Urgent question to ask those who are attached...
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Lets say your gf or bf is going for a holiday to hong kong with his/her classmates. There are only 3 people going in total. Your bf/gf plus another girl and guy. So it would be like 2 girls and 1 guy sharing the same room.
They would all be sharing the same room to save on expenses. Assume the guy to be 23yrs old
Would you object to it?
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kid. go msn.
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scared gf run ah? haha. aiya let lor. she your gf only ma. just let her know that u feeling uneasy but u will not object lor. -
The guy 23yrs old leh. And he ask her pay $700 for his airfare first, cos he no money now....Originally posted by bladez87:kid. go msn.
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scared gf run ah? haha. aiya let lor. she your gf only ma. just let her know that u feeling uneasy but u will not object lor. -
Just have a good talk with your gf la....Originally posted by shade343:The guy 23yrs old leh. Some he ask her pay $700 for his airfare first, cos he no money now....
no point asking us....
cos we are not your gf... we do not have the answers that you need... -
if ur object will ur gf threaten to break up with u?
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errm no, but she will be very sad.Originally posted by FireIce:if ur object will ur gf threaten to break up with u?
Cos she plan this trip for 1 month already....
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tell him go die.
tell her, it is her $, if she can trust him. go ahead lor.
u see whatever u do, if she dont like them, u die.
if u let her make her own decisions, and later they are wrong, she cant blame u.
if u scared she run, then u also no choice. will run is will run. u dont let her go with her, she also will run. dont quarrel over this event, or else u will only make her think u unreasonable.
this type of thing, easy said, hard to do. but i tell u, if u dont experience all this once, u will not believe it.
actually , just ask what u have in mind, i mean your concerns. -
23 years old hahahaha, the guy so young, of course won't object.
I will only object the 700 bucks, coz if she pay means I pay. 
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Sounds like they have done it before. Also sounds a bit like an orgy is going to take place.Originally posted by shade343:Lets say your gf or bf is going for a holiday to hong kong with his/her classmates. There are only 3 people going in total. Your bf/gf plus another girl and guy. So it would be like 2 girls and 1 guy sharing the same room.
They would all be sharing the same room to save on expenses. Assume the guy to be 23yrs old
Would you object to it? -
So confusing. She going or you going?
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she is the one going...sharing the room with another girl and a 23 yr old guy.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:So confusing. She going or you going? -
3 ppl is 3some lahOriginally posted by norm:Sounds like they have done it before. Also sounds a bit like an orgy is going to take place. -
ask the guy dun go if he has no money.
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and YOU are paying for it?Originally posted by shade343:she is the one going...sharing the room with another girl and a 23 yr old guy.
How long have u been attached to her?
I think if you know the couple going with her, there isn't much of a problem at all. Even if you don't know also Actually non-issue.
The thing that eeks me is for someone to go on a trip when she doesn't have enough money need to ask someone else to pay for it.
-shake head- live within ya means.. her means i mean. -
ask her.... why is she paying for him?
talk to her gently.... -
no no.. see
HE is paying
SHE is going. -
nono, Im not the one paying for anything. She pays everything herself. And it upsets me to see her working 12 hours a day just to go for this HK trip....Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:and YOU are paying for it?
How long have u been attached to her?
I think if you know the couple going with her, there isn't much of a problem at all. Even if you don't know also Actually non-issue.
The thing that eeks me is for someone to go on a trip when she doesn't have enough money need to ask someone else to pay for it.
-shake head- live within ya means.. her means i mean. -
a guy asking a girl to pay for him??? fishy......Originally posted by shade343:The guy 23yrs old leh. And he ask her pay $700 for his airfare first, cos he no money now....
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Shade. Do you trust this guy? Whether you know him or not is an asset.
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SHe say just lening him money, cos tt guy told her he no money now, will pay her back ect ect...Originally posted by smudgey:ask her.... why is she paying for him?
talk to her gently.... -
I only know he is my gf classmate. Yr 1 also. BUt my gf says he is a nice guy, and shld be ok...haix...Originally posted by Bontakun:Shade. Do you trust this guy? Whether you know him or not is an asset. -
So you trust your GF oso loh? Then trust them bah.Originally posted by shade343:I only know he is my gf classmate. Yr 1 also. BUt my gf says he is a nice guy, and shld be ok...haix... -
kid. go msn.
LOL..not scared GF run..But worried for gf..scared they got rape by tat guy..haha.
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scared gf run ah? haha. aiya let lor. she your gf only ma. just let her know that u feeling uneasy but u will not object lor -
later that guy never return her money how ? $700 le
and sharing a room with 2 gals ?! -
u got money?Originally posted by shade343:The guy 23yrs old leh. And he ask her pay $700 for his airfare first, cos he no money now....
why dun u lend some money for his hotel room oso?
otherwise, its quite alright ba.
if it gotta happens, it will.