Wats wrong with me??
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I also felt abit sian or BGR not like last time when i am in poly,alway go out with friends to know more girls,nothing wrong with u lah.
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well, i jus don feel like talking with guys now..and i jus not interested in having a relationship.. jus don feel comfortable with guys around me.. maybe i have a mindset that all guys are jerks based on my past experiences that y i am more reserved to myself..Originally posted by Bontakun:So you are ok with it? Then nothing affecting you on some way or another right? -
That is understandable. So you enjoy your time with the ladies?Originally posted by huy:well, i jus don feel like talking with guys now..and i jus not interested in having a relationship.. jus don feel comfortable with guys around me.. maybe i have a mindset that all guys are jerks based on my past experiences that y i am more reserved to myself.. -
you were hurt by guys or gals?Originally posted by huy:well, i jus don feel like talking with guys now..and i jus not interested in having a relationship.. jus don feel comfortable with guys around me.. maybe i have a mindset that all guys are jerks based on my past experiences that y i am more reserved to myself.. -
u got pic?
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guys la.. that y i hate guys ma..Originally posted by blu_sky:you were hurt by guys or gals? -
yea.. i enjoyed my time with my female fres.. and i will go off if some guys turn up during some sisters' gathering.. but i am not a lesbian.. jus feel comfortable to be with the ladies only.. there is nothing wrong with me right?Originally posted by Bontakun:That is understandable. So you enjoy your time with the ladies? -
not really....Originally posted by huy:yea.. i enjoyed my time with my female fres.. and i will go off if some guys turn up during some sisters' gathering.. but i am not a lesbian.. jus feel comfortable to be with the ladies only.. there is nothing wrong with me right?
give yourself some time la....
but then again, some of my gal friends just feel more comfy with gals.... than with guys... -
In general, nothing wrong. Just that I not sure what others will see as to how you react to the presence of guys, but that is not the main issue. The main issue is: at some day some point you will have to face guys. You can't avoid guys forever. It is not helping you in anyway more than it is now.Originally posted by huy:yea.. i enjoyed my time with my female fres.. and i will go off if some guys turn up during some sisters' gathering.. but i am not a lesbian.. jus feel comfortable to be with the ladies only.. there is nothing wrong with me right?
Yes there is no reason for you to be in contact with the guys, but it seems almost like a "fear" to you. Some time in the future you have to confront that "fear". -
I feel more comfy with my stuff toys than with some people, regardless guys or gals.Originally posted by smudgey:not really....
give yourself some time la....
but then again, some of my gal friends just feel more comfy with gals.... than with guys...
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yea.. some of my ger fres also feel very uncomfortable with guys around.. so i don tik there is any problem with us.. we jus don like and that it..Originally posted by smudgey:not really....
give yourself some time la....
but then again, some of my gal friends just feel more comfy with gals.... than with guys... -
i know. that y my male colleagues always tik that i am very "cold".. but seriously, i jus cun make my self to engage a conversation with them.. seeing them will make me remind of those jerks.. guess i already have a mindset that guys are bad.. it not that i am frighten of them but i jus don like them at all.. i noe i have to over come that but i tik it really takes time..Originally posted by Bontakun:In general, nothing wrong. Just that I not sure what others will see as to how you react to the presence of guys, but that is not the main issue. The main issue is: at some day some point you will have to face guys. You can't avoid guys forever. It is not helping you in anyway more than it is now.
Yes there is no reason for you to be in contact with the guys, but it seems almost like a "fear" to you. Some time in the future you have to confront that "fear". -
Take your time. It cannot be forced. Unless you really have serious difficulty in even the slightest contact with guys, might I suggest you consult a counsellor to help you more?Originally posted by huy:i know. that y my male colleagues always tik that i am very "cold".. but seriously, i jus cun make my self to engage a conversation with them.. seeing them will make me remind of those jerks.. guess i already have a mindset that guys are bad.. it not that i am frighten of them but i jus don like them at all.. i noe i have to over come that but i tik it really takes time.. -
it not a difficulty.. more to say i don feel like..i don belive in counsellor cos i consulted one before.. but end up i am the one who help myself up..Originally posted by Bontakun:Take your time. It cannot be forced. Unless you really have serious difficulty in even the slightest contact with guys, might I suggest you consult a counsellor to help you more? -
well cuz stuff toys will nver leave u rite...once they are with u..means they are with u le..and summore they are things with no feelings afterall, no motives, no intentions...Originally posted by Bontakun:I feel more comfy with my stuff toys than with some people, regardless guys or gals. 
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Counsellors are not helping you to solve problems simply like that. They are to guide you how to solve the issues. They are to show you how to discover your problem lying deep within your question. To let you understand the issue at hand.Originally posted by huy:it not a difficulty.. more to say i don feel like..i don belive in counsellor cos i consulted one before.. but end up i am the one who help myself up.. -
Eh... hahaha. Very similar to what I wanna sae: the stuff toys are cute.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:well cuz stuff toys will nver leave u rite...once they are with u..means they are with u le..and summore they are things with no feelings afterall, no motives, no intentions... 
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ya lo..and they are cute osoOriginally posted by Bontakun:Eh... hahaha. Very similar to what I wanna sae: the stuff toys are cute.