Love has no reason?
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he say he loves u
u ask why
u dun believe his answer.
because u expected another answer.
sibeh cock leh.
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oei be gentle to a girl leh..Originally posted by kopiosatu:he say he loves u
u ask why
u dun believe his answer.
because u expected another answer.
sibeh cock leh. -
i can't counsel people with TLCOriginally posted by browniebaobao:oei be gentle to a girl leh..
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He's pretty much right.Originally posted by browniebaobao:oei be gentle to a girl leh.. -
hmmm... Kuri...
I think he is really not ready...
I have advice all i think is necessary...
the choice is ultimately up to you...
PM me if you need to talk, or just want someone to listen -
not sincere....where got people purpose thru sms sia,,,,
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U try the other ans see how she react lo...Originally posted by kopiosatu:he say he loves u
u ask why
u dun believe his answer.
because u expected another answer.
sibeh cock leh. 
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Something to learn - There is a trigger point. Anyone knows what is it?
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duiz..Originally posted by kopiosatu:i can't counsel people with TLC -
'propose' not 'purpose'.Originally posted by nuttawood1990:not sincere....where got people purpose thru sms sia,,,, -
u mean me ma?Originally posted by M©+square:Something to learn - There is a trigger point. Anyone knows what is it? -
Croco in disguise.Originally posted by browniebaobao:i ever got one suitor also like that..
not even together already call me 'wifey, darling'..
and no, i dun mean croco.
he even wanted to bring me to ROM when we were out one day..
i tell u lor, i got very shocked and mad at him..
and i ditched him.
Cheers -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:Croco in disguise.
Cheers
nah.. i dun think croco is like that la..
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I think he is just trying to use you as a way for him to forget his ex...and scared that you might feel uncertain so trying to tie you down as soon as possible so that there is no possibility of losing you...in his mind he is trying to prevent what happened to him last time (cheated by his ex, his ex leaving him) from happening again...Originally posted by kuri:ytd past midnight he suddenly smsed me
"will u marry me?"
i was like
i tried to brush him off nicely this morning he smsed me again "marry me?"
it was just tuesday afternoon when he told me he realised things were going too fast n we need to slow it down i was surprised but happy that he finally saw that. yet wednesday he asked for we could get couple rings? when i didnt reply him he said nvm n now just after two days without meeting him n he asked me to marry him?? tho he always says he's very clear what he's doing he's mature enough at his age to hav thought things through yet all this strange acts recently made me wonder does he know what he's doing consciously?
smudgey thanks for ur useful insights did try to get him to talk bout some of the issues u mentioned but when i tried to start again ytd he said i just want him to leave me rite? he insists that if i talk bout such things again means i m trying to drive him away. i dunno how i can get him to face the issues nicely and how to sum up all these mess we've to deal with now so he can understand.
This is not a healthy way to start a r/s...I suggest you stay away from him and evaluate the options you have. -
i say, ask him when he wanna get married.Originally posted by kuri:ytd past midnight he suddenly smsed me
"will u marry me?"
i was like
i tried to brush him off nicely this morning he smsed me again "marry me?"
it was just tuesday afternoon when he told me he realised things were going too fast n we need to slow it down i was surprised but happy that he finally saw that. yet wednesday he asked for we could get couple rings? when i didnt reply him he said nvm n now just after two days without meeting him n he asked me to marry him?? tho he always says he's very clear what he's doing he's mature enough at his age to hav thought things through yet all this strange acts recently made me wonder does he know what he's doing consciously?
i have a friend whose suitor who is so seriously going after her, with patience and everything, wanting to bring her and her family for holiday and etc, sounded serious rite? also said wanted to proposed to her, but in the end? of cos he didnt propose lah
Girls, dont just take others' words so easily. Those are just words. Before he actually does it, it is just words. could be seriously said in the spur of moment or could be said with motive, who knows. i always believe, action speaks louder than words.
kuri, and he proposed via sms. either at that point he is feeling terribly insecured or desperate. i dunno. either way, doesnt sound too good. im sorry. -
he wants sex
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some guys say that to bed gals. for me? i dunno, maybe, maybe not.Originally posted by OO_OO_OO:he wants sex -
+1Originally posted by rainee:I think he is just trying to use you as a way for him to forget his ex...and scared that you might feel uncertain so trying to tie you down as soon as possible so that there is no possibility of losing you...in his mind he is trying to prevent what happened to him last time (cheated by his ex, his ex leaving him) from happening again...
This is not a healthy way to start a r/s...I suggest you stay away from him and evaluate the options you have.
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ya, char bor think too much.Originally posted by M©+square:Something to learn - There is a trigger point. Anyone knows what is it? -
this afternoon he called me n said the smses were never meant to be taken seriously tho he wants me to b his wife but he knows it can't be now. HA. HA. HA. i told him not funny don't try this again. not funny.
today he went drinking with his friends and he reported to me via sms n phone call i told him it's okie just relax,enjoy himself take care n text me when he has gotten home safely. to me that's concern already i m not just a fan of tracking other ppl's movements even if that person is my bf. moreover, we r not really in a relationship yet so i think it's even more so we shd hav our personal freedom and space.
i've been rather encouraging bout him spending time with his frds or other ppl i even said i had no qualms bout him going out with girls too when he said he would to spike me. he often saw that as he didnt matter to me n that caused part of the tension in the last tiff. i told him i m just not the sort who's paranoid bout my guy going out with the opposite sex unless he tells me he's doing smt outrageous. given my nature, i won't restraint his movements generally n i cant b restrainted much as well. funny how he looks more like the insecure one now. or should i say funny for a very insecure girl why i dun seek physical possession of the person i want to be with.
think i hav just learnt that it's emotional support n security which really matters to me. should figure out a way to communicate bout it to him n hav him understand my viewpoints instead of feeling hurt..hmmm.. -
I dun tink u Like him lo... Poor guy
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ytd when i asked him if he had a good time with his buddies after he came home he said he alr told me no wat n said i m feeling better after the revenge is it. wat revenge...he thinks going out with his buddies is revenge for me having a chit chat session with a guy frd at mac's a few days ago?-_-"
another issue i wish to ask for some opinions is that he has this strange theory he claims after reading books that if a guy can make a girl feel aroused she will want to stick with him. it seems to me that as we go on he desires more physical intimacy saying things like "i want to make out with u but i know it's hard lol" and he's a staunch believer that he wont touch any other girl but the one who he loves so he says he wont have this desire to get intimate with other girls even if they throw themselves at him. this is part of the underlying tension we hav in our "relationship" cos i keep holding back on it and he keeps wanting more cos he thinks he loves me only that's why he wants me and that if i hav greater physical intimacy with him he'd b able to keep me but i m not sure if that's greater lust than love. my guess he'd b mad if i said it may b lust cos he firmly believe it's love. -
Juz let him go... this is straining for both of u...
I tink I'll die not having sex -
they know each other less than 1 month nia leh?Originally posted by sunny6110:Juz let him go... this is straining for both of u...
I tink I'll die not having sex
u will die without like that? -
ooOO... I wasn't following the whole thread... coz it's too long...Originally posted by blu_sky:they know each other less than 1 month nia leh?
u will die without like that?
Telling a guy no sex is like a Guy telling a Girl He has got $0 in his acct when they go dating...
But 1 month only... He has choosen the wrong girl or he has no skills... Either one.. He is at Fault~!