hard to say, either he is, or he forget, or he is lazy to explain.Originally posted by veronicatan:i smsed him ytday afternoon, asking him if he think he is beginning to take me for granted. called me 1/2 hour later but i was attending to a customer, couldnt talk. called him 2 hours later during my dinner break but he was in a work thing. he didnt call me last night.
this morning, saw him in msn. chatted for a while, but he didnt mention about the sms at all. is he really taking me for granted?
3 monthsOriginally posted by bigmouthjoe:How long you 2 together?
any opinion to contribute for this thread?Originally posted by sunny6110:are u the distracted girl b4??![]()
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Oh.. ok...Originally posted by veronicatan:any opinion to contribute for this thread?![]()
i know that is unhealthy or harmful for a relationship. but looking that the facts, he is always not free to sms/return call and when i asked that qn, he doesnt reply, is that a sign of taking for granted. i know people in relationship should be understanding tat partner are busy and etc, but isnt relationship also about making time for each other? as it is, we only talk when we have the time. for the past 8 days, we only talked 3 times in msn cos we 'run' into each other coincidentally. the fact is, i have been waiting in front of the laptop for him to go online. yes, btw, he is posted overseas to work for 3 mths, 1 mth has passed. he is now overseas. and there is no difference in timezoneOriginally posted by the Bear:you know what will kill a relationship very quickly?
a suspicious mind...
think about it..
Originally posted by ptw:I think it will do both of you good if both of ya can communicate, know what is the factor to to reinforce a strong bond between each other. Merely 3 months of r/s and such prob surfaces, wat will happen if this r/s isnt properly managed and wat will the result be?...
yes, maybe i will do it later. he is going to play football in the afternoon. guess i can only talk to him later? but later i think he will be busy with work.Originally posted by ptw:I think it will do both of you good if both of ya can communicate, know what is the factor to to reinforce a strong bond between each other. Merely 3 months of r/s and such prob surfaces, wat will happen if this r/s isnt properly managed and wat will the result be?...
Dont talk to him now and wait for him to come back? but how is it goin to be like? for eg this morning. i ran into him in msn. chatted about 20 min. the he said he gotta go out for a while, chat with me later. That was 11:25am, now 1 pm. i dun think he is coming back.Originally posted by sunny6110:Ohh... long dist relationship now ar??![]()
dun ask him that question again har... dun do anything now lo... wait for him to come back then c how... too early to judge... too far oso,..![]()
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no, i dun expect him to reply immediately. but he doesnt reply at all. like last nite, i called him at 9pm and he said he is doing some work thing. we hung up. he din call me last nite nor this morning.Originally posted by the Bear:he's not overseas for vacation, he cannot be at your beck and call.. work must be done..
and hey.. if you were not able to reply to him immediately because of your work, don't expect him to do exactly the same thing for you...
i think you need to think about what you want in a relationship.. seems like you want everything for you, and he must jump through hoops..
I'll disregard and do my own stuffs lo... today sunday leh... nice weather... CNY coming... wanna go shopping??Originally posted by veronicatan:Dont talk to him now and wait for him to come back? but how is it goin to be like? for eg this morning. i ran into him in msn. chatted about 20 min. the he said he gotta go out for a while, chat with me later. That was 11:25am, now 1 pm. i dun think he is coming back.
how would you feel if you were me?
but in our first 3 mths, he will call me everyday for hours (yes, i oso the type who dun like to talk on the phone) even when he was overseas. (he has to go overseas 1 or 2 weeks every mth.Originally posted by missqi:in my relationships...
fone conversation is rare....
why u so bothered about the lack of it?
3 mths le...
honeymoon period over alr....
then u shld start getting used to it.
you jio-ing me ah?Originally posted by sunny6110:I'll disregard and do my own stuffs lo... today sunday leh... nice weather... CNY coming... wanna go shopping??![]()
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ya la~!! so obvious u cannot see ar??Originally posted by veronicatan:you jio-ing me ah?
Not everywhere so high tech lah. You try that in a remote part of south africa loh... I'm sure even your hand phone also kum lan one.Originally posted by Icemoon:phone conversation very expensive?
skype and google talk kum lan one?
how do you derive at that conclusion, may i know?Originally posted by bigmouthjoe:Yeah I think really taking you for granted...