Friendship or Girlfriend
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which is important? I am quite confused over it.
Sometime when I am lonely, I will think of having a girlfriend. But If I hanged out with my friends, I felt that I am not ready for relationship.
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both are equally important..
if no gf then frens more important..gf no need rush
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if both are important, why some in thirties or fourties havent got a gf?Originally posted by SGpork:both are equally important..
if no gf then frens more important..gf no need rush -
Dont care what others think...Its your life...If anyone comes to you and try to decide for you..Curse his mom
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What aren't you ready to let go of?Originally posted by soggy87:Sometime when I am lonely, I will think of having a girlfriend. But If I hanged out with my friends, I felt that I am not ready for relationship. -
havent found the right 1 to stay with ? or they themself..got a problem with it?Originally posted by soggy87:if both are important, why some in thirties or fourties havent got a gf?
u asked me...
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It is difficult to maintain friendship and girlfriend. I have a hard time. Both important but gf will still come first!
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friends are more likely to last forever..
frens mean more to me now.. second to family. -
Find a girlfriend who can hang out with yr friends one
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which girl can hang out with guys that smoke and play dota till late late?Originally posted by X-men:Find a girlfriend who can hang out with yr friends one
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If I managed to win a girl's heart, i wouldnt know what to do next.
mayb I dun have the comittment yet.Originally posted by Kuali Baba:What aren't you ready to let go of? -
Its good you realise something about yourself when it comes to relationship between guys and gals. Many people could not or don't even bother to think about what you have mentioned.Originally posted by soggy87:If I managed to win a girl's heart, i wouldnt know what to do next.
mayb I dun have the comittment yet.
Learn more about yourself and what you want. Through your journey you will slowly learn more and mature, thus one step closer to being ready for commitment.
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quit smoking then n play less dotaOriginally posted by soggy87:which girl can hang out with guys that smoke and play dota till late late?
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Having neither in ur life would be total bliss.
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what makes you said that? I am curious.Originally posted by Patrik:Having neither in ur life would be total bliss.
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well, your the one who said both are important.Originally posted by SGpork:havent found the right 1 to stay with ? or they themself..got a problem with it?
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but some said if you liked that girl, chase her then say. If she got feelings for you and you dun chase, you will regret.Originally posted by Bontakun:Its good you realise something about yourself when it comes to relationship between guys and gals. Many people could not or don't even bother to think about what you have mentioned.
Learn more about yourself and what you want. Through your journey you will slowly learn more and mature, thus one step closer to being ready for commitment. -
a few years later, u might start asking urself why you wasted ur life away on dota when you can get a gf.
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Save some money and find a life outside MMORPGs for a change!
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Freedom is priceless - so make sure you only lose your freedom for someone whom you think is worth committing to...Originally posted by soggy87:what makes you said that? I am curious. -
Should you emerge from the scars of a failed relationship a decade from now, you might be asking why you bothered with one to begin with...Originally posted by mayday80:a few years later, u might start asking urself why you wasted ur life away on dota when you can get a gf. -
haiz sometime i really feel very confusted that whether i should find a bf or jus stay single and wait for m fate come..bt whenever i tink of that..when valentines day come..when i walk in e road..i wil saw many couple walkin here n there behind of mi n infront of mi..they tokin to each other v mussy word n many mussy action..walau...wa biang..y cant they repect us single women? sigh..bt smetime when i saw all my fren gt bf or married alr..i oso feel hapi 4 them..n i oso wish that i cn hav a bf too..to love mi dote mi care mi n concern mi..bt all e guy i mit is jus wan sex n nt serious to mi n is jus play play wan..no guy wil cherish n treasure mi as their gf...am i reali look like loose gal? cheap gal? y guy always treat mi like dat..haiz guy is treat mi too unfair alr..btw cn anyone giv mi sme advices n comment in my q tat i ask u all? tks alot..guy n girl oso can giv mi advices n comment..welcom all..tc n hope to heard frm all of u soon..
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you sure dota beats hanging out with girls, or dating or having a meaningful relationship? Even the worst relationship would have started with some wonderful moments in the beginning. Plus you never know which relationship will work or fail till you're in it and you tried making it work. It'll be real sad to see a guy playing dota for a decade and not even try to get into some meaningful relationship.Originally posted by walesa:Should you emerge from the scars of a failed relationship a decade from now, you might be asking why you bothered with one to begin with... -
hmm... portrait yourself as someone who is looking for a long term r/s (eg. hus). how to do so? maybe u can try and communicate with those potential guys 1st. make sure u got the hint clearly to them, for those guys who are not commited to settle down, wont dare to step further to this r/s cos they will be afraid that u are hard to shake off. & also, thru' communication, u can roughly judge how that person is like, but of cos not 100%.Originally posted by huishan:haiz sometime i really feel very confusted that whether i should find a bf or jus stay single and wait for m fate come..bt whenever i tink of that..when valentines day come..when i walk in e road..i wil saw many couple walkin here n there behind of mi n infront of mi..they tokin to each other v mussy word n many mussy action..walau...wa biang..y cant they repect us single women? sigh..bt smetime when i saw all my fren gt bf or married alr..i oso feel hapi 4 them..n i oso wish that i cn hav a bf too..to love mi dote mi care mi n concern mi..bt all e guy i mit is jus wan sex n nt serious to mi n is jus play play wan..no guy wil cherish n treasure mi as their gf...am i reali look like loose gal? cheap gal? y guy always treat mi like dat..haiz guy is treat mi too unfair alr..btw cn anyone giv mi sme advices n comment in my q tat i ask u all? tks alot..guy n girl oso can giv mi advices n comment..welcom all..tc n hope to heard frm all of u soon..
another way is... noe the right person at the right place & time. trying to generalise here... no offence to those cluber... how many guys who ask for no. in a club is looking for a long term r/s? hence, i think is impt to mixed with the right kind of friends. -
since they only want to play play with you, dun meet them or go into relationship with them.
it also depends where you meet those guys? it is not you that look loose.
i also everyday see couple do this do that. but what can i do?Originally posted by huishan:haiz sometime i really feel very confusted that whether i should find a bf or jus stay single and wait for m fate come..bt whenever i tink of that..when valentines day come..when i walk in e road..i wil saw many couple walkin here n there behind of mi n infront of mi..they tokin to each other v mussy word n many mussy action..walau...wa biang..y cant they repect us single women? sigh..bt smetime when i saw all my fren gt bf or married alr..i oso feel hapi 4 them..n i oso wish that i cn hav a bf too..to love mi dote mi care mi n concern mi..bt all e guy i mit is jus wan sex n nt serious to mi n is jus play play wan..no guy wil cherish n treasure mi as their gf...am i reali look like loose gal? cheap gal? y guy always treat mi like dat..haiz guy is treat mi too unfair alr..btw cn anyone giv mi sme advices n comment in my q tat i ask u all? tks alot..guy n girl oso can giv mi advices n comment..welcom all..tc n hope to heard frm all of u soon..