Love has no reason?
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and alex makes a move on blu_sky!Originally posted by alexkusu:I hope you can come for coffee with me
so, how about it 
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sometimes.. u really cant tell what's the reason..Originally posted by ghimpheng:That what female always say ! even though i tot it was total crap
it could be simply wanting to love him/her.. -
well learnt, young padawan
Originally posted by browniebaobao:and alex makes a move on blu_sky! -
u always melt me with those words..Originally posted by the Bear:strange isn't it?
words from "friends" are more believable than the one they profess they love...
strange impossible scenarios and delusions are absolute truth to the simplicity of the love the partner gives freely...
suspicions and wild imagination are concrete compared to the tears of the partner...
alas...
we're caught in a trap
i can't walk out
because i love you too much baby
why can't you see
what you're doing to me
when you don't believe a word i say
we can't go on together
with suspicious minds
and we can't build our dreams
on suspicious minds..
Elvis sang it and we know it... so why is it we never learn from it? -
and wat's the meaning of 'padawan'?Originally posted by the Bear:well learnt, young padawan
lady?
im flattered leh, still got ple call me young lady. -
uhh... melt you?
but alas, it's a song by Elvis.. -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:u always melt me with those words..
The Bear.... Melt.... bbb!!!!! -
you are a lady and that has never been in question...
that was stolen from Star Wars.. where "padawan" meant student
i'm going to take a walk.. some fine weather and i need the exercise..
back laterOriginally posted by browniebaobao:and wat's the meaning of 'padawan'?
lady?
im flattered leh, still got ple call me young lady. -
I think I better not say too much since someone said I'm the trigger.
But since the 'deadline' u two agreed upon is not here yet.. then u might as well use this period to sort out ur feelings. And at the same time, leave things to nature lor. -
ur student?Originally posted by the Bear:you are a lady and that has never been in question...
that was stolen from Star Wars.. where "padawan" meant student
i'm going to take a walk.. some fine weather and i need the exercise..
back later
nahh... ur student's english cant be this bad. -
then i should say, Elvis's songs always melt me...Originally posted by the Bear:uhh... melt you?
but alas, it's a song by Elvis..
Can't help falling in love with you~~~ -
short walk today
some Elvis songs are wonderful...
but back to the topic...
kuri should learn to trust her guy more?
maybe i'm speaking out of turn but sometimes, you have to abandon all for love..
my philosophy has been this: if i am not willing to risk all, am i deserving or worthy of love? -
u are back fast!Originally posted by the Bear:short walk today
some Elvis songs are wonderful...
but back to the topic...
kuri should learn to trust her guy more?
maybe i'm speaking out of turn but sometimes, you have to abandon all for love..
my philosophy has been this: if i am not willing to risk all, am i deserving or worthy of love?
i think trust needs to be earned.
it's too short a period to really trust a person.
i duno.. maybe im juz being skeptical. -
earned?
i would say that you will have to trust the one you choose to love and be with..
it should not be earned but given freely...Originally posted by browniebaobao:u are back fast!
i think trust needs to be earned.
it's too short a period to really trust a person.
i duno.. maybe im juz being skeptical. -
Never rush. Women don't like to be pressured into a relationship. And Im sure you don't like too? Maybe he wants to settle down soon, that's why the rush? And please let go of your ex as soon as possible, if you want to enter a new relationship.Originally posted by kuri:to him we r actually together but we r "friends" cos it's all in my mind and he says doesn't want to pressure me. he's 27. mayb i m one of those who cant make up my mind. he says he wants to meet me today. my heart twitches to see him in pain. i'll see how it goes after meeting him ba.
If you enter into a relationship with memories of your ex still fresh, it's going to be a very painful relationship, for both of your. Fix your low self-esteem issues or insecurities then see if you are ready. If not, it's going to be a baggage.
doko -
Originally posted by kuri:
Why don't you stop torturing him, if you really care about his feelings? Let's not talk about love now. Spare a thought at least for a friend. Would you hurt a good friend's feelings? Before you open your mouth, think carefully what you are going to say.
i m not the one in pain now.my heart twitched to see [b]him in pain.he seem to b really hurt by ytd's row.[/b]
doko -
It's very difficult. Time is needed. Time is the best healer.Originally posted by blu_sky:My reply still remains. why wont juz make it simple? make things simple?
if you cant forget your ex so much that you are still in a depression, you cant enter a relationship happily. There will be too much emotional baggage. It will wear everything down.
If you really like this guy, put down the past. Put the past behind you. Stop hurting him and yourself.
doko -
wat if u love somebody who's always flirting around?Originally posted by the Bear:earned?
i would say that you will have to trust the one you choose to love and be with..
it should not be earned but given freely... -
don't understandOriginally posted by browniebaobao:sometimes.. u really cant tell what's the reason..
it could be simply wanting to love him/her..
if the person was ugly short fat but with very good character and honest i doubt anyone will love him
pple think they fall in love without reason or the reason is stupid that why they start using love have no reason to cover up their own reason -
have u ever loved before?Originally posted by ghimpheng:don't understand -
Hmmm.... with me.... trust is a given (to a certain extend) untill you do something to show you unworthy of the trustOriginally posted by the Bear:earned?
i would say that you will have to trust the one you choose to love and be with..
it should not be earned but given freely... -
so did you apologise?Originally posted by blu_sky:I got this from a sms when i treated that guy really harshly (which subsequently i regret cos he is still around and he is really nice). now i send these words to you.
Be gentle, be nice.
doko -
haha i do i think i fall in love i willing to do anything for e galOriginally posted by browniebaobao:have u ever loved before?
but i think about it maybe it was the girl beauty and good character attracted me afterall
it is not without reason/s -
trust.... I also like to flirt....Originally posted by browniebaobao:wat if u love somebody who's always flirting around? -
I so disagree...Originally posted by ghimpheng:don't understand
if the person was ugly short fat but with very good character and honest i doubt anyone will love him
pple think they fall in love without reason or the reason is stupid that why they start using love have no reason to cover up their own reason
if one's love is base on only looks, then it won't last... cos no one's looks can last
If one's love is base on character.... then it can last.