How to strike up a conversation?
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It is enough for me
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anyway, u dun wan to go look her up meh?
maybe the dream is a sign leh.
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Nah, Don't have excuse to go neither. Go also no reason to talk to her.Originally posted by ChoCoChips:anyway, u dun wan to go look her up meh?
maybe the dream is a sign leh. -
ha, u only saw her in your dreams, which means she has resigned? Wow u still thinking about her, so chi qing?Originally posted by Agenda:I saw her in my dreams
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i thought i forgot about her.. i tried to forget about it.. but then it just happened, she appeared in my dreams.. the moment we looked at each other at the same time..Originally posted by rane:ha, u only saw her in your dreams, which means she has resigned? Wow u still thinking about her, so chi qing?
i really regret
but at least i saw her again
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aiyo, what should I say to encourage you, I am lost in words. OK guy, move on!Originally posted by Agenda:i thought i forgot about her.. i tried to forget about it.. but then it just happened, she appeared in my dreams.. the moment we looked at each other at the same time..
i really regret
but at least i saw her again
Just one question from myself - if a guy keeps wanting to see a gal and finally their eyes met but gal did not look at the guy in a friendly way but the guy seems very happy that the gal looked at him. Thereafter he keeps looking out to see the gal again (though he always does but after that day he has around for 5 days around the gal's house to want to see her again). As a guy, could you let me know why. -
u say eh ur skirt/ pant got 1 hole den she surely look den u carry on lor own time own target. she do wat to u next i dunnoOriginally posted by Agenda:Me now working at taka.. Very slack 1
My sales supervisor all heck care what you do except don't go aboard..
Then I notice got this kinda cute girl near my counter, She's not near as next door counter or what, It's like have to go through the "road" to reach
Not that I'm interested in her or what, Maybe just abit.. But just wanna know her as a friend ba..
If you work at dept store before, You will know where a Road is.. Like those main walkways where customers walk to get out of the store etc.. ya?
Because of the road, The counter is quite far then thats why no reason to go talk lor..
My colleague tell me to just go there fiddle with the stuff she is selling then try to say hi or strike up a conversation.. But I very scared leh..
Firstly, I scared people say I anyhow xian charbo or what
Secondly, I am not confident of myself.. Like her counter area got so many shuai guys though they never really talk to her...
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day got think wan,
night got dream also -
if i get what you are saying.Originally posted by rane:aiyo, what should I say to encourage you, I am lost in words. OK guy, move on!
Just one question from myself - if a guy keeps wanting to see a gal and finally their eyes met but gal did not look at the guy in a friendly way but the guy seems very happy that the gal looked at him. Thereafter he keeps looking out to see the gal again (though he always does but after that day he has around for 5 days around the gal's house to want to see her again). As a guy, could you let me know why.
its because the guy wants the girl to know he is looking at her and to let her know he is interested in her but don't dare to say out face to face.
its a way of sending signals of interest/confession -
thanks R3SsHn, me think the same and thanks for confirming. but this guy is like that for more than 2 years liao, I very sian with him. He not tired of doing so I am tired of his action already. Wanna be friends then say so lah, aiyo!! No guts then don't see see look look!!Originally posted by R3SsH|n:if i get what you are saying.
its because the guy wants the girl to know he is looking at her and to let her know he is interested in her but don't dare to say out face to face.
its a way of sending signals of interest/confession
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U never try, u never know.mayb she also admier u?Think positively,get more confidence.Originally posted by Agenda:Me now working at taka.. Very slack 1 My sales supervisor all heck care what you do except don't go aboard..
Then I notice got this kinda cute girl near my counter, She's not near as next door counter or what, It's like have to go through the "road" to reach
Not that I'm interested in her or what, Maybe just abit.. But just wanna know her as a friend ba..
If you work at dept store before, You will know where a Road is.. Like those main walkways where customers walk to get out of the store etc.. ya?
Because of the road, The counter is quite far then thats why no reason to go talk lor..
My colleague tell me to just go there fiddle with the stuff she is selling then try to say hi or strike up a conversation.. But I very scared leh..
Firstly, I scared people say I anyhow xian charbo or what
Secondly, I am not confident of myself.. Like her counter area got so many shuai guys though they never really talk to her...
& dun ask open ended question at start>(ans wid yes/no) wait she jus gv u 1 ans den ur brain stuck.
Compliment her> lik> when walk pass her, make her notice u, den say hey, today u look different.some char bor are lik this, make her curiosity more.since in service line, outlook is important, say her more good things..
dun care wat others say u(pervert or wat) go for ur own goals.
when eventually u get to be wid her, u get the last laugh.
Lastly, prey more, & good Luck. -
like this can only means a couple of things.Originally posted by rane:thanks R3SsHn, me think the same and thanks for confirming. but this guy is like that for more than 2 years liao, I very sian with him. He not tired of doing so I am tired of his action already. Wanna be friends then say so lah, aiyo!! No guts then don't see see look look!!
1) he hasn't found someone else to look at and think about( relationship dependency)
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hee hee, i ever thought about what u mentioned above, too. Anyway, what I have to say is there were a few good opportunities, it is just that he screwed things up so too bad!!Originally posted by R3SsH|n:like this can only means a couple of things.
1) he hasn't found someone else to look at and think about( relationship dependency)
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gotta learn from screwed up... nobody is born knowing how to walk
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Problem is he never learn leh!Originally posted by Kouyou:gotta learn from screwed up... nobody is born knowing how to walk 
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are we still talking about me here?
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Originally posted by Agenda:are we still talking about me here?
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Originally posted by Agenda:are we still talking about me here?
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If you not gonna regert not taking her number and knowing her name so be it. So what you have dreamt of her and look at her in your dreams, Won't it be better if you look at her across a table at mcdonalds and talks to her.
You see, sg girls are like that stand there, even interested, and wait for you to approach (Sorry about the stereotyping, no offense) . If you dont do anything, nothings gonna happen. If you have friends that know her, and that is your chance, make something out of the advantage to know. -
agree with you. no point dreaming and talking about it, no action no gain!!Originally posted by Herroin:If you not gonna regert not taking her number and knowing her name so be it. So what you have dreamt of her and look at her in your dreams, Won't it be better if you look at her across a table at mcdonalds and talks to her.
You see, sg girls are like that stand there, even interested, and wait for you to approach (Sorry about the stereotyping, no offense) . If you dont do anything, nothings gonna happen. If you have friends that know her, and that is your chance, make something out of the advantage to know. -
I ran 5 laps today hoping to finish with a bang and forget about it..
But today I saw someone who looks like her.. -
wah lao da!Originally posted by Agenda:I ran 5 laps today hoping to finish with a bang and forget about it..
But today I saw someone who looks like her..
miss her so much go find her!
maybe she's waiting for u lo. -
Delusion about a girl and a relationship with her, guys always do that. Sometimes the expectation of the girl's behaviour would not been what you thought it will turn out to be. Look at the bright side, you got a perfect image of her without flaws, if you knew about her, it might just destroy the image and it might not turn out as what you think it will be. You may start to discover flaws, bad habits that she had. Furthermore, there are more people out there, just like what you said, people that do look like her and might have better personality than her.
Look Forward rather than backwards -
are u referrin to the girl near the cold storage area in B1?
i think i noe her!
lol
stay away!! -
why?