i broke off with my bf of 6 yrs n i am very very sad now.
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i still love him so much ...
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why break off?
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Why Why Why???
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He betray u izzit ? Tell me...I send my brothers to hoot him
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Yeah, I get Spiderman and Batman to join in too !Originally posted by greengoblin:He betray u izzit ? Tell me...I send my brothers to hoot him 
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love dont last forever leh....
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well, he started giving me attitudes, then being cold to me ...
then one day we quarel then he say he wants to break off. then i cry n ask him not to ... then he say ok we carry on. but give each other more space.. then 1 day i saw a sms fr a gal to him, i ask him. he dun answer.. then say he n him nothing one... then say want to break off, coz that time when he said wanna break off, he mean it ..and he wants to concentrate on his career.
I feel really really sad, coz i love him so much n he is the one i wanna marry.
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Tamade
...this kind of guy ought to hoot and castrate...neber mind I get all my brothers ready to K him.
But u think lar...at least u all neber marry yet....if he lidat during marriage...or even when both of u have kids then u ho sei liaoz...So take heart lah...things not so bad. As the saying goes...why sacrifice a forest for a rotten tree ? There are many guys out there whom u deserve -
must be he want to go for another gal. confirm.
concentrate on his career, how old is he? how he want to concentrate on his career? talk cock. -
man! the word jerk can be use to label them.. once change of heart..they can twist their words..Guess they can never understand wat commitment means..
hope that u can be strong.. there are other trees out there...dun dispair becoz of him..good luck! -
True love only happens in areas where there is 1 girl, 1 boy and alot of trees and wild pigs.
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Hi nanako,
After 6 years of relationship comes to an end, you must be feeling terrible. It's really sad and disappointing to know that your partner did this to you.
There's no point of re-capturing his heart again since he left you. Nor don't ever give him a chance if he wishes to come back to you, if he realise that you are still the better one. You ain't a hotel. Protect your rights, and certainly at this point of time, he doesnt deserve your love and attention anymore.
At this stage, you have to pull yourself through this difficult time. Time will eventually heals, but depending on how you handle the situation. Do not despair, do not give up faith in love. True love is always out there waiting to land gently on your shoulder.
Remember, one bad egg doesn't mean the whole basket is rotten. If he doesn't cherish you, somebody out there will. And do not rush into a relationship quickly in order to forget the past! Take your time, re-organize yourself, mingle with your good friends. Face life openly, don't trap youself in the shadows of this failed relationship, this is very crucial.
You have my blessings. Cheers.
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hmm...........
sometime it like dat 1 lah.if it your,it your.
me also got tis type of problem b4.
but no choice,got to let go.
it take time to let go,but time heal all
dun do anything stupid,or u will regret in future
when u think wat u have done to change y'rself during tis period in future,u will find it very funny or stupid.
so 4get about him,get a life......... -
He does not deserve your love after all !Originally posted by nanako:i still love him so much ...
Move on and treat it as another chapter of your life.
It's not easy to forget that relationship, but given time, I'm sure you'll learn to let go, and move on.
It's always easier said than done, but this is a passage you'll have to pass and will probably make you more streetwise and immuned to such hurt in future.
Maybe all this is a blessing in disguise, as your true knight in shining armour will come to you one day when you least expect it !
There's a saying you'll never know when, how or why.
Good luck, and I wish you all the best for your future.
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i totally undersatnd wat u guys r saying, but i really love him.. i still got contact him n tell him i will always b a good fren to him. he say he still love me but now he can't commit. . ..
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hes jus a piece of sh|t!!!
why bother?
theres always betta guys on the pasture... move on.. jus move on..
aniwae said is easier to be done!!!
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[color=red][/color} i know the only thing i can do is move on, but memories follow me everywhere i go .... wherever i go i see the happy times i had with him....
i miss him a lot ...
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Okay lah...first I ask for forgiveness for the blunt language I will be using 'cause I dunno how to express it in other ways....dun cheapen urself lidat. You know you only boosted the #@#$$^%^ jerks ego by doing this? Come on...words are easy to say but actions hard to put in practise...I also can say I love you and all the bullshit...but what is most impt...does this creep deserve all the devotion you are giving him? Let him crawl back to you....why must you still submit to his wimps and fancies by calling him and such. A jerk who cannot commit no matter what is still an ass hole. And paradox in his statement...if he cannot commit to you, why can he commit to another girl and love you at the same time? Think about it....Originally posted by nanako:i totally undersatnd wat u guys r saying, but i really love him.. i still got contact him n tell him i will always b a good fren to him. he say he still love me but now he can't commit. . ..
we r both 23
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Early relationship normally won't end/last long. If he really don't want to or don't love you anymore, there is nothing much that you can do. You still have to forget him (the hard way)
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Nanko,
6 years is a long time. Alot of emotion has been invested into the relationship. You don't want to let go. That is very natural.
But let go you must.
You will never forget him, and in some ways, you will never stop loving him. I am a guy, so I guess I can approach such a situation alot more logically.
Its gonna hurt more in days to come. When holidays or birthdays, or special anniversaries.. Acknowledge that. Don't bluff yourself.
Get involved in life. Go out. If you like pubbing. Go. If you like travelling. Go. What YOU like to do, things that were not possible when you were together.
And one day, the hurt won't feel so painful. And you stop crying, and the day seems just that little bit brighter. You will then know you're on your way..
Love is like a butterfly, chase it and it flies away. Stay still and it may just land on your shoulder..
And I echo the sentiments of some the forumers here. Don't let him into your life again. He WILL just hurt you again. Learn from your experiences but don't become hard. Love exists. You WILL find it.
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[color=darkred] Just try your best to forget him, although it's very difficult, try to occupy yourself with work, studies or leisure, by keeping busy, you won't have time to think of him, time heal all wounds.Originally posted by nanako:[/color} i know the only thing i can do is move on, but memories follow me everywhere i go .... wherever i go i see the happy times i had with him....
i miss him a lot ...
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On reservist now, talk to you again when I'm back next week....Originally posted by nanako:[color=red][/color} i know the only thing i can do is move on, but memories follow me everywhere i go .... wherever i go i see the happy times i had with him....
i miss him a lot ...
i love him so much. .. [/quote] -
23yo only, u both are still very young..there's still otsa opportunities out there to search for better partners..
hope u can find a better one.... -
daddy how old ah?Originally posted by Inzaghi:23yo only, u both are still very young..there's still otsa opportunities out there to search for better partners..
hope u can find a better one....
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If that's the way he wants it, why don't you just break up with him? Just remind as friends after that...? Since he's the one who mentioned about the breakup (for some reason), you could just wait to see does his action matches his words after the breakup...? Then perhaps you would know his TRUE INTENTION...? Well... IN A SENSE...?Originally posted by nanako:well, he started giving me attitudes, then being cold to me ...
then one day we quarel then he say he wants to break off. then i cry n ask him not to ... then he say ok we carry on. but give each other more space.. then 1 day i saw a sms fr a gal to him, i ask him. he dun answer.. then say he n him nothing one... then say want to break off, coz that time when he said wanna break off, he mean it ..and he wants to concentrate on his career.
I feel really really sad, coz i love him so much n he is the one i wanna marry.