i might not even attend at all..Originally posted by lonestar86:i can't imagine if were at my 1st love wedding dinner..
i might go insane..
i might drink a lot..
i might get drank..
i guess..
and i will sob..
in slience..
it normal la.. i rem when i broke off with my bf last time, we also become strangers.. i delated his numbers, throw away all the stuff he gave me.. once he msn me, and we both boast bout how well our life is without each other.. very fake... he hopes that we could remain as fres but i wun even wan to see him or tok to him now..Originally posted by lonestar86:why??
meet up with her last nite..
used to be so closed..
but now, i feel that we are jus like total strangers to one another..
really that serious??Originally posted by huy:it normal la.. i rem when i broke off with my bf last time, we also become strangers.. i delated his numbers, throw away all the stuff he gave me.. once he msn me, and we both boast bout how well our life is without each other.. very fake... he hopes that we could remain as fres but i wun even wan to see him or tok to him now..
now he got a new gf. once again, i block his msn, change my number without telling him.. so from now onwards, i wun have any connections with him and i don ever wan to see him anymore..![]()
for some there's no need to be so jue....Originally posted by lonestar86:really that serious??
i dun think there's a need to be so serious..
i believe still can keep in touch..Originally posted by smudgey:for some there's no need to be so jue....
but for some.... it's their way of moving on.....
Haha...you are 21 right, from ur nick.Originally posted by lonestar86:i can't imagine if were at my 1st love wedding dinner..
i might go insane..
i might drink a lot..
i might get drank..
i guess..
and i will sob..
in slience..
it that serious.. u nv noe how hurt i am..Originally posted by lonestar86:really that serious??
i dun think there's a need to be so serious..
yea l agree....anyway l tink that love is sumtinz that is cannot be guranteed secure one...when u are touching it...u must oso be prepared to fail oso...maybe if u dun hav high expectations for the r/s, if the breakup occurs in future..u mite nt feel so bad afterallOriginally posted by universe:Haha...you are 21 right, from ur nick.
Well i can say i matured alot. A couple of more relationships might do the trick
But still love is a complicated thing..nv touch unless you are real certain that she is e one. Even then, it is still dangerous..because you don't know that whether she likes you anot.
i totally understand how u feel..Originally posted by huy:it that serious.. u nv noe how hurt i am..
I think you are right, sometimes you need to do that to really move on with your life, esp if your feelings for him was geniune. If it's just one of fling, it's no big deal, still can be friends. But if it was serious, and losing that person can be very painful. Some people are meant to be friends, others bf/gf.Originally posted by huy:it normal la.. i rem when i broke off with my bf last time, we also become strangers.. i delated his numbers, throw away all the stuff he gave me.. once he msn me, and we both boast bout how well our life is without each other.. very fake... he hopes that we could remain as fres but i wun even wan to see him or tok to him now..
now he got a new gf. once again, i block his msn, change my number without telling him.. so from now onwards, i wun have any connections with him and i don ever wan to see him anymore..![]()
my feeling for her is definitely geniune..Originally posted by leddy:I think you are right, sometimes you need to do that to really move on with your life, esp if your feelings for him was geniune. If it's just one of fling, it's no big deal, still can be friends. But if it was serious, and losing that person can be very painful. Some people are meant to be friends, others bf/gf.
Even till today, 6 yrs later, I haven't been able to get involved in a relationship with a girl again. I'm wary of committment issues, and haven't been able to find a girl I can really relate to.
take time to grieve now...Originally posted by lonestar86:we haven't contact aft our last meeting..
tt was abt 2 wks ago..
i guess she wanna forget abt me and move on..
for me..
i can move on, but i dun think i can forget abt her..
never..
i prefer to face this alone..Originally posted by smudgey:take time to grieve now...
but don't wallow...
surround yourself with your friends..... you have no idea what a relief it is to have your friends with you distracting you and helping you through this time...
call them.
not impossible, but more difficult...Originally posted by lonestar86:i prefer to face this alone..
This is one of life's biggest paradoxes IMO and in fact, it applies to more than just relationships.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:yea l agree....anyway l tink that love is sumtinz that is cannot be guranteed secure one...when u are touching it...u must oso be prepared to fail oso...maybe if u dun hav high expectations for the r/s, if the breakup occurs in future..u mite nt feel so bad afterall![]()
ya.. at least u can understand.. it like if i didn;t do such extreme, drop all connections with him, i will nv forget him.. and i cun go on life like that..that is my way of doing things. fres say i heartless. but i really have no choice cos i really nid to move on..Originally posted by leddy:I think you are right, sometimes you need to do that to really move on with your life, esp if your feelings for him was geniune. If it's just one of fling, it's no big deal, still can be friends. But if it was serious, and losing that person can be very painful. Some people are meant to be friends, others bf/gf.
Even till today, 6 yrs later, I haven't been able to get involved in a relationship with a girl again. I'm wary of committment issues, and haven't been able to find a girl I can really relate to.