose 
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1st of all, I don't really think 25 is really that' young' an age...? At least not as to be so easily belittled..?Originally posted by dokono:That's the case with some women at 25 as can be seen in this thread.
Now Im not trying to say every woman is like this. There are some young women I know who knows what they want and they don't go by their moods.
doko Makes me wonder once again... So do tell us what age you are? I have to admit I'm sort of curious though I must tell you the result of your age probably won't make much of any difference to me...?
Even if you know some women at 25 who don't have stable mind, how can you simply conclude that the ex which broke up with TS is one of those 'some' women without any grounds at all...? Why can't she be 'some' yuong women you also happens to know who know what she want and don't go by their mood...? Or have you simply concluded that a girl who break up after a month, being attached with another bf doesn't know what she wants...? And so if she remains unattached then 
she knows what she want...? 
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actually i believe that she still love me..
it's jus that this cruel world do not allow us to be 2gather..
sad~~
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The former or the latter... What's the difference? The FACT is that she's currently with another guy... Can give yourself that extra thinking pain?Originally posted by lonestar86:actually i believe that she still love me..
it's jus that this cruel world do not allow us to be 2gather..
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have u guys fcuked? from what I know, after I fcuked my gf, she sticks to me like a glueOriginally posted by lonestar86:we have been 2gather for merely 5 months..
it has been a month since we've broke up..
but now she's with another guy..
i'm really hurt..
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can share?LOL..Did she told u want she wants?
