Potential GF Stealer...
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I don't think he's saying the TS is harmless, but not really the type of person majority might have labelled him to be?Originally posted by ah_tee:pls see my post above, i do not care whether he exists or not, but chee hong farkers like this do exist,
i m not attacking anybody, i m jus voicing out wad impression i am given
i have already posted abit abt myself, if anybody wants to call me a insecure freak, well, i have already justified myself and i cant change wad pple think abt me ,i wont go to the basis of accusing pple of personal attacks because i cant pleased anybody
same as wad sumone has mentioned, he feels the whole lot of us are insercure freaks, and the threadstart actions is somehow harmless, well, i have to labelled him together wif the threadstarter, condemn him together
sorry but this is the way it goes
I can understand that he could have been harsh with his words when he made that remark on the majority of you when he sensed that you people are just giving name(s) the TS might not truly deserve. But somehow he has already made peace on that?
Drop the issue for now and make peace?
Labelling people name(s), condemning people and making personal attack on another forumite based on such grounds is totally not acceptable in AA. -
Ok, PEACE OUT PEOPLE. Let's all just take a step back, RESPECT each other and RESPECT OURSELVES?
The issue shall DROP from here, and no more continuation from THIS POST ONWARDS...
UNLESS either of you are asking for MY NECESSARY ACTIONS?
PEACE OUT. VOriginally posted by ah_tee:i cant stop u from interpreting as a personal attack
just like u cant stop me from interpreting your words to the impression i mentioed
i didnt say it in a moment of folly, it seems like u supported the threadstarter's actions of breaking pple up
all genders have their freedom wif their own friends, my gf has her own guy friends, i have my own female friends, but i will make sure all her guys are actually genuinely for friendship, all those persuasive ones or CHEE HONG ones are all being filtered off by me
i will normally tell her if i feel this guy is not right, its up to her to interpret it, there are times she didnt believe me, but after sometime, the guy express his feelings to her
i have also make mentioned to her abt having a "safety line", if pple cross the line, u gotta be alert, tats how i got rid of chee hongs like the threadstarter
of cos i make sure for my side, everything is answerable to her as well, i duno if u think i m insercure, but having a fixed system like this , it cuts down on baseless accusations between us, likewise i am always open to her views on my female friends
i am sorry but the threadstarter give me the feeling of chee hong i see everyday in life, many of my own guy friends are like this, they say they feel "shiok" dating, or farking other pple gf
so right now, u r supporting the threadstarter, so to me, it makes u one also
u call me young ? can i say u r personally attacking me ? how do u know i m young ?
hope this will clear the air, i m not accusing u, i m a bery objective person, i say things based on factsOriginally posted by SumOne:This is the personal attack that I and the mod were talking about. There was no need for this really. -
No worries, no offence taken.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:But to Sumone..l really hav to say sumtinz la..l am nt trying to bring up another arguement with u..But look at how many ppl see ur actions as? And how many agree with u?
l tink it would be better if u do sum reflecting on urself oso...
If wad u says is the right thing , then y so many disagree with ya..and called u such person a chee hong kia...[/quote]
About ppl not getting what I said, mod has said something which I agree.
On top of that, it's also my point on how quickly people label a guy who's friendly with girls as a buaya. And I mean friendly, not overly friendly.
If I felt that people in general aren't prone to making such wrong assumptions, then I won't have made my first post in this thread anyway. It's precisely because most people are easily mistaken regarding this issue.
Sorry, but I really see no need to reflect. At least, not pertaining to how quickly people in singapore tend to make the wrong judgement.[quote]ya and that is all l wan to say la
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Not trying to question your role as a mod, but by saying that, do you mean this thread is closed?Originally posted by Devil1976:Ok, PEACE OUT PEOPLE. Let's all just take a step back, RESPECT each other and RESPECT OURSELVES?
The issue shall DROP from here, and no more continuation from THIS POST ONWARDS...
UNLESS either of you are asking for MY NECESSARY ACTIONS?
PEACE OUT. V
Or do you just mean no more personal attacks because I'm perfectly fine with that. It'd be nice to let some genuine discussion continue instead. -
I admit that when I'm friendly.... I'm a buaya~!!! wahahahaha
coz I hv character somehow like FireIce... Either too Hot or... Too cold
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I think he just didn't read carefully and got carried away.Originally posted by Devil1976:I don't think he's saying the TS is harmless, but not really the type of person majority might have labelled him to be? -
Great, now having said that, I hope you don't start getting condemned here.Originally posted by sunny6110:I admit that when I'm friendly.... I'm a buaya~!!! wahahahaha
coz I hv character somehow like FireIce... Either too Hot or... Too cold -
well pissed becos of the things he say and the things he say he do bah...Originally posted by Devil1976:I think that's probably because majority of the people are simply just pissed with the TS...?
haha, okie...
Anyway l wont be posting anything on this thread since devil has already spoke up that we discontinue
And to SumOne...dun argue anymore...is never ending story to continue to reason and argue with ppl....seriously..that is wad l tink la..so l ended my conversation or u could say arguement with u...
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If I want to close this thread, it would have been closed.Originally posted by SumOne:Not trying to question your role as a mod, but by saying that, do you mean this thread is closed?
Or do you just mean no more personal attacks because I'm perfectly fine with that. It'd be nice to let some genuine discussion continue instead. -
Yeah, that's what I thought. But everyone stopped posting already anyway.Originally posted by Devil1976:If I want to close this thread, it would have been closed.