Honeymoon Period
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Yes, I believe that if people enter a relationship with that mindset, it's as good as hopping onto a slippery slope.Originally posted by fatslob:I wonder whether it good to go into a relationship with this kind of expectation, could it be a self-fulfilling prophecy also?
If 2 persons are truly in love with each other (the si3 xin1 ta1 di4 that kind of love), every day of their lives can be a honeymoon. But of course, all these are theory.
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Then they're not mature to handle a longer lasting relationship and the relationship deserves to die as it is....Originally posted by rainee:sigh this is true...
it is like every couple is expecting this to come...then when they are already in a r/s, will start to take each other for granted, then when one party make noise abt being neglected, the other party might just answer,"aiya, honeymoon period over liao ma."
It is like using this as an excuse to neglect the partner
By the way, a relationship depending on 'honeymoon period' alone to fuel it is just PATHETIC... Just as shallow as it is, it just doesn't really deserves to go any DEEPER...? -
that is definitely an excuses... as time goes by, it is true that we might take our partner for granted... but... doesnt mean honeymoon period over liao...Originally posted by rainee:sigh this is true...
it is like every couple is expecting this to come...then when they are already in a r/s, will start to take each other for granted, then when one party make noise abt being neglected, the other party might just answer,"aiya, honeymoon period over liao ma."
It is like using this as an excuse to neglect the partner
although 1st few month indeed is sweeter.. but thru out my 2yr plus with my FH, it like everyday is honeymoon period excluding times when we quarrel...
and we shdnt expect this to come... -
not really la..my parents married over 30 years liao still very loving...still go paktor.
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yes, totally believe that it's possible..
jus make believe.. my bf is so sweet. he said to me "we will be so sweet not just during the honeymoon period, i will make this last.."
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SO SWEET...Originally posted by joanne:yes, totally believe that it's possible..
jus make believe.. my bf is so sweet. he said to me "we will be so sweet not just during the honeymoon period, i will make this last.." 
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Its very difficult to describe "honeymoon period", but I can point you to a few reference threads, read up the problems, and you get the idea.
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i thot so tooOriginally posted by Devil1976:SO SWEET... -
*Puts on Philosopher Hat*
Life is a cycle
To deny it is to live in pain
Expecting the impossibility.
Life is a cycle
Embrace it and live in Bliss
Expecting Reality.
Understand the cycles of Life
Is to understand self
Face one's cyclical nature.
Cycles can spiral up
Cycles can spiral down
Cycles can spiral neither up or down.
*This is all I have to say, the rest is up to you.*