Am i..really foolish?
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I face my ex in office everyday and i am getting myself mentally prepared she may find someone else soon.
I try to focus on the negative aspects of her to stop myself from liking her again. Remind urself that it wasn't great when u were together anyway.
Dunno y u broke up with ur gf but if she didn't treat u with sincerity during the time u were together then no point dwelling over her.
If not her fault and u broke up over other reasons, then just have to let time heal things....haiz. -
everytime you think about her, juz brush that thought aside keep yourself busy. dun harp on the thoughts of you.Originally posted by morningbell:I face my ex in office everyday and i am getting myself mentally prepared she may find someone else soon.
I try to focus on the negative aspects of her to stop myself from liking her again. Remind urself that it wasn't great when u were together anyway.
Dunno y u broke up with ur gf but if she didn't treat u with sincerity during the time u were together then no point dwelling over her.
If not her fault and u broke up over other reasons, then just have to let time heal things....haiz. -
Thats what i do everyday. Avoid being alone and being idle in office.Originally posted by blu_sky:everytime you think about her, juz brush that thought aside keep yourself busy. dun harp on the thoughts of you.
Can't imagine what it is like to see her intimate with someone else next time. Hope i can handle it when the time comes.
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its only half a yr..chill out dude, some have suffered worse..years..trust me
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seems like we r on the same boat..
i thought i've got over with it..
i thought i've recovered..
i thought i'm fine..
but i'm wrong..
last nite i dream abt her..
in my dream..
she told me she wanna forget abt everything abt us..
she wanna forget abt me..
when i woke up..
i was sobbing..
sliently in the dark..
i wonder what will my reaction be if i see her on the street..
with another guy by her side.. -
hmmm.... lonestar, TS,Originally posted by lonestar86:seems like we r on the same boat..
i thought i've got over with it..
i thought i've recovered..
i thought i'm fine..
but i'm wrong..
last nite i dream abt her..
in my dream..
she told me she wanna forget abt everything abt us..
she wanna forget abt me..
when i woke up..
i was sobbing..
sliently in the dark..
i wonder what will my reaction be if i see her on the street..
with another guy by her side..
give yourself time to grieve...
matters of the heart have no expiry dates.... we can't set a time frame of 1yr 2yrs or even 5yrs and say we are to feel nothing for our ex by this time...
when a relationship dies, we have to grieve, to mourn for it's death.... only after you have grieved, and accepted it as the reality, mourned, then you can start on the road of recovery....
for some it takes a few months, for some it takes years...
point is if you keep moving forward, you'll get there in time...
Gam Ba Dei!! -
i dream abt her again..
in my dream, we r blissfully 2gather, jus like b4..
when i woke up..
tears rolled down..
i was sobbing..
i'm holding on to a dream that will never come true..