Wats wrong with me??
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i feel like i'm becoming quite sexist over girls and dunno y i feel that relationship are a waste of time and effort.. kind of like baring some hatred on girls.
am i becoming adnormal? -
I think its your experiences in the past that makes you have that mindset. Care to tell more?
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Not exactly abnormal yet I think? But harbouring that kinda mindset is definitely not quite a healthy thing...Originally posted by nerfz:i feel like i'm becoming quite sexist over girls and dunno y i feel that relationship are a waste of time and effort.. kind of like baring some hatred on girls. am i becoming adnormal? -
its natural... seeing how they are using n abusing the guys. N becoming like community soup disgusts u.. i know... come. There is nothing to be ashamed of being a sexist... let all the hate flow out of u like the sweet nectar in the morning..
but in the end of the day.. u KNOW u still need a woman.
so all that talk now is like ur raging teenage hormones.. and when u are 60.. ur hormones not so raging anymore liaw. -
head for brokeback mountain...and seek your answers...
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he cant go alone la..Originally posted by mistyblue:head for brokeback mountain...and seek your answers...
he needs to take a good friend or a stranger n live in the moutains for a while... like a few months... magic will happen. N ur eyes will be opened to the wonders of life itself..
new pleasures discovered... a new love found.. -
I feel like this after some series of heartbreak. Is there anyway i can help myself?Originally posted by Bontakun:I think its your experiences in the past that makes you have that mindset. Care to tell more? -
i dun like to see negative attitude..Originally posted by nerfz:I feel like this after some series of heartbreak. Is there anyway i can help myself?
n u are projecting that negativity right at me...
U are not the only one that suffers a series of heartbreak. May nto be the same.. but still relatively close. -
Tell us what are some of the things you love doing or love to try doing? Like drawing, collection, soccer, travelling?Originally posted by nerfz:I feel like this after some series of heartbreak. Is there anyway i can help myself? -
u're becoming gay
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Erm wat do u mean? U mean my goals? it would probably be able to form my own family and have a meaningful career ba..Originally posted by Bontakun:Tell us what are some of the things you love doing or love to try doing? Like drawing, collection, soccer, travelling?
as for pastime and hobbies, gaming and cycling.
I'm not gay just that i don't feel confidence about r/s. -
Ok. Meaningful career. You wanna climb up the corporate ladder? Form your own business? Or smth else?Originally posted by nerfz:Erm wat do u mean? U mean my goals? it would probably be able to form my own family and have a meaningful career ba..
as for pastime and hobbies, gaming and cycling.
I'm not gay just that i don't feel confidence about r/s.
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i'm under attachment now. Nope meaningful career would be something that can help others and most importantly i can enjoy it.Originally posted by Bontakun:Ok. Meaningful career. You wanna climb up the corporate ladder? Form your own business? Or smth else?
You studying now or working? -
In what way you want to help other people and enjoy as well? SOcial work? Sales? Financial counsellor? Teacher? Minister?Originally posted by nerfz:i'm under attachment now. Nope meaningful career would be something that can help others and most importantly i can enjoy it. -
i have considered the police force but im not a phsyically fit kind of person im more into brainy stuffs so i im still very confuse about this issue .Originally posted by Bontakun:In what way you want to help other people and enjoy as well? SOcial work? Sales? Financial counsellor? Teacher? Minister? -
Maybe you wanna go into sociology? or Psychology? Perhaps social work? Its to train you to help deal with different issues in families, peers, teens, violence, etc, etc.Originally posted by nerfz:i have considered the police force but im not a phsyically fit kind of person im more into brainy stuffs so i im still very confuse about this issue .
Take a plan. Say for now you are in poly. Maybe you wanna go for a Uni degree in a course that you think can be used to help people? Then after dat go into the field, and say you perform pretty well, can go further studies? Get Masters in same field? Then after dat can teach people oso. -
yeah i should seriously start thinking about this already : ) thanksOriginally posted by Bontakun:Maybe you wanna go into sociology? or Psychology? Perhaps social work? Its to train you to help deal with different issues in families, peers, teens, violence, etc, etc.
Take a plan. Say for now you are in poly. Maybe you wanna go for a Uni degree in a course that you think can be used to help people? Then after dat go into the field, and say you perform pretty well, can go further studies? Get Masters in same field? Then after dat can teach people oso. -
Hah. Ok, so you like gaming and cycling eh? Maybe you can find some kakis to play with you? Dota, CS, a few online games... Cycling at nite. during weekends. Many things for you to do and get occupied with.Originally posted by nerfz:yeah i should seriously start thinking about this already : ) thanks -
hmmm....
focus on your work/sch for now,
Don't dwell on those negative feelings you have.... if you have just ended a relationship then it's natural to feel this way...
give yourself a time-out from bgr.... in the mean time, learn to love yourself and focus on your work and sch.... -
There's always schizoid personality disorder.
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hmm.. me too.. i being quite sexist over guys too.. don noe why.. jus hate them to the core.. becos of that, i stop contacting my guys fres and sch mates and whenever some guys tag along during gathering or watever, i jus refused to go and refuse to engage conversation with them..and this include my male colleagues as well. i don tk i am being adnormall. jus that diff pple have diff likings.. maybe i don feel comfortable with guys around.. btw, i not a lesbian..Originally posted by nerfz:i feel like i'm becoming quite sexist over girls and dunno y i feel that relationship are a waste of time and effort.. kind of like baring some hatred on girls. am i becoming adnormal? -
That is what you will call, jaded.Originally posted by nerfz:i feel like i'm becoming quite sexist over girls and dunno y i feel that relationship are a waste of time and effort.. kind of like baring some hatred on girls. am i becoming adnormal? -
So you are ok with it? Then nothing affecting you on some way or another right?Originally posted by huy:hmm.. me too.. i being quite sexist over guys too.. don noe why.. jus hate them to the core.. becos of that, i stop contacting my guys fres and sch mates and whenever some guys tag along during gathering or watever, i jus refused to go and refuse to engage conversation with them..and this include my male colleagues as well. i don tk i am being adnormall. jus that diff pple have diff likings.. maybe i don feel comfortable with guys around.. btw, i not a lesbian.. -
Originally posted by BadzMaro:he cant go alone la..
he needs to take a good friend or a stranger n live in the moutains for a while... like a few months... magic will happen. N ur eyes will be opened to the wonders of life itself..
new pleasures discovered... a new love found.. -
no you are not abnormal not adnormalOriginally posted by nerfz:i feel like i'm becoming quite sexist over girls and dunno y i feel that relationship are a waste of time and effort.. kind of like baring some hatred on girls. am i becoming adnormal?
you proparbly got hurt by them a few times that why
as long as you are handsome and tall u will get gals surrounding you like bugs